Dating isn’t super easy for anyone, excluding those with celebrity status. In my 20s when I was single I had no probs dating hot women, but you can’t simply ask beautiful women for sex and get it. You have to put in time and effort in and there is always some other guy trying to get their attention too. Sure, now and again I’d meet a hot woman who want some no strings fun, but it was rare. Those willing to put out fast usually had other issues which I won’t go in to on here.
I train with a number of handsome athletic young guys who actually complain about online dating because it creates too much constant competition. And these guys look perfect.
Another guy I know is a genetic freak, looks like a Hollywood star and was on a reality tv show so has thousands of female followers. Now he has dated some very beautiful women and I’m sure his profile and looks give him massive leverage but equally, he doesn’t simply message a woman for sex and they come over! He gets lucky here and there but its not a constant flow. The only men getting that level of attention are high profile e.g. premier league footballers, actors, musicians etc - very very small percentage of real people.
You want easy sex - you most likely have to pay for it.