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Honestly i wouldnt even be mad if my wife would eventually leave me due to lack of physical attraction
Balding in men can be compared to weight gain in women.
And if my wife gained massiv weight and reached and a bmi beyond good and bad i wouldnt be physical attracted to her anymore. I wouldnt like to have sex with her which is then basically the end of every relationship. At least for me - i dont want to be that guy who fucks his wife 1 time every 3 month with lights out. So i dont know what i would do in this situation.
So no blame for being shallow - i mean ofc its sad and stuff and everyone promise to be there in good and ba(l)d times - but it is what it is. Even though i think i love her and i really think we have sth special.
But ofc im super frightened - i mean the whole dynamic in the relationship will change - i was better looking than her before with a lot of options and now this.
I mean it would be different if i were 40/50 or sth and married for 20 years but im not even 30...and here like over half of marriages end up in divorce..im not a dreamer.
Tldr:
Balding sucks
Balding kills my self esteem
Balding destroys my life
Balding in men can be compared to weight gain in women.
And if my wife gained massiv weight and reached and a bmi beyond good and bad i wouldnt be physical attracted to her anymore. I wouldnt like to have sex with her which is then basically the end of every relationship. At least for me - i dont want to be that guy who fucks his wife 1 time every 3 month with lights out. So i dont know what i would do in this situation.
So no blame for being shallow - i mean ofc its sad and stuff and everyone promise to be there in good and ba(l)d times - but it is what it is. Even though i think i love her and i really think we have sth special.
But ofc im super frightened - i mean the whole dynamic in the relationship will change - i was better looking than her before with a lot of options and now this.
I mean it would be different if i were 40/50 or sth and married for 20 years but im not even 30...and here like over half of marriages end up in divorce..im not a dreamer.
Tldr:
Balding sucks
Balding kills my self esteem
Balding destroys my life