Tressless Ruined My Life 5 Years Ago

[swingline747]

You need therapy, not hair. No one in their right minds type all this sh1t just to blame the internet. It’s alright, you’re not that pretty. You won’t “slay” all those tens. I’ve slain tens. I’ve fcuked their brains out. I barely remember them. Go get yourself a girl that loves you and cares about you and during that relationship you may evolve into a man who isn’t completely shallow.

been both, being not shallow and having a "girl that loves you" get f*****g lame and you really just want to have anonymous and copious sex after a while.

 

[Derelict]

Have to say that one night stands are nice but sex with a girl you like/love is on another level.

Yeah, im pretty much against one night stands personally, don't care what other people get up to in their lives though, but having sex with someone you care about and that cares about you in return seems to be much more fulfilling to me than a quick shag with some random person.

 

[MyThinningConfidence]

You need therapy, not hair. No one in their right minds type all this sh1t just to blame the internet. It’s alright, you’re not that pretty. You won’t “slay” all those tens. I’ve slain tens. I’ve fcuked their brains out. I barely remember them. Go get yourself a girl that loves you and cares about you and during that relationship you may evolve into a man who isn’t completely shallow.

I'm in a much better place now, I definitely wouldn't say I need therapy. I've been planning to write this post for over a year now but just never had the motivation to type it all out. Perhaps the message was lost in translation but essentially I'm just trying to give a perspective of where I was for other young people starting hairloss treatment and to encourage them to do their own research to reach their own conclusion.

Nope. When I say I banged tens they were almost all of them escorts, I just know some of them personally. My point was that the dude rants about twenty pages for nothing. He seeks validation and happiness and he won’t find it by “being hairy and slaying mad pussy” because anyone can go have amazing sex with instagram thots. Filling that void tho? Now that’s a whole other story. The problem lies when we start focusing on appearance and judging by it. Dude claims he’s being judged for his looks, ok I get it. Now ask him how he judges others, the answer again is with looks. He’s trying to get a life based on looks and with people judging by looks but at the same time he doesn’t wanna be judged. Quite fcuking stupid isn’t it? And shallow. And who the hell said I’m good looking lol. I’m indeed better than your average Joe, cause I got the “brad Pitt” look. But I’m as insecure as the next guy. And I’ve been shut down by chicks hard before. I can either play my cards or cry every day that someone else out there has it all and I don’t. It’s the same thing with penis sizes. Guy thinks size is the reason she won’t like him. No it isn’t, it’s the fact that he’s terrible in bed with a half erection due to stress and he’s weird af.

point being, hair loss is hair loss. Fix the sh1t around it for now, there’s plenty any of us can fix and improve. And let hair be that one minor downer in our... image and when a cure comes we can all go cure it. There is no point worrying about something you can’t fix. You wanna tell me the guy is how he is because of hair and nothing else? Cmon

I don't think you understand that it's not all about what girls think, hair is more about my identity for me especially being in more of an alternative crowd. I care more about what I think about myself than what they think of me but when they affirm my negative feelings about myself by insulting me it genuinely hurts. When I'm confident and happy with myself though it just bounces right off. Not everything is about f*****g girls, some guys act like life revolves around their dick.

 

[MyThinningConfidence]

Anyways the reason I'm making this post is because I'm planning to tie up some loose ends and delete the majority of my posts eventually. I'm finding my progress pictures on Google images now and it's making me uncomfortable for privacy reasons. My main success story thread has 90,000 views now and that makes me a little unsettled as I never planned to become a part of the hairloss community. I even found people discussing my results and regime on lookism and I definitely don't want to be associated with that incel shithole. Funny part is they got my regime completely wrong and said I used magnesium oil aha.

I have over 300 pictures uploaded to Imgur and even more in my thread, I'll be leaving some major ones but I'm wanting to tie up a lot of the loose ends. I just know without making this thread here first people will start just making up false stories about what happened to them like I'm a fraud or finasteride made my dick limp/made me depressed or that I lost all my gains and I'm too scared to return etc. The fact is just that the hairloss community is not a community that I want to be a part of, especially after regrowing most of my hair, it's time to wrap things up and move on.

Maybe people don't realize but I'm literally gen Z and I had my youthful materialistic teen years stripped from me by aggressive premature balding. A lot of the people on here are double my age and are already well passed their prime, me on the other hand, I have a whole life I have to live yet.

I just don't want people spreading misinformation about me or treatments, I encourage everyone so very deeply to do your own research.

 

[Haironnu]

Nope. When I say I banged tens they were almost all of them escorts, I just know some of them personally. My point was that the dude rants about twenty pages for nothing. He seeks validation and happiness and he won’t find it by “being hairy and slaying mad pussy” because anyone can go have amazing sex with instagram thots. Filling that void tho? Now that’s a whole other story. The problem lies when we start focusing on appearance and judging by it. Dude claims he’s being judged for his looks, ok I get it. Now ask him how he judges others, the answer again is with looks. He’s trying to get a life based on looks and with people judging by looks but at the same time he doesn’t wanna be judged. Quite fcuking stupid isn’t it? And shallow. And who the hell said I’m good looking lol. I’m indeed better than your average Joe, cause I got the “brad Pitt” look. But I’m as insecure as the next guy. And I’ve been shut down by chicks hard before. I can either play my cards or cry every day that someone else out there has it all and I don’t. It’s the same thing with penis sizes. Guy thinks size is the reason she won’t like him. No it isn’t, it’s the fact that he’s terrible in bed with a half erection due to stress and he’s weird af.

point being, hair loss is hair loss. Fix the sh1t around it for now, there’s plenty any of us can fix and improve. And let hair be that one minor downer in our... image and when a cure comes we can all go cure it. There is no point worrying about something you can’t fix. You wanna tell me the guy is how he is because of hair and nothing else? Cmon

and yet you can't deny being bald heavily downgrades your attractiveness, and some of us were just average looking WITH full head of hair, so add a bald head to that and it's done.

regardless to what you say, the dating world runs on looks. and nowadays when every girl (most of them) has a million options from their social apps, why would she pick the bald guy?

I've yet to see 1 bald guy in my area with a good looking chick.

 

[Derelict]

I don't think anyone here thinks they should be dating 10/10 women, but i think having hair is always better than having no hair or even some moderate balding when it comes to attracting women. I also agree that for me personally my issues with balding don't particularly revolve around dating or attracting the opposite sex, i just hate having to see my diffuse thinning crown all the time and my wish to resolve it is for my own benefit, thankfully my front seems to be holding up alright, i will be 31 this year and have some recession but nothing major to worry about really, doesn't interfere with me styling my hair etc

 

[Derelict]

Your constant crying made me cash out on Juventus for a fraction of profit. Do you mind? For fcuk sake, if u can’t handle your baldness go push the eject button. I represent the big penis confident baldies who are here to motivate and chat like men. Those of you who constantly whine and pus$y out, u give us a bad rep.

If you are confident while bald then all the more power to you i guess.

 

[Capone]

Your constant crying made me cash out on Juventus for a fraction of profit. Do you mind? For fcuk sake, if u can’t handle your baldness go push the eject button. I represent the big penis confident baldies who are here to motivate and chat like men. Those of you who constantly whine and pus$y out, u give us a bad rep.

You hit the pussy button when they won 0-4.. tut tut.. must need the money

 

[Haironnu]

plenty of them. Many balded after they got into a relationship. Looks matter only to those who judge by them it’s sad but it’s true. I had no problem shutting down chicks who I didn’t like (somehow fat chicks dig me a lot and I don’t at all) without giving a single fcuk about how they feel. But when it happens to me I gotta throw a tantrum and sign up for suicide? Load of bs mate. Lots of ppl out there who don’t judge by looks but u gotta have something to draw them. A chick that plays piano doesn’t have to dig pianists but if u play the fcuking flute it’s easier to go for her, some basis is there to start chatting, u have common interests. If your only interest is hair loss and u got nothing else to show how do u expect chicks to fall for u? And why would they? Being single is such a dumb thing. Oh it’s fine I’m single, as long as I turn heads I’m FINE. how many of u have said that to urselves? “Idc if I’m single as long as I feel pretty and I get validation”? Cmon... being single is fcuked up mate. Cause hair or no hair one day u get lucky and all goes perfect and then u realize how untrained u are in talking, in socializing, in bed, in relationship. So the perfect chick u hit is now running away cause u r a tool. My advice is if u got the money to spend go for escorts (work social into it, it’s easy) or just make urself available vividly and hit the first chick that’s also available vividly (which is a bad thing always cause no sane girl does that but whatever see it as a challenge). Waiting for some Japanese dude to cure ur horseshoe is not gonna do anything. I feel sh1t sometimes too when I’m out and everyone around me got super nice hair. But I assure u I got a bigger dick. Someone else is taller. Someone else is smarter, someone else is richer, someone else has nice hands etc. work with whatever u got, then u get better. You guys are level 1 and ask to get to level 90 with a single blow. That sh1t ain’t happening.

my guy no body want to pay for sex. sorry it's not gonna make me feel good paying for escorts to pretend they want to have sex with me, if that works for you then kudos to you.

most good looking girls care about looks and it's only natural, if you look good you want to be with someone that looks good too. and majority of bald guys just do not look good.

and most of the world is superficial, and humans are superficial by nature. and when it comes to sex women are designed to want the top genetics pool. it's been proved by studies several times already.

tall, hair, symmetric face, prominent jaw, that's what women find the most attractive, you can say they only care about looks, I say that's nature.

and obviously women who reject you because of your looks are not only looking for looks, they are simply not attracted to you, why would they give you a chance if there is no physical attraction? that's the most basic thing, that's the first layer of things.

most men with a bald head will not be attractive to many girls. the girl you approach to at the bar don't care how interesting or an amazing person you are, the first thing she approves or disapproves is your looks, if she likes your looks she will start a conversation with you, if she doesn't she will shut you off right away, that's how it works. and that's what both men and women do.

 

[Capone]

my guy no body want to pay for sex. sorry it's not gonna make me feel good paying for escorts to pretend they want to have sex with me, if that works for you then kudos to you.

most good looking girls care about looks and it's only natural, if you look good you want to be with someone that looks good too. and majority of bald guys just do not look good.

and most of the world is superficial, and humans are superficial by nature. and when it comes to sex women are designed to want the top genetics pool. it's been proved by studies several times already.

tall, hair, symmetric face, prominent jaw, that's what women find the most attractive, you can say they only care about looks, I say that's nature.

and obviously women who reject you because of your looks are not only looking for looks, they are simply not attracted to you, why would they give you a chance if there is no physical attraction? that's the most basic thing, that's the first layer of things.

most men with a bald head will not be attractive to many girls. the girl you approach to at the bar don't care how interesting or an amazing person you are, the first thing she approves or disapproves is your looks, if she likes your looks she will start a conversation with you, if she doesn't she will shut you off right away, that's how it works. and that's what both men and women do.

That’s why the bar scene and online dating are no go areas for cueballs! They need to excel in other disciplines like comedy, music, art etc. Then she’ll see you for your talent and not judge you as some bald creep standing at the bar.

 

[MyThinningConfidence]

If it means anything to you guys when I was dating my ex she said she'd love me regardless even if I was bald although initially she was attracted to my long hair and my general look.

 

[karatekid]

If it means anything to you guys when I was dating my ex she said she'd love me regardless even if I was bald although initially she was attracted to my long hair and my general look.

Lol then why you broke up?

Anyway, now I can see how you ate thas sh*t tressless fed you with spoon, stop believe to empty statements you idiot, so what if she said that? it doesnt mean sh*t.

When my ex told me about her insecurity because of her small breasts, what do you think I told her? That I dont care about that of course lol what else can I say. But the truth is that it really took down my attraction to her.

 

[Haironnu]

That’s why the bar scene and online dating are no go areas for cueballs! They need to excel in other disciplines like comedy, music, art etc. Then she’ll see you for your talent and not judge you as some bald creep standing at the bar.

not like that's any better, so they see you for your talent and fall in love with you but there isn't really any physical attraction because you're still not physically attractive, how long that relationship gonna last? several years later she's used to your talent and you're not exciting anymore, and since she's not physically attracted to you there isn't anything worth staying for anymore.

being an unattractive person in this world while caring for dating and being in a relationship is a brutal life.
in the best case scenario you'll end up with someone that you're both compromising for.

 

[Haironnu]

Lol then why you broke up?

Anyway, now I can see how you ate thas sh*t tressless fed you with spoon, stop believe to empty statements you idiot, so what if she said that? it doesnt mean sh*t.

When my ex told me about her insecurity because of her small breasts, what do you think I told her? That I dont care about that of course lol what else can I say. But the truth is that it really took down my attraction to her.

lol for sure, maybe she didn't really care about his hair loss but even if she did she wouldn't say it anyway so there is no way to really know unless eventually she changes in front of him and grows distant.

 

[MyThinningConfidence]

Lol then why you broke up?

Anyway, now I can see how you ate thas sh*t tressless fed you with spoon, stop believe to empty statements you idiot, so what if she said that? it doesnt mean sh*t.

When my ex told me about her insecurity because of her small breasts, what do you think I told her? That I dont care about that of course lol what else can I say. But the truth is that it really took down my attraction to her.

Are you seriously inferring we broke up because of my hairloss? I know her extremely well and I wholeheartedly believe what she said. The relationship in the end was just borderline toxic and ultimately it ended because she required too much attention and was clingy although I still wanted some of my personal life. It was smothering.

Eventually I ended up spending time with friends playing games for about a week or two and barely interacted with her, in that time she ended up cheating on me with a guy far less attractive than me. We still loved each other though so it seriously complicated things and turned it into a love/hate relationship that got lowkey toxic. We got back together like 3-4 weeks later.

Dated for another 9 months after that but the trust was broken and the thought of this ugly dude inside my girl fucked me up too much. Eventually we broke up since it just wasn't working.

She literally got into another relationship like a couple of weeks later and ended up getting engaged to the guy two months after we broke up. She texted me a few times while engaged actually and we spoke briefly but I wasn't having any of that. She complimented me on how nice it was to have an actual conversation again though since I'm the only person she knows that can have an actual long and deep conversation, her current fiance has no personality at all.

Both of these guys were far less attractive than me, less intelligent and educated and less talented and accomplished. Extremely average-below average guys that are completely uninspiring. It sounds like I'm tooting my own horn here but the only thing they had going for them was that they gave her attention when she craved it. She wants someone to love her unconditionally and completely and for her to be their entire life and existence.

I personally have my own goals and dreams and sacrificing them for a simple girl and relationship and losing my identity and self is not worth it.

 

[karatekid]

Are you seriously inferring we broke up because of my hairloss? I know her extremely well and I wholeheartedly believe what she said. The relationship in the end was just borderline toxic and ultimately it ended because she required too much attention and was clingy although I still wanted some of my personal life. It was smothering.

Eventually I ended up spending time with friends playing games for about a week or two and barely interacted with her, in that time she ended up cheating on me with a guy far less attractive than me. We still loved each other though so it seriously complicated things and turned it into a love/hate relationship that got lowkey toxic. We got back together like 3-4 weeks later.

Dated for another 9 months after that but the trust was broken and the thought of this ugly dude inside my girl fucked me up too much. Eventually we broke up since it just wasn't working.

She literally got into another relationship like a couple of weeks later and ended up getting engaged to the guy two months after we broke up. She texted me a few times while engaged actually and we spoke briefly but I wasn't having any of that. She complimented me on how nice it was to have an actual conversation again though since I'm the only person she knows that can have an actual long and deep conversation, her current fiance has no personality at all.

Both of these guys were far less attractive than me, less intelligent and educated and less talented and accomplished. Extremely average-below average guys that are completely uninspiring. It sounds like I'm tooting my own horn here but the only thing they had going for them was that they gave her attention when she craved it. She wants someone to love her unconditionally and completely and for her to be their entire life and existence.

I personally have my own goals and dreams and sacrificing them for a simple girl and relationship and losing my identity and self is not worth it.

Wow, nice, so she basically looked for desperate beta man so he would treat her like a queen... I bet it isnt gonna end well...

Anyway, I didnt assumed anything, just asked. And about the hairloss thing, I really think you cant tell whats going in her mind, but whatever, not arguing.

Btw I also had ex that kinda want more attention then I gave her, and actually I wasnt really into her toward the. Year after the break up she got into relationship with someone also less attractive and with worse hairloss than me. Kinda made me feel better lol.

 

[infinitepain]

Bald = death
Low DHT cuck = death
NW0 agressive slayer or you are coping

anything else is a f*****g scam.

 

[Here For the Lulz]

This whole post is bullshit. A bunch of whining about taking the opinions of others, choosing to believe them, then bitching about it after the fact. You could have changed your mind at any time, but you didn’t. You waited as is common in the denial phase, but are trying to blame others for it.

Cmon man...

 

[Jeju]

I just came from tressless, and you’re right, it is bad. Pro finasteride, but bad. You have got to be the biggest whining biach combining both forum members, though lol
Bro, you’re naturally bald as a coot in your teens! Don’t f*** your hormones for a couple extra years - there’s no way finasteride will hold off your aggressive balding for long. Must be on dutasteride by now? What a joke this place is.

 

[Will Be an Egg in 5 years]

Have to say that one night stands are nice but sex with a girl you like/love is on another level.

"Love" in 2021. LOL