Today Has Broken Any Pieces Of Hope Left In Me.

[Stanx22]

I'm going to rant because i have to. So, for anyone who wants to b**ch, don't waste your time, just dislike my post and leave because i don't care. And for anyone who likes to brag about his misery and wants to act like Van Gogh to win the misery competition for who has it worse, i still don't care.

Today, i realised how much of a delusional naive cuck i'am. I always talked about how i give up and how i don't have a chance and how it's over, but i still had some hope inside me, but not anymore now.

I always knew that my height is a deal breaker and a serious obstacle in my life that cripples me, but i was still coping somehow.

I got measured today at 5'4.5-5'5, when i had always thought i was 5'7.5-5'8.

It was a huge hit of reality in my face. And i now know why i haven't got a girlfriend until now and why people have always looked down on me.

70% of women are taller than me and 30% are as tall as i'am (without heels). How didn't i know that i'm fucked is beyond me. I was black-pilled and self-aware, but i'm still a human and humans need to cope to survive, so as a coping mechanism i lied and deluded myself about being taller to keep what hope i had left.

Women where i live grew up used to seeing below average and unattractive men everywhere, so they focus all of their attention on height and hair, they are extremely heightists.

Even my family are heightists and was always ashamed of my body and height and tells me everyday to hit the gym "to grow taller" because i look hideous with my subhuman body. Of course i'm not that stupid to follow their worthless advice, but it still hurts badly.

I now completely give up and won't care anymore. I don't even care about my hair now and i'm not getting on treatments because it doesn't even matter, i'm fucked either ways.

My 6/10 face isn't enough to compensate for my 5'5 body and it'll be destroyed anyways when my hair is gone.

I know that my post is long and worthless and it'll appear silly to some people, but i'm not posting it to get likes or 20 pages of members' discussion, i just want to vent like a human being.

 

[SmoothSailing]

This might be stupid, but it happened to a member here.

Is there any chance you're height was measured in cm and you used Google to convert to feet? Because google gives it in feet with decimals instead of feet and inches, meaning 5.5 feet = 5'6.

Probably not but just checking.

I do actually know guys around 5'6 who do well, they have perfect hair and good face though.

Asia/South America have much shorter men also.

Anyway no harm in venting,

Are you 17? Or am I misrembering? If you are there is still a chance you will grow a small bit taller. Some men grow until they are 19, don't expect much though.

Also having good posture can make you appear slightly taller.

Always buy shoes with a bit of lift.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I got measured today at 5'4.5-5'5,

The measurement was 5'4.5 or 5'5.5?

1. Make money.
2. Limb lengthening surgery

 

[Stanx22]

The measurement was 5'4.5 or 5'5.5?

1. Make money.
2. Limb lengthening surgery

It'd take me my enitre life to make such money in a third world country.

 

[kj6723]

I was still 5'5" when I was 18 and grew to 5'6.5" within the next couple years. Not much but still lol

I know the "go to the gym" thing is cliche but it does help, once you get to a certain level it will create enough physical presence so you're not completely invisible, especially since 90% of men over 25 have garbage bodies

 

[CaptainForehead]

It'd take me my enitre life to make such money in a third world country.

Move to the US. You said you had the option.

What is your exact height?

 

[Stanx22]

This might be stupid, but it happened to a member here.

Is there any chance you're height was measured in cm and you used Google to convert to feet? Because google gives it in feet with decimals instead of feet and inches, meaning 5.5 feet = 5'6.

Probably not but just checking.

I do actually know guys around 5'6 who do well, they have perfect hair and good face though.

Asia/South America have much shorter men also.

Anyway no harm in venting,

Are you 17? Or am I misrembering? If you are there is still a chance you will grow a small bit taller. Some men grow until they are 19, don't expect much though.

Also having good posture can make you appear slightly taller.

Always buy shoes with a bit of lift.

I had an early puberty, i've not grown since 12.

 

[CaptainForehead]

but then I met a "small" guy and really liked him...

How short?

 

[Stanx22]

I am 5'2 ^^ so you are taller than me and I am not the only one being 5'2.
I know it's not much of a comforting thing to say, but I dated men not super taller than me (also dated very tall men), and it did not bothered me. At one point I thought I only liked tall tall guys, because I only had dated such guys, but then I met a "small" guy and really liked him... So now I know it was not as impotant as I thought it was.

The difference is that men in the west are way more attractive in the face than here. Women here don't even pay attention to the face as they aren't used to see attractive faces.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I think 1,70 m or a little bit less.
My ex boyfriends were 1,85m, so I always thought it would bother me, but turned out no.

A 5'2 woman thinking a 5'7 male's height would not make the cut for her.

Jesus f*****g Christ.

 

[OldnBald]

I was still 5'5" when I was 18 and grew to 5'6.5" within the next couple years. Not much but still lol

I know the "go to the gym" thing is cliche but it does help, once you get to a certain level it will create enough physical presence so you're not completely invisible, especially since 90% of men over 25 have garbage bodies

With more n more ppl on steroids, that is changing quickly. More n more guys are realizing they can sit on the couch n gas up n still look lean n pretty big. No need for working out.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

You're only 17 so your bones have not fused yet, I think you can still be saved by HGH. Try begging your doctor.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Oh I see! That's what you want to emphasize. I never really said to myself that I would not date a 5'7 (by the way 1,70 is less than 5'7 ...), that it would not make the cut, I just thought it was some kind of criteria about me, but actually was not, it's just that I only had met tall guys (but I think tall guys are often attracted to really small girls)

I'm not sure 0.07 inches can't really count as "less than".

http://www.thecalculatorsite.com/conversions/common/cm-to-feet-inches.php

 

[Stanx22]

The measurement was 5'4.5 or 5'5.5?

1. Make money.
2. Limb lengthening surgery

It was 167 cm.

 

[BaldyBalderBald]

a friend of mine who is 167cm - 5,4 used to date girls 180cm - 5,9
He looked like Tom Cruise though, and everyone used to make comments and looked them oddly but who cares

Face and personality > Height

 

[SmoothSailing]

Google has probably caused suicides with their decimal converting of cm to feet. Serious flaw.

 

[BaldyBalderBald]

Was asking about same thing, Google converts are broken ?

The P word! Oh man, where did you got yourself into!

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[SmoothSailing]

5 ft and 5.78 = almost 5'6
WTF are we retards or what we can not convert things^^

Understandably you french have a much better unit system. There are 12 inches to a foot, which fucks up conversions. 5.5 feet = 5 foot and 6 inches.

 

[kj6723]

With more n more ppl on steroids, that is changing quickly. More n more guys are realizing they can sit on the couch n gas up n still look lean n pretty big. No need for working out.

This is not my observation at all. I know very few legitimately "muscular" people irl. Even among those I know who "work out" very few are among the top echelon physique wise

Skinny-fat is quickly becoming the norm for men >25

 

[Stanx22]

5 ft and 5.78 = almost 5'6
WTF are we retards or what we can not convert things^^

I'm 168.5 in the morning and 167 through the day. 167 is 5.4.5 feet and 168.5 is 5.5 feet.