What Is Confidence? Confidence 101!

[Oknow]

Confidence is when:

- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.

In terms of women:

- You try your luck anyway, irrespective on if you fail or not.

In terms of life:

- You try your luck anyway, irrespective on if you fail or not.

Women can sense it when a guy is genuinely confident...and they are attracted to it. Why? Because:

- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Confidence is when:

- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.
- You don't give a f*** about what anybody thinks. Or feel the need to prove yourself.

In terms of women:

- You try your luck anyway, irrespective on if you fail or not.

In terms of life:

- You try your luck anyway, irrespective on if you fail or not.

Women can sense it when a guy is genuinely confident...and they are attracted to it.

Your definition of confidence is more just a willful lack of contextual self awareness. Women don’t want delusional autists.

 

[sadila]

Women don’t want delusional autists

Unless you look like this

 

[Oknow]

Your definition of confidence is more just a willful lack of contextual self awareness. Women don’t want delusional autists.

That's my point. True confidence is accepting you for being you, and not placing your happiness on some b**ch.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Unless you look like this
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True. Reminds me of Connor murphy from youtube tbh.

 

[davesmith420]

I just watched this today;

tfw I basically do everything that is considered "not masculine" in this video.

DAVEY THE I N C E L

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Unless you look like this
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If you looked like that you could do almost anything and still get women.

Of course he is an anomaly - I sometimes think we can drawn to extremes here and focus on the bottom 5% of men and the top 5% of men.

 

[Dontwannabeabetabob]

Confidence comes externally.

 

[sadila]

If you looked like that you could do almost anything and still get women.

Of course he is an anomaly - I sometimes think we can drawn to extremes here and focus on the bottom 5% of men and the top 5% of men.

I actually came across this guy once in paris. you could spot him miles away as he automatically shadows everyone around him no matter how attractive they are his face is so big yet still handsome it's like he's a different kind of specie don't know how to explain it it's weird.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Confidence comes externally.

Not always.

I've met self hating people who are 7s and I've met extremely confident 5's.

Theres usually a correlation with looks and confidence, but not always.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

When a woman says she wants a confident man she doesn’t mean a man that has confidence, instead she means a man that LOOKS confident. Muscular, tall, broad frame, sharp jawline, low brows.
This guy is confident:

This guy isn’t:

Learn the difference, it might save your life.

 

[arnoldd]

i think personality play a big role.

i have a friend who is a bit ugly ( 4 or 5 /10) but he has a great personality, he is extroverted and carimastic, he has more contacts and approaches with girls than others guys that looks more good than him.

obvious, it's better not be ugly at all, but if you are ugly and have a lack of confidence too..you are fucked

 

[DoctorHouse]

That's my point. True confidence is accepting you for being you, and not placing your happiness on some b**ch.

I think you are mixing up self esteem/ self worth with confidence. I will say this again as I said it once before confidence is based on competence. For instance, the more you interact with women, the more experience you get. The more experience you get will give you the competence on how to interact with women. Once you master how to interact with women, you will exude confidence. A virgin is not going to exude confidence with his first sexual encounter. If he has watched hours of p**rn, he might know how to fake competence and confidence but until he is competent in knowing how to please a women, he will never exude true confidence. Not giving a f*** is not confidence. Its putting value into something according to your own terms or perspective.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

When a woman says she wants a confident man she doesn’t mean a man that has confidence, instead she means a man that LOOKS confident. Muscular, tall, broad frame, sharp jawline, low brows.
This guy is confident:
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This guy isn’t:
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Learn the difference, it might save your life.

Or like this model:

Good looks is good looks.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Or like this model:

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Good looks is good looks.

He looks a lot more confident than the bald guy I posted.

 

[sadila]

When a woman says she wants a confident man she doesn’t mean a man that has confidence, instead she means a man that LOOKS confident. Muscular, tall, broad frame, sharp jawline, low brows.
This guy is confident:
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This guy isn’t:
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Learn the difference, it might save your life.

Second guy wouldn't look confident even with a majestic nw0 hairline

 

[Oknow]

When a woman says she wants a confident man she doesn’t mean a man that has confidence, instead she means a man that LOOKS confident. Muscular, tall, broad frame, sharp jawline, low brows.
This guy is confident:
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This guy isn’t:
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Learn the difference, it might save your life.

What about Donald trump, Jeff Bezos , the rock, vin diesel, Steve Jobs, these guys are extremely confident, much more successful than you but bald and has not let their hair loss hold them back.

 

[N003]

Sometimes I'm not sure if we're in a women's forum here.
It's like when women compare to Angelina Jolie.
How many women look like Angelina Jolie? Maybe 10%.
The same goes for the man.
These comparisons are pointless and just sick, sorry.
Get away from the Internet and social media.
This has nothing more to do with the real world.

 

[Oknow]

I think you are mixing up self esteem/ self worth with confidence. I will say this again as I said it once before confidence is based on competence. For instance, the more you interact with women, the more experience you get. The more experience you get will give you the competence on how to interact with women. Once you master how to interact with women, you will exude confidence. A virgin is not going to exude confidence with his first sexual encounter. If he has watched hours of p*rn, he might know how to fake competence and confidence but until he is competent in knowing how to please a women, he will never exude true confidence. Not giving a f*** is not confidence. Its putting value into something according to your own terms or perspective.

I agree, and you don't need hair to interact with women.

Don't get me wrong, I hate hairloss more than the next guy, but I have seen so many bald guys that are still very confident despite it. My boss who is probably on a tonne of money is bald, married and has kids.

 

[Oknow]

Sometimes I'm not sure if we're in a women's forum here.
It's like when women compare to Angelina Jolie.
How many women look like Angelina Jolie? Maybe 10%.
The same goes for the man.
These comparisons are pointless and just sick, sorry.
Get away from the Internet and social media.
This has nothing more to do with the real world.

Yeah, exactly.

Many women are also average looking.