The Role Of Doctors And Modern Medicine In Fighting Hairloss

[bluecyclone]

Hold up, what percentage of you went trans to regain your youth vs actually feeling that you were born as the wrong gender? If you went trans for any reason other than feeling that you were born the wrong gender, then you’re very sick and young balding men should not listen to you on here. If you always felt that you were living as the wrong gender, what I just wrote doesn’t apply to you, but the rest does.

Most people, especially men, are fine with aging. The only reason people fight aging so aggressively is because they never matured beyond their youth (e.g. connecting with/feeling respected by other adults of both genders). That has nothing to do with getting old, it has to do with mistakes you made during your “youth” that prevented you from ever feeling satisfied in the first place. I realized I was balding at 21, and I absolutely freaked out. I felt that my youth was ripped from me and I still didn’t get to live out my younger years or will ever find real companionship, similar to how you and cyclone feel. However, I was only 21, yet I was able to learn that there’s a lot more to life and attraction than perfect hair. As soon as I acknowledged that, all of my relationships (sexually, professionally, emotionally) improved as my confidence grew.

Young guys, DO NOT LISTEN TO THESE TWO, they will mess your mental up. Find unattractive role models that have high social status with both genders and figure out why they attract people. For me it was comedians like Patrice O’Neal and Bill Burr who are both generally “unattractive” (Burr is bald) but women love them and men respect them.

For the record I’m not even considering going trans. f*** I’m careful with Finasteride because I notice weaker/ED and problem over corrected with some HCG. I am acknowledging the loss of hair has just been a unique challenge for me and a wake up call for the progression of my life. If treatments had helped at all I would be long f*****g gone from here. If I didn’t lose insane amounts of hair daily to the point that it disrupts my life I’d be gone. But 4+ years a lot of money and attention and things only accelerate when most people seem to get some benefit from meds. I mean there are balding guys on TRT still saving their hair with medication and I can’t even get a shed down under 150 daily. It is all proportional. Agree not a reason to go trans and that shouldn’t be advice. Each person makes there own choices but for a vulnerable community we should be reasonable.

for me it’s the same things, even if you’ve been lucky, pay attention to time as you hit your thirties and build out a broad and rich life so that sh*t like hair doesn’t matter. I’m catching up and yes women are a little young because I want a family.

 

[DoctorHouse]

For the record I’m not even considering going trans. f*** I’m careful with Finasteride because I notice weaker/ED and problem over corrected with some HCG. I am acknowledging the loss of hair has just been a unique challenge for me and a wake up call for the progression of my life. If treatments had helped at all I would be long f*****g gone from here. If I didn’t lose insane amounts of hair daily to the point that it disrupts my life I’d be gone. But 4+ years a lot of money and attention and things only accelerate when most people seem to get some benefit from meds. I mean there are balding guys on TRT still saving their hair with medication and I can’t even get a shed down under 150 daily. It is all proportional. Agree not a reason to go trans and that shouldn’t be advice. Each person makes there own choices but for a vulnerable community we should be reasonable.

for me it’s the same things, even if you’ve been lucky, pay attention to time as you hit your thirties and build out a broad and rich life so that sh*t like hair doesn’t matter. I’m catching up and yes women are a little young because I want a family.

How are you going to deal with the stress of a baby in your mid 40's when you can't even deal with minimal hair loss at your age? You have to first fix your mental health before you can even consider fathering a kid at your age. You are in good shape at your age. Most women will appreciate that more than how much hair a middle aged man has on his head. And you are not going bald anytime soon regardless of how much hair you shed because you would be bald now if you shed as much hair as you say you do.

 

[I wont lose this]

lol imagine making fun of someone who is jogging without a shirt just because they instantly assume he is showing off

 

[Diffused_confidence]

How are you going to deal with the stress of a baby in your mid 40's when you can't even deal with minimal hair loss at your age? You have to first fix your mental health before you can even consider fathering a kid at your age. You are in good shape at your age. Most women will appreciate that more than how much hair a middle aged man has on his head. And you are not going bald anytime soon regardless of how much hair you shed because you would be bald now if you shed as much hair as you say you do.

I find that a lot of guys lose concern about hairloss once they get married and have a kid. It's like the pressures of having a family and kids are now completely lifted and even if the marriage is a failure, that kid is (most likely) yours.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Guess what? Tranny meds can also be used for endocrine disorders in general. It's nobody's business in those cases, but yes, I had/have a disorder that prostate cancer meds happen to alleviate. Someone with prostate cancer also might see substantial hair gains and why give them back only to be bald again since these meds seem to be preventative as well.

Then, there's the fact that there's an androgyny strain of being transgender which is often called non-binary but which for XY's, requires using MtF meds even if we don't view ourselves as transgender females. I have done probably more therapy related to this than virtually anyone as I have done one to two weekly sessions going back several years to "figure this thing out". Gender and pronouns don't relate to me but legally I am female which is a much safer designation because you don't get hassled as much or housed with men, if institutionalization is called for.

Otherwise, I agree with you, dude. People on here need to get over it and be men and sport those beards and get on with life. Nobody in the military cares about anyone's hair, especially the Marines.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

@CrownBalding I completely understand everything you just said. But your example kind of threw me. What was funny about a ~ 30 year old man, outside, with no shirt, excersing and mind his own business. Would not that actually show confidence and that he tries to take care of himself.

Obviously I wasn't there so of course I wouldn't understand the nuisances of the story. If I seen a dude, exercising/running at any age in Summer with out a shirt I wouldn't think twice about if that's all it was on the surface. It might actually make feel like I should be excersing.

Setting that aside I feel my life is over and I'm 27, turning 28 soon. I have a long back story but no point in sharing it. Some things really were out of my control, especially early on. But I've wasted all my youth and soon it will be over. I really wish I could just go back 5 years so badly. Not a day goes by that I don't have that thought. I try so hard to move forward, but I just can't seem to. I have always wanted to move from where I am. Why the f**k don't I just get in my vehicle and drive away. I don't know why I didn't 5 years ago, stupid I guess. I don't know why I don't now. I almost feel I wasted my chance and I'm too old.

Sorry to unload all this. And I stopped myself from going on or I could have said a lot more. I'm glad it sounds like you figured some of this stuff out earlier on. It sounds like you're going to do ok, man.

Only for people who are thick into suicidal ideation, do I mention MtF HRT since it seems better than death and better than living in a garage/basement that one never emerges out of. Some guys are cycling back and forth; some stop and try to maintain on reductase inhibitors. For once in history, to a limited extent, you and I define you and me and knowing my health from before, I will break down immediately body wise, not just hair-wise and that would be a drag. I do have very prominent breasts that get more prominent when I lose weight so only reduction will work for some although breast growth might dissipate quickly upon desisting from HRT.

It's not an easy mind-path or mind-set and there's guilt no matter which was I chose and I have to resolve that in terms of my still being alive and wanting 55 more years in this body, versus being dead inside and/or in a ditch.

 

[Emptiness]

^ Not sure why you quoted me. I think you meant to quote @CrownBalding

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

^ Not sure why you quoted me. I think you meant to quote @CrownBalding

It's mostly to no one in particular just that people's decisions are more difficult than just don't do this "man up".

 

[Emptiness]

^Oh ok. I understand. No big deal.

 

[Haaribol]

I find that a lot of guys lose concern about hairloss once they get married and have a kid. It's like the pressures of having a family and kids are now completely lifted and even if the marriage is a failure, that kid is (most likely) yours.

I'm in my early 40's, have a steady relationship and am the father of two infants. I can honestly say that my hairloss bothers me almost as much as it used to do before having kids. My goal now is that i want my kids to remember their father, when i am old and bald or long gone, with hair

 

[CrownBalding]

It sounds like you had social groups that helped you find a relationship. Truth is that often times men in their 30s start falling off the grid completely. Your friends start getting married, starting a family, and shifting priorities. So now you need to basically find a relationship without those groups which is a lot harder if you are not conventionally attractive.

I did have friends, but they didn’t help me find my girlfriend. I met her at a new job and worked on it entirely on my own. My friends never helped me with women lol.
Also, after a few years on finasteride, I believe my hair has thinned a bit. Sometimes I think it’s much thinner and other times I feel it’s close to the same. My issue wasn’t so much receding as it was thinning, and it’s hard to gauge thinning.

 

[CrownBalding]

@CrownBalding I completely understand everything you just said. But your example kind of threw me. What was funny about a ~ 30 year old man, outside, with no shirt, excersing and mind his own business. Would not that actually show confidence and that he tries to take care of himself.

Obviously I wasn't there so of course I wouldn't understand the nuisances of the story. If I seen a dude, exercising/running at any age in Summer with out a shirt I wouldn't think twice about if that's all it was on the surface. It might actually make feel like I should be excersing.

Setting that aside I feel my life is over and I'm 27, turning 28 soon. I have a long back story but no point in sharing it. Some things really were out of my control, especially early on. But I've wasted all my youth and soon it will be over. I really wish I could just go back 5 years so badly. Not a day goes by that I don't have that thought. I try so hard to move forward, but I just can't seem to. I have always wanted to move from where I am. Why the f**k don't I just get in my vehicle and drive away. I don't know why I didn't 5 years ago, stupid I guess. I don't know why I don't now. I almost feel I wasted my chance and I'm too old.

Sorry to unload all this. And I stopped myself from going on or I could have said a lot more. I'm glad it sounds like you figured some of this stuff out earlier on. It sounds like you're going to do ok, man.

You don’t have to live in the past lol, make changes now. You’re only in your 20s… jeez man 5 years is nothing.

also, the funny part is the fact that he was such a hardo. He’s running around trying to show off his body at a college campus, that’s ridiculous. Just because someone’s confident doesn’t mean people are mirin’

 

[DoctorHouse]

I did have friends, but they didn’t help me find my girlfriend. I met her at a new job and worked on it entirely on my own. My friends never helped me with women lol.
Also, after a few years on finasteride, I believe my hair has thinned a bit. Sometimes I think it’s much thinner and other times I feel it’s close to the same. My issue wasn’t so much receding as it was thinning, and it’s hard to gauge thinning.

You know your hair is thinning when you can no longer style it the way you used to and have to wear it really short just to make it look decent. I am at that stage now.

 

[CrownBalding]

lol imagine making fun of someone who is jogging without a shirt just because they instantly assume he is showing off

Lol imagine everyone, including women, were making fun of him and you sat their mirin’ cause you don’t have any confidence. The dude was in his 30s, flexing on a college campus, that’s fkn ridiculous lmao.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Only for people who are thick into suicidal ideation, do I mention MtF HRT since it seems better than death and better than living in a garage/basement that one never emerges out of. Some guys are cycling back and forth; some stop and try to maintain on reductase inhibitors. For once in history, to a limited extent, you and I define you and me and knowing my health from before, I will break down immediately body wise, not just hair-wise and that would be a drag. I do have very prominent breasts that get more prominent when I lose weight so only reduction will work for some although breast growth might dissipate quickly upon desisting from HRT.

It's not an easy mind-path or mind-set and there's guilt no matter which was I chose and I have to resolve that in terms of my still being alive and wanting 55 more years in this body, versus being dead inside and/or in a ditch.

And lol, Janey tried maybe once to mow the backyard shirtless and my neighbors have big walls so not my problem. It's not bad but full on nudity still is unpleasant for anyone especially me with ahem still more than I would like to see and naked is not good naked for people with penises larger than say an average white eight year old. You feel still that if you bend down too close that disaster might strike and as long as I make it to the hospital in a timely fashion, eh.

I also wrote recently about the Jersey City sidewalk look as satire and men sitting on the stoop with their hairy man tits scarring all of the children in the neighborhood or Goddess-bless, the far worse sitting in his wife-bitter undershirt <shudders> Janey's not working class; she hardly ever works at all but she can type like the wind.....

 

[CrownBalding]

You know your hair is thinning when you can no longer style it the way you used to and have to wear it really short just to make it look decent. I am at that stage now.

Yeah it looks somewhat different and I can see more scalp when I wake up in the morning. However, I can still style it. It worries me sometimes, but considering the rate at which I’ve been losing it, I should *hopefully* be good for another few years (maybe longer). Sometimes I like to read that study of 800 men having a 99% success rate at halting their loss for 10 years, haha

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I did have friends, but they didn’t help me find my girlfriend. I met her at a new job and worked on it entirely on my own. My friends never helped me with women lol.
Also, after a few years on finasteride, I believe my hair has thinned a bit. Sometimes I think it’s much thinner and other times I feel it’s close to the same. My issue wasn’t so much receding as it was thinning, and it’s hard to gauge thinning.

Who the hell is that avatar asks Janey politely in fact<blushes> Pardon our French et vraiment on sait le parler.....

 

[DoctorHouse]

@CrownBalding, its so hard to walk away from this forum for good, isn't it? @JaneyElizabeth, you think you could ever do it? So far I have tried but my addiction just keeps me at it. I wish I had the discipline but I guess this is on the same level of food addiction for me.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

You don’t have to live in the past lol, make changes now. You’re only in your 20s… jeez man 5 years is nothing.

also, the funny part is the fact that he was such a hardo. He’s running around trying to show off his body at a college campus, that’s ridiculous. Just because someone’s confident doesn’t mean people are mirin’

Flexing like on Top Gun and for no particular purpose? Eh, very few should attempt this and Val looked eh, overdone but Val was the actual best pilot as I recall while Cruise was a bit more like Janey in Top Gun and maybe more in Taps which we watched again and again with Penn and ever with Jon Cusack except oops that was Class which the film definitely was not as it was high in the ick factor and maybe got Janey fixated on bras and panties like mother used to wear. Only kidding says Will<nervously>

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

@CrownBalding, its so hard to walk away from this forum for good, isn't it? @JaneyElizabeth, you think you could ever do it? So far I have tried but my addiction just keeps me at it. I wish I had the discipline but I guess this is on the same level of food addiction for me.

Yes. I have made oblique mention of my six-plus years of litigation since yes, my dominant wife, made me sign over everything to her and she still has lotsa my monies but holds them in trust. Since she ditched visitation, she can hardly seek child support, especially since she claims I am crazy and all and yes, she hit me, on the very first date and stupid XY's often react to that and maybe petite ones too. She's lost her mind but eh, as long as she keeps cranking out $300,000 annually and refuses to tell me about any college plans, my funds in trust seem to keep growing upwards with the market index which leaves me to pay my enormous legal fees in addition to her $200K already spent to humiliate Will and boy did he enjoy that--dumbass says Janey. Yep, Will knows and now he is in my care and screw her, not Lisa's. The children all seem to look like me, two sets of twins that I raised and Janey says Will knows that karmic payback is always a b**ch when it smacks you finally in the face. Will done hit rock bottom but her high functioning executive *** will soon be in the padded rooms and now, she no longer has Will to get her out so just desserts we predict but regardless,

Love my hair. Totally worth it as I move toward Johnny Galecki and his effeminate locks. Dude got laid by Sara Gilbert on every show and the mother's and Sheldon and Penny all love him. Janey's more so Sheldon on the inside and Galecki externally if he had large breasts and a figure. Facially, we appear similar says they. That's our story and we aim to stick to it...