The Valentine's Day thread of depression

[Quantum Cat]

For all those stuck in today with no partner.

Just me and my Tricomin spray tonight... pathetic I know. :freak: :woot:

What are you up to tonight?

 

[king-]

im home and probley gonna be home the whole day
no valentines and im pretty happy about it ( no its not because of hairloss ) lol im still probley a nw1 or nw2 but i have been with a psycho gf who is too demanding i had to let her go last week so overall its a pretty good day for me





ps: some of you need to realize that you dont have a valentine or gf its not because of your hair loss it could be a lot of other things such as..........your personality or because your anti-social and girls feel that vibe , girls love cocky guys

 

[Quantum Cat]

girls love cocky guys

unless your cock's shrivelled up with too much Propecia use.... :mrgreen:

 

[Quantum Cat]

im home and probley gonna be home the whole day
no valentines and im pretty happy about it ( no its not because of hairloss ) lol im still probley a nw1 or nw2 but i have been with a psycho gf who is too demanding i had to let her go last week so overall its a pretty good day for me

the psycho ones are the worst.

 

[ali777]

I couldn't care less.... In principle I don't believe in "Valentine's Day". I think it's an invention of the consumer society and I hate being bombarded with messages about VD....

I'm thinking of going out later, but it has nothing to do with VD. I want to go out because it's saturday....

PS: Single girls are more likely to be emotionally needy on VD (just like the guys replying to this thread), and the chances of getting laid are probably significantly higher. Not that getting laid is my intention :whistle:

 

[Gboy2k8]

Yap,
I'm staying home |:

 

[Nighthair]

Yep, single and alone sitting in front of my computer with my thin head of hair God, this is depressing.

 

[Quantum Cat]

I'm wondering if I should join a dating site. Anybody here tried that?

 

[CCS]

ps: some of you need to realize that you dont have a valentine or gf its not because of your hair loss it could be a lot of other things such as..........your personality or because your anti-social and girls feel that vibe , girls love cocky guys

Thanks. You made my day. Not only am I single, but you just told me it is all my fault. F*ck you.
No really, when I get my body hair transplants, things will be different. I saw how different women treated me with may hair piece. I know just where to put the hair line. Only probably is it might not be as thick as the hair piece, but should be good enough.

 

[CCS]

I mean really, people:

Why is it when you see an ugly guy who can't get a date, and it is obvious to everyone he is ugly, you got to go tell him he has other flaws too? You got to tell him that all his dating woes are all because he is a bad person? Now he has two whammies instead of one.

Obviously, people who say that have inferiority complexes. They know they only thing they got going for them in life is their hair. But since everyone already knows they got good hair, they try to say their personality is good too, pointing to their hot partners as proof.

Don't even waste time arguing with these haters. Just do what is in your power. Work extra hours, get BHT or a piece or something. I'm telling you, when I got the piece, I was very shy because the front was not down right, and I had to keep 6 feet away so people could not see. But I still had a few attractive women stop me on the sidewalk to make sure I said hi to them, even though they never gave me any attention the last few years I was in their classes. I'm sure SAF will just say it was my imagination or that I must have seemed more social somehow even when I was nervous about getting caught.

 

[CCS]

lol im still probley a nw1 or nw2

I read the second paragraph before reading the first. That explains it.

Yeah, but today I'm getting my errends done, like I do every day when I post on here for hours. So I better get off and go do something.
And doing the one hand is not super bad. No performance anxiety, no costly dates, can do any time you want, can imagine anyone or any event you want, no STDs, list goes on. Then go see a movie for the price of one afterwards. Don't get so depressed. Even if you get a girl, she can ruin a sex session just by laying there and not getting into it.

 

[luke 21:18]

I always found the minute I give up on searching is when I find somebody. Not trying to get religous or start a debate, but I prayed to God, told him what I wanted, and forgot about it. Two months later He delivered been married 3 years. Not saying God is a genie just sayin when you look like you have your life in order, and are self motivated woman take notice. I think.

 

[CCS]

I'm wondering if I should join a dating site. Anybody here tried that?

yep. lots of inactive profiles. Problem is, you have no way of knowing if the profiles are real or just left on there year after year to attract more people.

Even on big dating sites, you can pay to be a member, and still not be allowed to contact someone if they are not a paid member too. And they don't tell you how many profiles are members and how many are not before you pay. So go there, set up your profile, see others who set up theirs free, all looks real since it is, but many of those people don't even log in anymore since they don't want to pay. Or they paid in the past, emailed 50 people, but none of the 50 could write back because they were not paying at the time. So the person did not renew for the next month. Then when you get on and pay, you can't contact them because they have not paid.
I am not going to pay for that. If you email them, they are told that this guy emailed them. They can't read it unless they pay. But if you are the only one who paid to email them that month, they probably won't pay just to see what you said, when you are the only one and they don't even know if your picture is fake. Many people on their lie and put their best pics from 5 years ago up.
Some people will look at what everyone says they want in a partner, and put in their profile that that is what they got. You are just better off meeting people in person.

The only site worth going to is hotornot.com, because once you pay, you can talk to them even if they have not paid. They can even contact you first. The more you pay, the sooner they are shown your profile ahead of other people. And at hotornot.com, you can contact people for only $6 per month. It has a MeetMe section.

 

[CCS]

just sayin when you look like you have your life in order, and are self motivated woman take notice. I think.

I totally agree. They went for you not because you stopped looking, but because you focussed on getting your life together instead of focussing on begging them to date you. They like you when your life is together. That is why I got to get off this computer and go do some errands.

 

[CCS]

[quote="king-":38egqtjm]im home and probley gonna be home the whole day
no valentines and im pretty happy about it ( no its not because of hairloss ) lol im still probley a nw1 or nw2 but i have been with a psycho gf who is too demanding i had to let her go last week so overall its a pretty good day for me

the psycho ones are the worst.[/quote:38egqtjm]

Yes they are. On a side note, just because someone says their Ex is psycho does not mean they are, or that the person saying it is not. It is standard practice for most Ex's to blame everything on the Ex. And as long as you are attracted to the Ex, you may want to believe everything they say. Don't even believe them when they say they have stuff in common with you. People lie to get you to fall for them. And it is not as sweet as it seems. When you fall for them, they have power over you and make you buy them stuff and they don't even have to put out since you can't get over them. Gotta keep a cool head and base your attraction on what you are getting, not on what you are hoping to get.

 

[ali777]

I'm wondering if I should join a dating site. Anybody here tried that?

I know lots of people that had success with online dating. It's definitely worth a try.

I'm an inactive member in a dating site and I still get emails(??)...

Check craig's list out as well... I've heard lots of things about it.

 

[The Gardener]

I'm wondering if I should join a dating site. Anybody here tried that?

I did. About five or six years ago I tried match dot com, and I really had a lot of fun with it. I didn't generate any "girlfriends" for me, but I met a lot of nice people, and ended up being friends with a few of them and still talk to them to this day.

The experience was kind of like a dating buffet... you really didn't know exactly what you were going to get until you met them in person. So, there were, of course, some dissapointments but other times I met some real gems. It was kind of fun, like a game, after a while you get a feel for people who are "pumping themselves up" and those who are being honest with their words and with their pictures. But, no matter how the situation turned out, I always tried to just enjoy the date for what it was, and for the most part I usually had a really good time. If I was dissapointed in my date, I'd just do my best to have a good time, make sure she was having a good time, and just considered the conversation as "practice" for someone I might have more affinity for.

Hehehe... I remember the WORST of my match dot com dates. This girl was articulate, athletic, and pretty darned hot. I got excited when she replied to my feeler and wanted to talk. About 5'7", blonde, beach-girl from Orange County... she had quite the body, like a beach volleyball player... and, my god, this girl had an ***. No, not an ***, she had an azzz. Things were FINE until we went on our first date, and she started talking about her political leanings... specifically, she was a hard core right wing ultra-conservative. And I'm not talking a garden variety conservative, this chick was off the scale, a freaking fascist. It all started with her making a really devastating racist quip about muslims... and she just blurted it out like it was no big deal. She basically saw the world as a big ethnic war and everyone wants to kill us... so the more of them we kill now, the better. She then began railing against Mexicans, and Asians, complaining that her sister's beauty shop was put out of business because of competition from a Chinese-run storefront shop up the street. I posed the possibility that maybe her sister's fate is due to her being an idiot who doesn't know how to run a freaking business, and the date came to a swift and crashing end. Quite funny... the experience was well worth the story, a relationship that ended from a fight, on the FIRST date... lol. I wonder where that girl is now... probably posing in front of a mirror with an arm band on at a trailer park, rocking the latest "Prussian Blue" CD.

 

[luke 21:18]

I Tried before i got married my advice is get full body pics first. People like to be decieving. I'm not one to judge against appearce but i don't lke dishonesty. :shock:

 

[ali777]

Not saying God is a genie just sayin when you look like you have your life in order, and are self motivated woman take notice. I think.

Having one's life in order and being self motivated are definitely eye catchers...

Last night I was given another tip. I'm normally a very laid back person, the girl I went out with thinks I should be more manly and take charge of the situation. I was telling her being a controlling male goes against my principles and I'm not sexist.... she told me to forget about that crap and become a sexist pig...

I don't think I'm going to take her tip. I'm happy as I am, and I don't intend to change my principles just to get a date with a woman who "needs to be looked after".

What she said makes sense though. There are lots of women out there who want their husbands/boyfriends to be the alpha male or physically dominant. However, I hate such weak women. I want my woman to be independent and have a strong character.

 

[luke 21:18]

Not saying God is a genie just sayin when you look like you have your life in order, and are self motivated woman take notice. I think.

Having one's life in order and being self motivated are definitely eye catchers...

Last night I was given another tip. I'm normally a very laid back person, the girl I went out with thinks I should be more manly and take charge of the situation. I was telling her being a controlling male goes against my principles and I'm not sexist.... she told me to forget about that crap and become a sexist pig...

I don't think I'm going to take her tip. I'm happy as I am, and I don't intend to change my principles just to get a date with a woman who "needs to be looked after".

What she said makes sense though. There are lots of women out there who want their husbands/boyfriends to be the alpha male or physically dominant. However, I hate such weak women. I want my woman to be independent and have a strong character.

For sure, I married young and my wife even younger, no regrets, but she has taken awile to develop her strong stance and chracter, i've always tried to have one myself but there is something that really does it for me when a woman can stand her ground. :2gunsfiring_v1: