What Happens When You Become A Nw7 Young

[Afro_Vacancy]

More average Brits for you to destroy:

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I'm quite enjoying you dissect people I semi know.

I think the who point was to show that we often put male beauty to such high standards on here, but when you look at the average guy you can tell that we aren't so bad.

Please rate @Pasbrillantebrunette

It would be very hard to figure out what's average.

Are you picking these pictures at random?

Though I agree with you, many people here are ridiculous in their ratings.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

It would be very hard to figure out what's average.

Are you picking these pictures at random?

Though I agree with you, many people here are ridiculous in their ratings.

We're facebook friends, but I just wanted to give an example of what is average in the UK.

The point I make is that this is what is average over here and all but the guy on the far right could get laid easily once per week if they tried.

I don't know if it is harder in the foreign countries then it is where I am but i'm placing an argument against this notion that you have to be handsome to get laid. My simple argument is that if you are average - like the examples I give - then everything is okay and that you shouldn't beat yourself up because you are not looking like Brad Pitt.

In short - if you are average looking then stop complaining!

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

We're facebook friends, but I just wanted to give an example of what is average in the UK.

The point I make is that this is what is average over here and all but the guy on the far right could get laid easily once per week if they tried.

I don't know if it is harder in the foreign countries then it is where I am but i'm placing an argument against this notion that you have to be handsome to get laid. My simple argument is that if you are average - like the examples I give - then everything is okay and that you shouldn't beat yourself up because you are not looking like Brad Pitt.

In short - if you are average looking then stop complaining!

The vast, vast, overwhelming majority of men in their 30s have active sex lives, you don't need to be handsome to get laid, that's just a cope by some of the ugly people here "I'm not handsome so I won't bother trying." Being handsome simply improves your odds, and the level of affection you can get from a given women.

In my own case it's a limiting factor as I don't have a great offline social network (I've lived in six different cities), lack real life game, and can't settle for 3/10 women.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

This is what Italian girls consider "average".

Picky sl*ts. f*** them and f*** this shithole of a country.

No chest hair, pouty lips, pretentious sunglasses, weak facial hair, 2/10 would not bang.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Now you see why I was never kidding when I said Italian girls are picky, shallow sl*ts. I'm a rotting corpse compared to the guy, and have always been treated accordingly only because of this. The guy in the pic is a f*****g prick, but nobody cares about it; girls even let themselves be treated like dirt and even revel in it. Yet another evidence that women have absolutely no dignity at all.

I don't know how representative Italian expatriates and second-generation italian north americans are of the general population of Italy. The perception I had for years is that Italian men are very controlling. One woman I know, her Italian male partner forbade her from having male friends, which everybody understood as him forbidding her from ever developing a life of her own. Another couple I know, the Italian husband is clearly the alpha of the relationship. One Italian woman I knew in college said she broke up with her first boyfriend who was italian because he needed to control every aspect of her life.

I knew this Italian couple at my previous workplace, they were both from Sicily. I couldn't ask the woman a question, even about work-related matters, without the man answering. They not only dated and lived together ... they also spent the work day in each other's office (gross).

Granted there's a bias here as these examples I'm giving you are largely from southern Italy, might in fact all be Sicilian.

There's one exception, this couple I know here in Baltimore, they're both normal, they have a horizontal relationship, I don't remember what part of Italy the man is from, facebook says the woman is from Napoli.

Bsed on what I've seen, Italian women like to submit, but at least they make excellent pasta and tiramisu.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

This is what Italian girls consider "average".

Picky sl*ts. f*** them and f*** this shithole of a country.

Ah man, that's tough.

I keep mentioning the British thing because my experiences are as an English man. From the sounds of it, things are a lot harder in different cities. I imagine Italy is pretty tough because it is a nation fixated with art and beauty. David noted in another thread about how difficult it is in California and I do think he had a great point.

For whatever reason, whether genetic or cultural, there does seem to be a wide disparity between different geographical locations. Whereas being ugly/average in the UK is not the end of the world, being ugly/average in, say Italy, NYC, or LA is devastating.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I don't know how representative Italian expatriates and second-generation italian north americans are of the general population of Italy. The perception I had for years is that Italian men are very controlling. One woman I know, her Italian male partner forbade her from having male friends, which everybody understood as him forbidding her from ever developing a life of her own. Another couple I know, the Italian husband is clearly the alpha of the relationship. One Italian woman I knew in college said she broke up with her first boyfriend who was italian because he needed to control every aspect of her life.

I knew this Italian couple at my previous workplace, they were both from Sicily. I couldn't ask the woman a question, even about work-related matters, without the man answering. They not only dated and lived together ... they also spent the work day in each other's office (gross).

Granted there's a bias here as these examples I'm giving you are largely from southern Italy, might in fact all be Sicilian.

There's one exception, this couple I know here in Baltimore, they're both normal, they have a horizontal relationship, I don't remember what part of Italy the man is from, facebook says the woman is from Napoli.

Bsed on what I've seen, Italian women like to submit, but at least they make excellent pasta and tiramisu.

That's the old generation of Italians.

The young generation of women are rejecting marriage and children. You should see the falling birth rates, I don't have the statistics at hand but when you compare them to forty years ago the difference is staggering. A lot of these young women don't want to be the mother and cook and feed their families like their mothers and grandmothers did.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Nonono ... I somehow got far *more* matches in LA and I wish I knew why !

Which city was you purporting had the biggest challenges in dating

 

[JohnsonDDG]

True, we're slowly being replaced, as it's happening in many European countries, right, @WhitePolarBear ?.

Ironic.

They don't count because they breed with each other - they don't marry the white girls.

 

[pjhair]

Nonono ... I somehow got far *more* matches in LA and I wish I knew why !

A friend of mine who is pretty good looking recently visited me. He is white, 6'1, NW1, good face, excellent physique and has an accent that melts girls hearts as soon as he opens his mouth. He gets frequent tinder matches in his city and has no trouble meeting women in general. But in my city his tinder match count dropped to just one match in 4 days. Exactly the same as mine. He was shocked at the difference.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

LA is easiest, then Canberra, then Baltimore, I think, though Baltimore is easier than Canberra in practice as Jewish girls seem to like me more.

Have you got dual citizenship?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

A friend of mine who is pretty good looking recently visited me. He is white, 6'1, NW1, good face, excellent physique and has an accent that melts girls hearts as soon as he opens his mouth. He gets frequent tinder matches in his city and has no trouble meeting women in general. But in my city his tinder match count dropped to just one match in 4 days. Exactly the same as mine. He was shocked at the difference.

I don't know why Dallas is the sex desert, but you have just cause to relocate.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Have you got dual citizenship?

Canadian citizen only.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

A friend of mine who is pretty good looking recently visited me. He is white, 6'1, NW1, good face, excellent physique and has an accent that melts girls hearts as soon as he opens his mouth. He gets frequent tinder matches in his city and has no trouble meeting women in general. But in my city his tinder match count dropped to just one match in 4 days. Exactly the same as mine. He was shocked at the difference.

What city are you in?

The tinder algorithm is weird and i'm sure his problem was that he moved locations without logging out and logging back in - that can really mess up how the matches work - don't ask me why.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Canadian citizen only.

Do you prefer working in America?

Culturally I prefer Canadians for obvious reasons (sorry americans!)

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Do you prefer working in America?

Culturally I prefer Canadians for obvious reasons (sorry americans!)

I go wherever I'm offered the best job.

I have no preference between the USA and Canada. Variations within the countries are larger than variations between the two countries.

 

[pjhair]

I don't know why Dallas is the sex desert, but you have just cause to relocate.

I am in Oklahoma City now. But pretty much the same result on Tinder. Although, I get far better response in approaching women in clubs in Oklahoma City, so that's a plus. My network here is pretty solid to as I went to school here. But I am really not sure how long will I be able to stay in Oklahoma. I recently applied to a few universities in New York and Texas for masters. If I get accepted, I may have to relocate again.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I go wherever I'm offered the best job.

I have no preference between the USA and Canada. Variations within the countries are larger than variations between the two countries.

Bloody mercenary!

I took a pay cut just to live somewhere I love.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Bloody mercenary!

I took a pay cut just to live somewhere I love.

I'm from a working class background and have no safety net. There's no inheritance and no mother's basement in any future for me. It's success or starvation.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm from a working class background and have no safety net. There's no inheritance and no mother's basement in any future for me. It's success or starvation.

Same. Although I'm neither a success or a failure - just somewhere in the middle.

The only exceptional thing I've done is travelled the world - but from the sounds of it, so have you.