The Cure For Baldness Is Giving Up On Women

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Whatever happens to the hair on my head I'll never give up on women. I love sweet sugar walls way too much brah. Damn I need some right now, could use me a phat ***.

 

[That Guy]

 

[Exodus2011]

But why would you give a sh*t about hating your aesthetics if it didn't matter in attracting a mate regardless?

I'd like to pretend to be all diplomatic here and say "well to each their own" but I simply don't think guys with this "b****s ain't sh*t it's MY hair and *I* care about it!" attitude are truly thinking it all through. Being happy with yourself in the mirror won't provide a normal social life, holidays, children, a future, a reason for existing, of course it is not guaranteed to be "happily ever after" but at least with hair you have the chance of pursuing such a thing. This gives you motivation to push yourself in life, simple as that.

Without it you feel sh*t, and you feel sh*t because you look sh*t for the opposite sex. It either closes down your options significantly so you're dating way below the standard the full-head you could have attracted, and will always feel bitter and resentful towards your partner and their shortcomings (and the fact that in a lot of cases you are now lucky to have them), OR it closes off your options completely.

People can continue claiming what they want, because this attitude is celebrated as a strong independent male version of "you go gurl!" but I simply think they're kidding themselves. Whatever small element looking in the mirror might factor in to it, this is completely irrelevant in how it affects our chances with the opposite sex, which is way, way more important.

If for some reason I knew I'd have no chance of having a future partner, say for example my dick no longer functioned or was completely disfigured somehow, I'd slybald without hesitancy, and focus on trying to hold on to some form of a life without having the opposite sex as a motivation to better myself. This is never going to be a better life but it is the best you can make of a bad situation, and I would no longer care about my facial aesthetics or social dominance anymore while knowing I won't ever be with someone. If anything I'd feel even worse when attracting women and knowing I can't pursue any further than glances and chatting.

But anyway, women over hair? Kidding yourself. For about a billion reasons, I could list some again but I'd have to trigger warn this post for incels.

#GiveItSomeThought

the self esteem of being your ACTUAL self (full head) and the girls you get with it are equally important. i guess something that i was thinking earlier is a good example. guys who have experience but are like obsessively broken hearted and sad about their exgirlfriends. like they dont have self esteem, but have the girls. they still aren't happy

i wager this would happen if you managed to get a gf while bald, you would always be on edge about her fidelity

idk at this point being an incel has completely destroyed my desire for an actual relationship. i just want an attractive smart girl to approve of my existence and be romantically/sexually attracted to me. my self esteem is so low that i just go "ick" at the idea of intimacy with another human. of course i'd like to f*** cuz primal instincts but thats all. no cuddling or romantic sh*t.

 

[redpilled]

Ha, if it was only just "women". Society itself looks down on you the uglier you are. People at work, people in the street, the media constantly send messages that you HAVE to look good at all times. It's the new religion (lookism). Women put the boot in, but society does as well. I've seen it firsthand at school (bullied). Life is absolutely brutal - the sooner you realise that the better. So what's the idea here? To escape society altogether hikikomori style? That just sounds like a big bowl of depression for decades ahead. There are no clear answers other than to improve your looks as much as you can and then "get by". None of us will come out ahead in life anyway - we're all heading to the lookist nightmare known as "aging". Nobody gets out of this with their dignity. Life is a cosmic joke played on everyone.