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Some people might find this humorous in a way. I mean, It’s probably a person who has the misfortune to have male pattern baldness, worst nightmare.
Well it’s in the top 10 anyway.
It all started this afternoon at work, when I was talking to my boss about football (soccer). All of a sudden, it got a bit heated. He supports Man Utd and I support Arsenal. He can’t stand Arsenal and I can’t stand Man Utd. Anyway, as I say, it started to get a bit heated. Because he is boss, he thinks I am not going to defend myself when he abuses the team I support.
Anyway, I gave as good as I received, when discussing football - and he got aggressive and went that one step further. He knows I have hair loss. Sadly as we all know, people mock hair loss. People see it as a joke. He saw this as a weakness on my part. Basically, in an aggressive manner, he pulled the cap off the top of my head to embarrass me. As I mentioned previous, he knows I happen to be a youngster who suffers from hair loss, and he preyed on this in order to make me weak.
It’s like, he could dominate me, once he reveals I have hair loss. He doesn’t have male pattern baldness, he has normal hair. This is seriously, how he saw it.
He pulled the cap off the my head and told me to go outside.
As we all know hair loss is also psychological. Like most, I hate revealing it, so I wear a cap.
It’s like, because he yanked my cap off, he expected me to lose all my energy and become mentally weak.
I remained calm, and although my hair wasn’t great, at least it was cut short, so it wasn’t overly-obvious I’m losing it.
When he did it, I kept calm. I did feel embarrassed but I didn’t show it on the outside, but on the inside, I felt like crap from that moment.
Basically, he tried to gain power over the situation by displaying my hair loss.
This was not a great feeling for me. Then took me outside and started shoving me, with a grin on his face and my hat in his hand.
He was pleased with himself.
Basically, he did it in an attempt to humiliate me. It was everything we dread. He kept pushing me saying “what are you going to do about it? No ones here to witness it“. Those were his words.
It was like you see in the movies, when the evil guy says something along those same lines, when he is the only person in the other persons presence.
He was right, no one was around to witness him pushing me. Sadly in this situation, when people fight, they don’t walk around with a grin on their faces for the rest of the day.
He did.
He wasn’t sorry at all. He enjoyed it.
Having hair loss killed me in this situation.
He has a perfect head of hair, he completely took advantage of the fact I no longer haven’t, by yanking my cap off to reveal it.
I handled the situation the best I could. Didn’t flinch, nor did I look embarrassed, although, I am feeling pretty much like sh*t right now typing this message.
This never used to happen. Ever since I‘ve been losing hair, people have become slightly aggressive.
Like they can get one over me or they gain confidence in the fact my hair is thin and theirs isn’t.
I’ve never ever got into a fight at a work-place before. Well, this wasn’t a fight as such - more of abuse from his side. It all started by talking about football. The opinions got heated, then he attempted to humiliate me.
Typing this, I feel like sh*t. Energy-less. A little bit humiliated I suppose.
I just can’t let him get away with this. I’m not showing any signs of anger on the outside. On the inside, I’m finding it hard - him taking advantage of this.
Revenge would be sweet.
I would leave the job, but leaving wouldn’t be good for me because I found it difficult to get employed because of the pshyclogical battle of accepting hair loss, when it 1st became noticeable. No one would touch me.
So I need the money.
I don‘t know, maybe there is someone I can get in contact with regards to abuse at work? If anyone in the UK knows anywhere?
What is the case?
If I do leave, then I could get him back somehow. Not only did he try to humiliate me in front of the whole company, but he started pushing me saying “no ones here to witness itâ€
I haven’t got the physique to act the hard-nut.
What a situation.
This is just a nightmare. I’m not a violent person, yet just because I refused to let my boss own me over a football related opinion, he got aggressive and preyed on a weakness that‘s out of my hands.
I just can’t be myself these days.
It’s as if people are forcing me to be a different person, because of this hair loss situation
Anyway, that’s basically it.
Well it’s in the top 10 anyway.
It all started this afternoon at work, when I was talking to my boss about football (soccer). All of a sudden, it got a bit heated. He supports Man Utd and I support Arsenal. He can’t stand Arsenal and I can’t stand Man Utd. Anyway, as I say, it started to get a bit heated. Because he is boss, he thinks I am not going to defend myself when he abuses the team I support.
Anyway, I gave as good as I received, when discussing football - and he got aggressive and went that one step further. He knows I have hair loss. Sadly as we all know, people mock hair loss. People see it as a joke. He saw this as a weakness on my part. Basically, in an aggressive manner, he pulled the cap off the top of my head to embarrass me. As I mentioned previous, he knows I happen to be a youngster who suffers from hair loss, and he preyed on this in order to make me weak.
It’s like, he could dominate me, once he reveals I have hair loss. He doesn’t have male pattern baldness, he has normal hair. This is seriously, how he saw it.
He pulled the cap off the my head and told me to go outside.
As we all know hair loss is also psychological. Like most, I hate revealing it, so I wear a cap.
It’s like, because he yanked my cap off, he expected me to lose all my energy and become mentally weak.
I remained calm, and although my hair wasn’t great, at least it was cut short, so it wasn’t overly-obvious I’m losing it.
When he did it, I kept calm. I did feel embarrassed but I didn’t show it on the outside, but on the inside, I felt like crap from that moment.
Basically, he tried to gain power over the situation by displaying my hair loss.
This was not a great feeling for me. Then took me outside and started shoving me, with a grin on his face and my hat in his hand.
He was pleased with himself.
Basically, he did it in an attempt to humiliate me. It was everything we dread. He kept pushing me saying “what are you going to do about it? No ones here to witness it“. Those were his words.
It was like you see in the movies, when the evil guy says something along those same lines, when he is the only person in the other persons presence.
He was right, no one was around to witness him pushing me. Sadly in this situation, when people fight, they don’t walk around with a grin on their faces for the rest of the day.
He did.
He wasn’t sorry at all. He enjoyed it.
Having hair loss killed me in this situation.
He has a perfect head of hair, he completely took advantage of the fact I no longer haven’t, by yanking my cap off to reveal it.
I handled the situation the best I could. Didn’t flinch, nor did I look embarrassed, although, I am feeling pretty much like sh*t right now typing this message.
This never used to happen. Ever since I‘ve been losing hair, people have become slightly aggressive.
Like they can get one over me or they gain confidence in the fact my hair is thin and theirs isn’t.
I’ve never ever got into a fight at a work-place before. Well, this wasn’t a fight as such - more of abuse from his side. It all started by talking about football. The opinions got heated, then he attempted to humiliate me.
Typing this, I feel like sh*t. Energy-less. A little bit humiliated I suppose.
I just can’t let him get away with this. I’m not showing any signs of anger on the outside. On the inside, I’m finding it hard - him taking advantage of this.
Revenge would be sweet.
I would leave the job, but leaving wouldn’t be good for me because I found it difficult to get employed because of the pshyclogical battle of accepting hair loss, when it 1st became noticeable. No one would touch me.
So I need the money.
I don‘t know, maybe there is someone I can get in contact with regards to abuse at work? If anyone in the UK knows anywhere?
What is the case?
If I do leave, then I could get him back somehow. Not only did he try to humiliate me in front of the whole company, but he started pushing me saying “no ones here to witness itâ€
I haven’t got the physique to act the hard-nut.
What a situation.
This is just a nightmare. I’m not a violent person, yet just because I refused to let my boss own me over a football related opinion, he got aggressive and preyed on a weakness that‘s out of my hands.
I just can’t be myself these days.
It’s as if people are forcing me to be a different person, because of this hair loss situation
Anyway, that’s basically it.