this forum is too depressing

[infinitepain]

It's curious though, those who stay positive about hair loss are usually good-looking and/or Norwood 2, strange, is it?

Im NW2 and suicidal.

 

[EvilLocks]

I think some of us (@shookwun, @Dante92 and another fellow suffers from this disgusting decease) needs to restrict themselves to enter here and another depressing places in internet for a month or two and see how our lives will change or not change.

Well, I was gone for nearly 2 months and I can testify that my life hasn't changed for the better (or worse) during this time. I have come to the conclusion that I need this forum to vent and talk to people going through baldness. It makes me feel a bit better.

 

[infinitepain]

Then you're not good-looking. Welcome to hell.

im a 6 facially. With a good hairstyle I can halo my face and get girls, this is how average guys get girls.

If I continue balding im fucked beyond belief.

 

[deraj]

I agree with op to some extent. It is sadly rare that we see a "positive thoughts" thread (or something to that effect). I get as down as anyone about my situation, but some of the the threads and comments here do descend into pretty depressing territory, even for me. Some people need that though i guess. But I know a lot of people look here for hope too. I'm just musing.

 

[shookwun]

im a 6 facially. With a good hairstyle I can halo my face and get girls, this is how average guys get girls.

If I continue balding im fucked beyond belief.

This is 100% correct.

A lot of these average potatoes with the right style can boost themselves to from a nobody to somebody.

It's when you shave, and buzz it down to a 0 MAX 1 grade do you realize who is truly aesthetic, and who is 'all hair'

 

[marco75]

This is 100% correct.

A lot of these average potatoes with the right style can boost themselves to from a nobody to somebody.

It's when you shave, and buzz it down to a 0 MAX 1 grade do you realize who is truly aesthetic, and who is 'all hair'

Yep, I see a lot of younger guys and they have great hair styles it does make them look good but a quick scan of their face and you can see they have not much else.

brb spending hours getting your hair perfect every day
brb bad hair day and you look like sh*t
brb always worried about your hair in the mirror all the time like a female
brb start to go bald and panic as you realise you will drop from a 6 to a 3
brb join HairLossTalk.com and moan

Whereas with a good handsome masculine face you drop 1 point max and never worry about hair styles again.

brb buzz hair a few times a week
brb women still all over you
brb can be ready in 10 mins
brb don't look like phaggot in the mirror every 5 mins playing with your hair
brb join HairLossTalk.com and try and help others

 

[marco75]

Help others? Guys like us who look good bald make up for 5% of the balding population.

95% of the balding men here will be f-cked once bald. How do you intend to help them?

Giving advice on what's worked for us, i.e. meds or hair transplant. You also have a deep knowledge of hairloss issues and good BS sensor so you can help newbies navigate the waters

 

[xetudor]

Yes, the new forum layout is depressing.

 

[Roberto_72]

I agree with op to some extent. It is sadly rare that we see a "positive thoughts" thread (or something to that effect). I get as down as anyone about my situation, but some of the the threads and comments here do descend into pretty depressing territory, even for me. Some people need that though i guess. But I know a lot of people look here for hope too. I'm just musing.

This is 100% correct.

A lot of these average potatoes with the right style can boost themselves to from a nobody to somebody.

It's when you shave, and buzz it down to a 0 MAX 1 grade do you realize who is truly aesthetic, and who is 'all hair'

It is not only the aesthetics of the hair. Hairstyle and dress code also communicate a lot about how you want to live your life and what your values are. For instance: if you go out with a jacket and have gel in your hair, you will probably attract girls who are more into "corporate", competitive guys; if you have longer hair and a tattoo, you will be mainly looked by "alternative" broads (your mileage may vary and exceptions are the rule.)


In b4: there are of course OTHER ways to communicate your walk of life, but hair and dresses are the easiest litmus tests... You don't even have to say a word!

 

[EvilLocks]

The bald you will never live the life the fulllhead you should have lived.

There's no arguing about this. But you end up accepting this sub-version of the life you should have lived.

Truer words have rarely been spoken.

 

[EvilLocks]

Hope you don't mind I sig'd it

 

[infinitepain]

Yep, I see a lot of younger guys and they have great hair styles it does make them look good but a quick scan of their face and you can see they have not much else.

brb spending hours getting your hair perfect every day
brb bad hair day and you look like sh*t
brb always worried about your hair in the mirror all the time like a female
brb start to go bald and panic as you realise you will drop from a 6 to a 3
brb join HairLossTalk.com and moan

Whereas with a good handsome masculine face you drop 1 point max and never worry about hair styles again.

brb buzz hair a few times a week
brb women still all over you
brb can be ready in 10 mins
brb don't look like phaggot in the mirror every 5 mins playing with your hair
brb join HairLossTalk.com and try and help others

We get it, big framed guys with good bones can pull the bald look.. what's your point in any case?

It seems to me that your whole façade on this forum is coping with the fact that even if you are one of those 1% males (I doubt it) they look a ton better with a good hairstyle as well.

 

[Bagels]

concentrate your time on certain forums like success stories, anti androgens, and future treatments.