Some people pretend not recognizing me

[TheGlamorous]

Damn. Yeah that's the way people can be when they can't explain something. They wonder why your appearance has changed so much. I hope this isn't an indication of everybody at large but just your jaded view of the situtation, lol, because I'm not liking the sound of it.

 

[CCS]

I'm not having that problem now. But I do think appearance can be a huge factor in whether they say high, especially if they think you like them.

My friend, who looks worse than me and gets way more action, gets action by dating women who are below average looking. He seems happy. And he can jokingly talk about sex with some hotties too. But he swore up and down to them that he was just kidding and would never act on it even if offered it, so they feel comfortable playing along. But when he invited her back to his place to hang out with us a while, she said no. I guess she suspected he was hopeful and that was too far outside her comfort zone. But it was nice of her to pick us up and give us a ride on short notice. She was about a 9 and he and I are about 7's. So it is possible to have good looking friends. (though not necessary)

I thought I could only get a below average looking woman. But now I think I can do a bit above average.

 

[Skaff]

This is some classic CCS:

My friend, who looks worse than me and gets way more action.

This is my favorite: :lol:

She was about a 9 and he and I are about 7's. So it is possible to have good looking friends.

These are the words of a warped mind :hairy:

 

[TheGlamorous]

This is some classic CCS:

My friend, who looks worse than me and gets way more action.

This is my favorite: :lol:

She was about a 9 and he and I are about 7's. So it is possible to have good looking friends.

These are the words of a warped mind :hairy:

Yeah it's crazy. I mean I think of myself as an 8.6554455676 but if I lose another hair that puts me down to 8.6554455602. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

/ends paraphrasing collegechemstudent

 

[ShadoW DanceR]

Loooooooooooool speculum2 :lol:

 

[ginald]

..........

I thought I could only get a below average looking woman. But now I think I can do a bit above average.

ccs:
i thought you couldnt get a woman??...and this seemed to be the whole nub of your problem.

from this post of yours its sounds like youre getting some action.

please clarify. have you been stringing us along all this time?

ps the points system is great and easy to use.

btw what would you score farrah fawcett at age 30, 40 ,50 and 60 years old...do you take age into account?

 

[Guest]

Guys, everyone has there own mentality and beliefs on dating and life in general. What you believe is usually your reality. I'm glad I don't have the same mentality/beliefs as CCS.

 

[ceee]

Some people pretend not recognizing me on the streets. There are ex-colleagues, and some some friends of my sister- pretty girls. I know they recognize me, but maybe it's easier to them to do so, not to show their confusion. I shave my head. I always look in the face of a person on the street, but they avoid eye contact.
They are not my friends, though I had funny times and talks with them in the past. So that's the impact of hairloss.
I just feel that people very cold, but that shows mostly when you are in trouble.
So, this is it, folks.

I think it's more likely that they actually don't recognize you. Since I started shaving many people who were used to me with longer hair don't know who I am until I start talking.

 

[hairwegoagain]

Askas - why aren't you engaging these people that you see? It sounds like you expect them to always make the effort to start conversation with YOU. Sometimes (often) that's just not how it works.

You can not expect others to do all the work in order to get to "keep things alive." Simply making eye contact is not enough.

 

[IBM]

Some people of my family avoided me (cousins, etc..). But my family is very unstable and we dont like each other.

 

[LookingGood!]

CCS,

How many times a day do you curl the carrot now?
The over is 5 or 6. :x

Hair wont get you women silly. :cry:

Bald men with the "schtick" get laid. :wink:

You gotta love it when someone spends 18,000 dollars and still cant get laid! :freaked2:

 

[dirtrider67]

heck...200.00 on craigslist will get you some fine lovin.

i think what CCS needs to do is start out with a 5 then try to get a 6 and if that don't work then get a 4 and if that still doesn't work, try to get a 4. and if that works then go for the 7 and move up to an 8 or 9. if all else fails, go for #1 and watch out that you don't step in #2.

anyhow, like LG said, you need a lot more than hair to get a woman.

 

[Nathaniel]

I must confess, I always thought I had a twisted view of the world but CCS just owned me.

 

[LookingGood!]

I must confess, I always thought I had a twisted view of the world but CCS just owned me.

LMAO

Twisted yes he certainly is. He is the only guy on myspace that has no friends....not even the founder of my space!!!

There's always p**rn CCS!

 

[sphlanx2006]

Dont get it y do u all go so hard on CCS? He is just square-minded preety usual for a devoted scientist. 8) Have u seen the movie "A beautiful mind" where Russell Crowe says to a woman "i want to have liquids exchange with you" reffering to sex ? Anyway, i too disagree with CCS but i think this kind of thinking saves you from being badly hurt sometimes. Actually sometimes i wish i could see things from such a cold-blooded perspective...it would probably save me the last 5 months of depression because of a stupid breakup :?

//edit// Kevin Spacey in "A beautiful mind" ?? WTF was i thinking

 

[barnabas]

Some people pretend not recognizing me on the streets. There are ex-colleagues, and some some friends of my sister- pretty girls. I know they recognize me, but maybe it's easier to them to do so, not to show their confusion. I shave my head. I always look in the face of a person on the street, but they avoid eye contact.
They are not my friends, though I had funny times and talks with them in the past. So that's the impact of hairloss.
I just feel that people very cold, but that shows mostly when you are in trouble.
So, this is it, folks.

That's not necessarily hairloss, used to have that exact same problem before hairloss just due to bad social skills. If you are constantly nervous and worrying about whether people are going to say hi to you or not and whether you should say hi to THEM or not, it's going to show and this is going to happen. If you make them uncomfortable, they will not go out of their way to say hi to you unless they're really nice. Most probably, it has nothing to do with appearance.

 

[TheGlamorous]

Some people pretend not recognizing me on the streets. There are ex-colleagues, and some some friends of my sister- pretty girls. I know they recognize me, but maybe it's easier to them to do so, not to show their confusion. I shave my head. I always look in the face of a person on the street, but they avoid eye contact.
They are not my friends, though I had funny times and talks with them in the past. So that's the impact of hairloss.
I just feel that people very cold, but that shows mostly when you are in trouble.
So, this is it, folks.

That's not necessarily hairloss, used to have that exact same problem before hairloss just due to bad social skills. If you are constantly nervous and worrying about whether people are going to say hi to you or not and whether you should say hi to THEM or not, it's going to show and this is going to happen. If you make them uncomfortable, they will not go out of their way to say hi to you unless they're really nice. Most probably, it has nothing to do with appearance.

Yep that's true. Couldn't agree more.

 

[templemonk]

omg .. i laughed so hard reading this post, i can't even breathe right now.. :lol:

CCS, you are my hero today!

 

[LookingGood!]

Dont get it y do u all go so hard on CCS? He is just square-minded preety usual for a devoted scientist. 8) Have u seen the movie "A beuatyful mind" where Kevin Spacey says to a woman "i want to have liquids exchange with you" reffering to sex ? Anyway, i too disagree with CCS but i think this kind of thinking saves you from being badly hurt sometimes. Actually sometimes i wish i could see things from such a cold-blooded perspective...it would probably save me the last 5 months of depression because of a stupid breakup :?

OK, that's a bit of a stretch comparing CCS to the brilliant but twisted scientist Russell Crowe portrayed in "Beautiful MInd".

Devoted scientist or obsessive compulsive poster, I would lean towards the latter.

 

[CCS]

Dont get it y do u all go so hard on CCS? He is just square-minded preety usual for a devoted scientist. 8) Have u seen the movie "A beuatyful mind" where Kevin Spacey says to a woman "i want to have liquids exchange with you" reffering to sex ? Anyway, i too disagree with CCS but i think this kind of thinking saves you from being badly hurt sometimes. Actually sometimes i wish i could see things from such a cold-blooded perspective...it would probably save me the last 5 months of depression because of a stupid breakup :?

Yeah, I developed all this to escape a huge depression from a rejection from someone I was really into. This took place over the three years we hung out and went to many romantic places at all hours, just as "friends".