Some people pretend not recognizing me

[s.a.f]

Yeah, I developed all this to escape a huge depression from a rejection from someone I was really into. This took place over the three years we hung out and went to many romantic places at all hours, just as "friends".

Its not always about getting what you want. Sometimes you have to make the sacrifice and learn to deal with it. But dont see it as a failure just another example that you dont always get what you deserve in life.

 

[I_Hate_DHT]

I'm not having that problem now. But I do think appearance can be a huge factor in whether they say high, especially if they think you like them.

My friend, who looks worse than me and gets way more action, gets action by dating women who are below average looking. He seems happy. And he can jokingly talk about sex with some hotties too. But he swore up and down to them that he was just kidding and would never act on it even if offered it, so they feel comfortable playing along. But when he invited her back to his place to hang out with us a while, she said no. I guess she suspected he was hopeful and that was too far outside her comfort zone. But it was nice of her to pick us up and give us a ride on short notice. She was about a 9 and he and I are about 7's. So it is possible to have good looking friends. (though not necessary)

I thought I could only get a below average looking woman. But now I think I can do a bit above average.

You are completely wrong.


Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

You can be a 0 for some girls and a 4 for others.

The girl you consider a 9 can be a 3 for me.

And the girls I consider 8 can be a 5 for you.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When will people learn this? I thought it was common sense.

 

[barnabas]

It's true to a point, but you're not going to find many women who think Clint Howard is a 9, for example. But plenty of women either don't really care about baldness and a few even like it, just like some guys have foot fetishes and some are chubby chasers and what-not, different strokes for different folks.

Also, having done volunteer work in a hospital, you'd be amazed by who comes in with STDs. Tons of toothless homeless guys, tremendously fat drug addicts, etc...if THEY can get laid a bald guy obviously will have no problem getting someone.