I recognize my self a lot. Even tho i don't have real health issues, got a girlfriend and few friends, i still feel like utter sh*t when i see my f*****g thin nw3 hairline on the mirror. It makes me behave like a f*****g beta cuck low energy 21 yearsold boy, making me want to avoid the most possible public exposure, makes me sick and depressed 24/24. Also makes me fail my exams so i'm basically staying in my basement everyday waiting for my cuckold finasteride pills to arrive in order to keep my 50 years old hairs in place while i'm completly lost in this sh*t storm that society is in 2019.
f*** this utter sh*t condition.
This is pretty f*****g crazy.
The way some people can not care about balding / decide to shave their head and own it. How some people can living in anguish knowing that they are going bald.
You need to do the following:
1.
Delete ALL social media(unless you use it for motivational purposes)
. Social media only shows the highlights of peoples lives, the reality is almost everyone has an insecurity or 2 of their own that affects them just as much or more than you balding and they use the likes/comments to boost their ego/self esteem which makes them forget about their demons for a while. 99.9% of people lifestyle on Instagram is unsustainable ie who the f*** can afford a vacation to a different par of the world every other week and pay for rent/mortgage/bills/etc.
2.
Get on your purpose, if you don't know what your purpose is you need to find it and monetize it (it's usually anything you are passionate about). You are 21 years old which is very young - Honestly everyone in their 20's is a f*****g retard in the nicest way possible. Stop comparing yourself to other people and start grinding. If you aren't working 80+ hours a week at your age then you are heading for a cliff. Getting on your purpose will give your life meaning and 99.9% of the time you won't hate what you do unlike your job. Ones you start to see some success it will boost your confidence and ego a little bit.
3.
Takeup weightlifting as soon as possible if you aren't already. All the videos you need are on youtube.
Getting in shape will boost your confidence and ego in a good way, also physical exercise is a great way to relieve stress and anxiety, also your body releases natural drugs (endorphins) when you exercise.
NW3 is not so bad at 21 so you have time to take care of your hair until a hair transplant(use good shampoo, eat clean, don't smoke/drink etc) and wait until you are in your late 20s/early 30s for a hair transplant.
This is pretty much what I did except I didn't have social media to begin with (I'm 32 now)
I started losing my temples at around 18, didn't notice that I was balding until 26 when I graduated and realized I hated my line of work which I went to college for I did some research about hair loss prevention at this time, learned about finasteride but didn't go for it because I read about all the online horror stories . At 30 I was NW4 and heading for NW6 or 7 and that is when panic set in. I decided to do a lot more research and take on finastriede/start using good shampoo without any side effects. I have a FUE booked in exactly 2 months from now.
