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Halp

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Interesting posts Boondock, you basically said what the logical part of me has been saying to myself these last few months when my hairline suddenly became an issue for me. sh*t, 6 months ago I didnt care about my hairline, sure it was receeding. I remember sitting in the barber's as he was cutting my hair and whatever way he combed it when it was wet I remember looking at it and going "sh*t man, you receding, oh well f*** it". All it took was for one person to comment when the wind blew my hair back to show the hairline and say "Wow you going to be horrifically bald one day". He wasnt negative or rude about it, he was just trying to alert me to it but it was the word horrifically that stuck with me and has since sent me on a downward spiral. Since then its become an obsession, I am sure everyone can see it and it makes me paranoid. Haha, they probably can and Im just fooling myself into thinking I have it hidden. Who knows. My point is, ever since then, anyone who looks above my eyes, I assume is looking at my hair and is repulsed by it.
 

Bald Dave

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Smooth said:
:stupid:

I think all the guys that tell you "its only in your mind" and you can turn into Brad Pitt by working your confidence are either very old/married/nw1s or lack experience with the opposite sex :dunno:

Very few men can be as attractive as Brad Pitt and just because a man has got a full head of hair doesn't mean he is more attractive than a baldy. Most women realise that nobody's perfect including themselves. Women have their own insecurities to concentrate on without worrying about a man's hairloss. I do understand how you're all feeling as i sometimes feel shitty but we've got realise that hairloss will only destroy us if we let it :)
 

Smooth

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Bald Dave said:
just because a man has got a full head of hair doesn't mean he is more attractive than a baldy.
i bet each and every one of us would look ALOT better with a head full hair.... (even if you shave it, the NW1 patterns just look better then the horseshoe)
 

Bald Dave

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Smooth said:
Bald Dave said:
just because a man has got a full head of hair doesn't mean he is more attractive than a baldy.
i bet each and every one of us would look ALOT better with a head full hair.... (even if you shave it, the NW1 patterns just look better then the horseshoe)

True, I agree that you look better with a full head of hair but if someone is ugly with a full head of hair and you're attractive/average looking but bald then surely its better to be attractive/average and bald than ugly with hair.
 

Boondock

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In addition to what Dave said, I would also add that while almost everyone looks better with hair than bald, a lot of people look better bald than with a NW4-5 or greater.
 

s.a.f

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Boondock said:
while almost everyone looks better with hair than bald, a lot of people look better bald than with a NW4-5 or greater.

WTF does that mean ????
Alot of people look better with hair than with a NW1 :dunno:
 

Boondock

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WTF does that mean ????
Alot of people look better with hair than with a NW1

It means that people who are NW4+ often look better shaving it all off than trying to hold on to what they've got.
 

superfrankie

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Boondock said:
In addition to what Dave said, I would also add that while almost everyone looks better with hair than bald, a lot of people look better bald than with a NW4-5 or greater.

Yeah, absolutely. Fully agree. Tthats also why I splitted with finasteride one year ago. Just to lose the existing hair ASAP. I rather be completely sly than having little hair on my scalp. Good I hate me deep deep temples. When theyre completely gone it will look better.
 

Fundi

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I think if someone saw someone with long hair one minute, and a buzzed head the next, they'd stare.
 
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