Well I guess we have established that balding doesn’t matter to you or most girls in your opinion. I feel like as a guy hair makes me more sensible and in tune with what a girl is feeling and thinking. It really helps when it comes to building a girls excitement. What if you found out one of those guys was wearing a hair system? I mean if everything else about him fit the bill or came really close? Would you be like wtf or ok your hair stylist does a good job? If sh*t hits the fan for me I am gonna at least try a system. I really enjoy the response I get from girls my age. Also, Through all the talk about penis I did see you say your hair has improved. What kind of hair loss do you have? Just asking because I see you use laser in your regimen and I just got a new one and plan to stick with it this time.
My story is complex.. it started with breakage.. from damage I did to my own (v long hair) hair trying to strip henna out.. worst thing I ever did. It eventuated from that to me panicking in case it was hair loss.. I was confused by my ponytail halving in size in a matter of a few weeks. A doctor found a few vitamin deficiencies which I started to correct (I was vegan), but I walked into a laser clinic, thinking I better check if something more serious is going on, and was sold a laser cap and "lotion" and told in 7 weeks, I would notice a significant difference on top of my head.
The lotion was minoxidil, I had a massive shed, which made things worst, I locked myself in the house for a month in fear over what on earth was going on.. couldn't concentrate on work etc. I used the laser, but I am, scared to do that now in case it causes shedding.. I ended up going to a hair loss place that focuses on herbal, they did a close up of my scalp. Saw the hair on the back of my head was good, the follicles a little thin at the front. Said it would recover from the minoxidil, but I could use their system if I wanted. They put me on the 101 hair system (at home use) , The shedding stopped in a few days, and the hair is starting to thicken on top.. cannot speak highly enough of them.
But I look different (to myself) from how I used to.. my hair has lost volume, and it has affected my confidence.. I know it will recover.. but hair ( long hair more so) takes time to do so.. 1/2 years. Plus I am still fearful about slipping back..
My hair is my identity, everyone knows me for my hair.. soooo... I struggle.. should I keep using the laser..? Would it make th8ings worst..some of the laser reviews on this site are not at all good!
Should I just keep using the lotion that seems to be helping (I won't stop that). My diet is good.. I also take Saw Palmetto which (against the scepticism on this site) has actually worked well for me to reduce shedding...
Anyway.. that's my story.. I now understand how important hair is...
I'm not sure how I would go if a guy told me he wore a wig or similar.. I'd prefer he would be natural... but a transplant.. no issue at all.. I don't know.. How do you feel on the male side in regard to women going through it? Do you notice hair.. does it make a difference if a woman has long hair?
If everything ticked for me in a guy . personality, connection, etc, I honestly wouldn't care what his hair was doing providing he didn't let himself "go" altogether.. i.e. get fat and unhealthy to the point we couldn't have sex.. Maybe Aussie girls are not as fussy.. who knows... all I know is that looking back recently, quite a few men had hair issues..
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