Suicidal Over A Girl..don't Think I'll Ever Get Over It.

[SlinkyDink]

Dude, you'll get over it trust me. I've been in the same situation (this was before I started losing my hair) My ex left me for some absolute dick who was supposed to be my friend. I felt like sh*t, not eating, feeling sick, losing weight, depressed, drinking all the time to drown my sorrows, nothing helped. I thought I'd never get over it. I used to look in the mirror and think 'what the f*** is wrong with me' But you've gotta find your motivation and set your mind on something other than her. Because if you just sit around moping about it all the time you'll just make yourself worse. Get yourself an outside hobby. In the end, you'll just realise she was just some skank b**ch who wasnt even worth it. But please man stop thinking about the suicide bullshit. NO FEMALE is worth taking your life over. I know the hairloss will be having a massive effect on it no doubt, what's your regimen?

 

[Feelsbadman]

Dude, you'll get over it trust me. I've been in the same situation (this was before I started losing my hair) My ex left me for some absolute dick who was supposed to be my friend. I felt like sh*t, not eating, feeling sick, losing weight, depressed, drinking all the time to drown my sorrows, nothing helped. I thought I'd never get over it. I used to look in the mirror and think 'what the f*** is wrong with me' But you've gotta find your motivation and set your mind on something other than her. Because if you just sit around moping about it all the time you'll just make yourself worse. Get yourself an outside hobby. In the end, you'll just realise she was just some skank b**ch who wasnt even worth it. But please man stop thinking about the suicide bullshit. NO FEMALE is worth taking your life over. I know the hairloss will be having a massive effect on it no doubt, what's your regimen?

Hey man thanks for this

The thing is people don;t understand. I'm not suicidal over this girl she is just the trigger point.

I virtually have no friends and have small family. I've fucked up my entire life.
Last night i went to a bar by myself and tried to talk to people but failed and just came home and cried.

For the first time in 5 years, someone actually wanted to hang out with me and talk to me. I wasn't so god dam lonely. When i was with her i felt motivated, happier, i wanted to save money and better myself.

Now i'm back to just being super super lonely. This is why i'm so depressed and suicidal. Yes this girl was a thot, yes this girl wasnt someone i wanted to marry, yes this girl was very slutty and dumb but f*** it was better then just go to work at boring office job come home do nothing then friday night do nothing saturday nothing sunday nothing repeat.

She was fun. That's what she was. Simple as that. I dont have anyone i can genuinely be myself around and have fun.
I probably laugh once a month.

I litreally have no reason to live. N oreason to wake up in the morning nothing


i'm on finasteride 0.5mg a day but i don't think it's doing much

 

[karatekid]

Hey man thanks for this

The thing is people don;t understand. I'm not suicidal over this girl she is just the trigger point.

I virtually have no friends and have small family. I've fucked up my entire life.
Last night i went to a bar by myself and tried to talk to people but failed and just came home and cried.

For the first time in 5 years, someone actually wanted to hang out with me and talk to me. I wasn't so god dam lonely. When i was with her i felt motivated, happier, i wanted to save money and better myself.

Now i'm back to just being super super lonely. This is why i'm so depressed and suicidal. Yes this girl was a thot, yes this girl wasnt someone i wanted to marry, yes this girl was very slutty and dumb but f*** it was better then just go to work at boring office job come home do nothing then friday night do nothing saturday nothing sunday nothing repeat.

She was fun. That's what she was. Simple as that. I dont have anyone i can genuinely be myself around and have fun.
I probably laugh once a month.

I litreally have no reason to live. N oreason to wake up UOTE]

Hey man thanks for this

The thing is people don;t understand. I'm not suicidal over this girl she is just the trigger point.

I wonder why people dont understand you are not suicidal over this girl, when the title says: "Suicidal over a girl"...

Anyway, I can understand all the other stuff you wrote, and all I can do is wish you best, and hopefully you will manage to get your hair back.

 

[Capone]

Times a great healer.. she was a filthy slag! Join a yoga class and you’ll soon forget about the rodent.

 

[resu]

It might take a few years but you'll get over it and then look back at these times and wonder how you could have felt this way.

 

[INT]

@Feelsbadman, I was just reading some Jung (which I would recommend you too) and I came across the following quote":

"Don't hold on to someone who's leaving, otherwise you won't meet the one who's coming"

Hope that helps you in any way.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

It's getting tragic how dead and boring this forum has become.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Okay guys feeling a bit better today

I think for the next 6 months i'm going to really try and clean up my act.
I'm going to focus on starting a business. Even though it may not be totally realistic i'm going to try anyway. I've realised today i've spent so much time wasting myself and my potential.

I'm going t give tinder and girls a break.

Thanks guys, feeling a lot more positive and motivated today.

 

[Feelsbadman]

edit; i still think about her a lot of the time. really still does consume my thoughts and probably will for a long time. Her voice still rings in my head and i still remember her smell and body.

I need to try and stop myself from having these thoughts but it's hard

 

[DHTcel]

I've spoken to psychologists, posted on reddit, other forums but no one understands.

i think this is the only place that will understand.

I dont think im ever going to get over this girl i dated. I've never had a girlfiend before. When i was with her i wasn't working so had all the time in the world to looksmax. I probably bumped myself up to a 7/10.
This girl was super fit. She was a gym addict and had an incredible body.

Long story short after 8 months she left me for a tall good looking policeman NW1.

My hair is diffusing and getting worse, i'm no longer as attractive as i used to be. I don't think i'm ever going to be able to get get a girl like her again. I'm blowing up inside. I hate my life.

I go to work, sit in my boring as f*** office accounting job. Think about her. Finish work. Go to the gym. and repeat. I have no friends and not much family.

All i really had was her and my hair and now they are both going and so am i. I don't think i;ll ever get over her.

I fantasize about suicidal. On my lunch breaks i often break down and cry. I always walk passed this massive bridge and think about and see myself jumping off. I can't get over it dont think i ever will.

i'm like a 5/10 now. i have no purpose, no desires. I want to die.

I am the same as you but except I'm a 17 year old virgin that's never had a girlfriend,I fantasize about having a girlfriend every day,every day before bed I hug my pillow and pretend its a girl im sad and lonely all my friends have girlfriends even my cousins have girlfriends and one of them is going to have a child it makes me feel like sh*t I should be the first one to have a kid I know my parents think im a f*****g virgin loser,my mom even said once I'm going to be a 40 year old virgin, I dont know why, It sucks not having someone to love you its led me to sever depression and suicidal thoughts, just hang in there I am sure me and you will find someone...

 

[BeHereNow]

Some of you should question whether you’re mentally stable enough to maintain a healthy relationship with a woman.

 

[Derelict]

Stop with the hyperbole, you're 17 fcking years old. Almost every guy is a virgin that age.

That bica and other crap you're taking is raising your estrogen levels, that's the only way it can explain your emotional drivel.

He isn't even a virgin, he admitted to having sex before, try being 30 and a virgin, that sucks lol but it's not the end of the world.

 

[DHTcel]

He isn't even a virgin, he admitted to having sex before, try being 30 and a virgin, that sucks lol but it's not the end of the world.

prostistution doesn't count dude, it was 10 minutes, 70 bucks and she likely told others lmao, real love doesn't cost money

 

[infinitepain]

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