Mr Norwoods said:
My brother was a NW7 at 20. Has had more success with girls than almost anyone I've ever known.
I know couple guys in the same situation as your brother.... Hairloss is not the biggest obstacle to life.[/quote]
I dont disagree that it nessacerily becomes impossible to attract girls, but I'm all about quality over quantity. I always have been.
It fills me with so much despair that at age 20, a young adult, one who is meant to be 'coming of age' I have been relagated to a horrific aesthetic fate - the loss of my exterior. We can only try and intellectualise this horrible malady, by claiming that its not all bad and that we can 'still get girls' but this for me, misses the point. Life is best, when one is beautiful. Statistcs show that people have better careers, more of the opposite sex and generally get treated better if they are better looking. If I was born a pig I would know no better, but to turn into one slowly, this is slow torture of the mind. I just cant get over the insane injustice and cruelty of this world. I am thinking about ending it all.
I hate nothing more than seeing other bald men ( expect for the occasional guy that sports it well, and brings a small glimmer of hope into me). I hate seeing ugly nws, with diffuse hair and unsightly scalps, it makes me want to scream inside, to die instantly at the revoltion of my hideous impending doom.
I grew up in a society, in a culture, in a part of a world, where looks are valued highly. They are important to me. Without looks we are nothing. Hair is our looks. Without hair we are nothing. Nothing fills me with more pity than to see beautiful girl after beautiful girl, and yet only to lament in a most hellish suffering, as now I only see my balding head when I look at them. I now know I am beggining to scar and pollute other peoples vision. I understand that looks are biological. Some have to go bald so it means some males are more desirable than the others.
Perhaps there is some evolutionary theory to suggest that men with hair were seen as the dominant males, who got girls, but had to engage in battle with donasours, where as the bald(ing) men didnt fight, but didnt get girls either.
Like Samson, I am nothing more than a victim of this most henous infliction of hell that was written in the bible. To have no hair is like a footballer who has no feet, or like a writer with no pen.
Let me perish.
