Toppik Doesn't Work Anymore. What Would My Date Think?

[samantha3333]

Haven't been on here for a while. How is everyone doing?

I came out of shower. Dried my hair and found that toppik is no long ok for my hairline. I had to use black eye shadow along with toppik for it to look even remotely convincing.

I'm over a year into spironolactone and 7 months into finasteride. They only gave me vellous hair. I wanted to stick it till the one year mark for finasteride but frankly I can't deal with it anymore.

As a normal human being, I cried. Mostly scared of what the guy I've been dating for 5 months think. There's no way I can take a shower at his. No way we can go on holiday. It will only get worse from here.

Am I latching onto something that will never work? Why is 1 year the magic timeline for a miracle to happen?

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

The man you have been dating has no clue after 5 months of dating?
Looks like he's either retarded, or you have BDD.

 

[blackg]

Forgive me if I sound crude, but doesn't your partner ever mess your hair up during a heated sex session?
Maybe while you've both been drinking, or after watching Judge Judy?

 

[blackg]

The man you have been dating has no clue after 5 months of dating?
Looks like he's either retarded, or you have BDD.

Well, I wouldn't go so far as to call this lucky guy a "retard" but he definitely has a problem staying focused.

 

[samantha3333]

The man you have been dating has no clue after 5 months of dating?
Looks like he's either retarded, or you have BDD.

I'm pretty good with concealer and I part my hair in a way so he won't be able to tell. I still have a good coverage but very thin. However my hairline is receding fast.

Do you think normal people can spot toppik straight away?

Edit: typo

 

[samantha3333]

Forgive me if I sound crude, but doesn't your partner ever mess your hair up during a heated sex session?
Maybe while you've both been drinking, or after watching Judge Judy?

He tried to play with my hair once and I stopped him. Usually we have sex under "mood lightening" so it will be way less obvious than bright day light.

 

[samantha3333]

@blackg we don't watch Judge Judy here lol

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Haven't been on here for a while. How is everyone doing?

I came out of shower. Dried my hair and found that toppik is no long ok for my hairline. I had to use black eye shadow along with toppik for it to look even remotely convincing.

I'm over a year into spironolactone and 7 months into finasteride. They only gave me vellous hair. I wanted to stick it till the one year mark for finasteride but frankly I can't deal with it anymore.

As a normal human being, I cried. Mostly scared of what the guy I've been dating for 5 months think. There's no way I can take a shower at his. No way we can go on holiday. It will only get worse from here.

Am I latching onto something that will never work? Why is 1 year the magic timeline for a miracle to happen?

If he's been with you for 5 months then he knows about your hair by now and he's ok with it. You're a good looking girl

 

[samantha3333]

If he's been with you for 5 months then he knows about your hair by now and he's ok with it. You're a good looking girl

Why?

I thought I was pretty good with toppik. Until recently

 

[CopeForLife]

Just wondered what girl I haven't dated for 5 months would think in the similar situation.

 

[blackg]

Just wondered what girl I haven't dated for 5 months would think in the similar situation.

What are you trying to say?

 

[myusernamenow]

Mostly scared of what the guy I've been dating for 5 months think.

 

[Hangin'on Hair]

It's different from a guys perspective. Especially if you're attractive, hairloss on a woman doesn't come across nearly as bad in man's eyes. Now the other way around, us men are repulsive when balding. I wouldn't turn a nice looking lady down if she had some hair issues.

 

[Rudiger]

The man you have been dating has no clue after 5 months of dating?
Looks like he's either retarded, or you have BDD.

Wow within 5mins. Not quite your record time but pretty damn consistent.

 

[Exodus2011]

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aka "why can't i get an 8+ club" or just "look at me! club"

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Just shave it bro, get a tan and start hitting the weights. It's all about confidence.

 

[samantha3333]

aka "why can't i get an 8+ club" or just "look at me! club"

In my case it's "you can look anywhere but my hairline" club

 

[samantha3333]

It's different from a guys perspective. Especially if you're attractive, hairloss on a woman doesn't come across nearly as bad in man's eyes. Now the other way around, us men are repulsive when balding. I wouldn't turn a nice looking lady down if she had some hair issues.

I hear this from guys with hair problems a lot but what about a guy who has no legit hair problem ?

 

[JohnsonDDG]

It's different from a guys perspective. Especially if you're attractive, hairloss on a woman doesn't come across nearly as bad in man's eyes. Now the other way around, us men are repulsive when balding. I wouldn't turn a nice looking lady down if she had some hair issues.

That's all in your head.

Women don't see men with hair loss as repulsive.

If they have a weird face and a larry david hair cut then maybe

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

I hear this from guys with hair problems a lot but what about a guy who has no legit hair problem ?

You're asian, right? Need to know your bfs ethnicity for further assessment.