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Lol. Love is just a combination of physical attraction, mental connection and understanding, and social expectations.
Most important thing being looks.
Pretty sure without looks there's no love. Also looks is everything in almost all interactions with the other sex.
I am physically repulsed by ugly women. I can't interact with them without feeling very uneasy. It's rather common, but (most of) us males are brought up to be accepting gentlemen and I would never 'eww' an ugly woman in her face.
(Most) women instead are brought up to be needy b****s who feel entitled to eww you explicitly making us baldies feel bad. Truth hurts a lot and we're reminded every day.
I still can't cope with the fact that having less hair meant losing all my female friends. It makes me very sad, but I understand it because I wouldn't be friends with them if they got sensibly uglier.
Our innermost reality is of animals wanting sex.
I know some girls who had (minor) rhinoplasty and they became significantly more attractive. No biggie.
Proper hair transplants have that effect on balding males: the most lucky (thickest donor and least hair loss) getting as many points bonus as that girl did with rhinoplasty.
The great difference is that getting facial surgery is changing your appearance, while hair transplant is getting back what's yours.
I was an ugly kid until I had my "growth spurt" at age 16, not only did my height increase but my whole facial shape. I wasn't even necessarily thin, I had now become good looking, and without realising it, so this was really baffling to me. As you see yourself daily in the mirror, I didn't notice the change, but it only happened within a few months. Before that I had many of the horror stories that people like @Dante express, complete rejection not only from girls but especially from other boys who were friends (in a "he's an ugly f*** let's not be seen with him at a party" kind of way), sometimes blatant, because I was this pudgy, freckly, curly haired mess. Cute as a kid, but definitely not as a young adolescent.
The girls I felt were unobtainable were suddenly interested, and I didn't know how to respond to this, years later I realised in retrospect that I felt angry. I had been with other girls from a young age, but they were nowhere near the standard I could suddenly find now, practically overnight (in terms of looking at things from a "lifetime" perspective).
That growth spurt was at the start of summer, a relatively ugly/fat girl who I had been seeing, wanted me to ensure I wished her a happy birthday in August. And before the growth spurt, I really liked her, but she was gone with her family all summer.
After the changes in my aesthetics and relative attention from actual hot girls, did I wish her a happy birthday?
LOL NO.
When I think of this sequence of events that haunts me, I feel bad of course, I don't know what to think. I've seen both sides of the coin of genetic luck, and the difference it makes.