It is actually good enough that some of you should insist on it. Obviously if you are a stud you might not need to, but hear me out:
Are you worried about spending a lot of money on women who only last 3 dates? Does it cost money to get to know them in the safety of a social place, but then not work out, sometimes after spending hundreds of dollars over several dates?
Well here is how you can go dutch without sounding cheap:
Tell her you want to start out as just friends. Then try to hang out and get to know her, going dutch, since you are just friends. If she will not give you the time of day, then she is not being a friend and is not worthy of dating you. But if she does hang out and get to know you, then you two will actually know each other if you do ask her out on a date later, which means there won't be the "but I don't know you" issue any more.
Also, you can vastly increase your social networking circle this way. Instead of falling for women who say they have stuff in common with you, you can get to know them and see which ones actually do have something in common. You can screen out the ones who only want money and not your personality, since you are going dutch. And many women on dating web sites specifically say they want to start as just friends, so it is easy to go along with. The two women I got physical with were introduced to me by other friends. My brother also noticed that once he got a girlfriend, all of a sudden other women saw him as available instead of as invisible. This is a good way to set all that off.
Do not worry if she dates other men. You should not be in love or hurt since you don't know her yet. Only ask her on a date when you know she is a match from your time together, not from what you hope her to be or she says she is.
And this way, you can have other female friends and date other women and not have one-itis with a woman who does not feel the same way back. One-itis is only bad if she does not feel the same way.
Are you worried about spending a lot of money on women who only last 3 dates? Does it cost money to get to know them in the safety of a social place, but then not work out, sometimes after spending hundreds of dollars over several dates?
Well here is how you can go dutch without sounding cheap:
Tell her you want to start out as just friends. Then try to hang out and get to know her, going dutch, since you are just friends. If she will not give you the time of day, then she is not being a friend and is not worthy of dating you. But if she does hang out and get to know you, then you two will actually know each other if you do ask her out on a date later, which means there won't be the "but I don't know you" issue any more.
Also, you can vastly increase your social networking circle this way. Instead of falling for women who say they have stuff in common with you, you can get to know them and see which ones actually do have something in common. You can screen out the ones who only want money and not your personality, since you are going dutch. And many women on dating web sites specifically say they want to start as just friends, so it is easy to go along with. The two women I got physical with were introduced to me by other friends. My brother also noticed that once he got a girlfriend, all of a sudden other women saw him as available instead of as invisible. This is a good way to set all that off.
Do not worry if she dates other men. You should not be in love or hurt since you don't know her yet. Only ask her on a date when you know she is a match from your time together, not from what you hope her to be or she says she is.
And this way, you can have other female friends and date other women and not have one-itis with a woman who does not feel the same way back. One-itis is only bad if she does not feel the same way.
