Told my gf I had a hair transplant, guess what happened next

[Oknow]

She was like "ew it's over" and dumped me

... just kidding!

She said she already had an idea, and it's pretty "natural" because it's still my hair, and she likes my hair.

Then she proceeded to ask questions about how the procedure went and how I looked before, I described but said it's a sensitive subject and didn't want her to see a picture, she was like "that's why you had a hat on in all your older pics on social media", I said yeah I deleted those older pics with hair and she understood and didn't push me further.

She compared it to weight loss, getting braces or having your glasses removed.

told you bro that she would be understanding

 

[Diffused_confidence]

She was like "ew it's over" and dumped me

... just kidding!

She said she already had an idea, and it's pretty "natural" because it's still my hair, and she likes my hair.

Then she proceeded to ask questions about how the procedure went and how I looked before, I described but said it's a sensitive subject and didn't want her to see a picture, she was like "that's why you had a hat on in all your older pics on social media", I said yeah I deleted those older pics with hair and she understood and didn't push me further.

She compared it to weight loss, getting braces or having your glasses removed.

Except it isn't the same as these things. You were just lucky to have a low enough Norwood level and sufficient donor supply. But reality is that not everyone can get a hair transplant. Those other 3 we have full technology, treatments, and routines to prevent and reverse the problem. It just goes to show how women have no clue how hair loss works and they justify their shallowness over it by comparing it to not taking care of yourself.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

Except it isn't the same as these things. You were just lucky to have a low enough Norwood level and sufficient donor supply. But reality is that not everyone can get a hair transplant. Those other 3 we have full technology, treatments, and routines to prevent and reverse the problem. It just goes to show how women have no clue how hair loss works and they justify their shallowness over it by comparing it to not taking care of yourself.

Hairloss is still seen by many as resulting from bad hygiéne. Even if they know it's irrational, the appearance of wispy hair just looks unkempt and dirty. Sickly. A bit like acne in that regard. While both can be exacerbated by a lack of hygiene, genes are all-important of course

 

[vondoom]

I get what you mean, but a lot of people would be willing to drop that amount of $$$ if weight loss was guaranteed

In a way weight loss is the best comparison because of how dramatically it can impact your appearance and improve your self esteem and dating opportunities

yeah how much is that operation anyway? fat reduction, cut off half of the stomach and then possibly skin...
probably about the same...

 

[Feelsbadman]

If a girl likes you she won't be turned off by a transplant, period. Things that could be a deal breaker : being caught with a complete hair system.

I agree.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

If a girl likes you she won't be turned off by a transplant, period. Things that could be a deal breaker : being caught with a complete hair system.

We'll see. One thing I learned about women is that what women say =/= what they feel. Especially about other people. She could say she is OK with it but deep down she could be repulsed by it and looking for new options. And remember, women have a billion options on their dms, tinder, and snap and are one swipe away from screwing Chad with his real hair. Then she will turn it around and say that it's actually your fault for lying about the hair transplant and not being upfront about it sooner. The mental gymnastics are absurd.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Congrats man just hope down the line she doesn't use it against you, in my experience women tend look for anything to use for blackmail.

I honestly don't think that is good juicy blackmail material. On the other hand, his ED might be.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Yeah I'm outta here, y'all are crazy

 

[DoctorHouse]

Yeah I'm outta here, y'all are crazy

You are leaving us too.

 

[Oknow]

You are leaving us too.

high value men do not hang around incel losers

 

[DoctorHouse]

high value men do not hang around incel losers

Not everyone here is incel. It's a small minority. BDD has the majority here and you are amongst the majority. @justinbieberscombover is a good inspiration for the high Norwood. Even Fred was too when he was posting here.

 

[Marky]

3

When I had my 1st transplant I was NW4 heading towards NW5

Now I'm NW6 with the illusion that I am NW1.5

Does the non transplanted hair keep receding?

 

[Oknow]

Not everyone here is incel. It's a small minority. BDD has the majority here and you are amongst the majority. @justinbieberscombover is a good inspiration for the high Norwood. Even Fred was too when he was posting here.

no not everyone is, but the ones who are the loudest and most abusive are

 

[DoctorHouse]

no not everyone is, but the ones who are the loudest and most abusive are

Abusive? You mean to you?

 

[Oknow]

Abusive? You mean to you?

and beiber

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

I honestly don't think that is good juicy blackmail material. On the other hand, his ED might be.

Blackmail is maybe too strong of a word. But breakups can be really nasty, and when they're hurt women can poke your insecurities to make you feel their pain. Most women aren't really so nefarious as to use your weaknesses to smear your name in my experience, but they can lash out or 'playfully' provoke you sometimes. It's just human nature

Can't be thinking of sh*t like that when you're in a relationship or you'll close yourself off completely, which will doom it anyway, the good and the bad

 

[Oknow]

Lol. Excuse me if I laugh. You're a delusional nobody. Your perception and how vocal you like to be about your alleged qualities and success compared to other people just ask for being told this.

Also there is nothing wrong with the comment difussed confidence posted. If whatever you believe in is so easily brought down then those beliefs did not have a strong foundation to begin with. Much more optimal to focus on that rather than this whole "I'm leaving the forum because you said this" thing. I have been told all sort of things here: death wishes, alcoholic, crazy... and it's not even close to challenge what I believe in.

how many dates have you been on over the past 2 months?

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

how many dates have you been on over the past 2 months?

It's a little outrageous and presumptuous to claim you're part of a clique of high value men surrounded by incel losers, no?

I'm 99.9% sure I'd outslay you for example

 

[Oknow]

It's a little outrageous and presumptuous to claim you're part of a clique of high value men surrounded by incel losers, no?

I'm 99.9% sure I'd outslay you for example

It's not just about sex for me mate

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Then she proceeded to ask questions about how the procedure went and how I looked before, I described but said it's a sensitive subject and didn't want her to see a picture, she was like "that's why you had a hat on in all your older pics on social media", I said yeah I deleted those older pics with hair and she understood and didn't push me further.

Well to my fwb I have shown my hairloss photos with diffuse thinning all over the top and it didn't make her any less attracted to me