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I know most people here are all over the above but still curious your main reason.
What Is The Reason For Fear Of Being Bald.
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It's mostly about not being attractive to women any more.
But even if I lived in a country with only men - I would still want my hair. It wouldn't matter as much, but if other people have hair and are able to express themselves through their hair then I want the same rights as them.
But even if I lived in a country with only men - I would still want my hair. It wouldn't matter as much, but if other people have hair and are able to express themselves through their hair then I want the same rights as them.
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1. bald = you look very different, self image is corrupted
2. bald = weak spot, anybody can call you out and you have nothing in defence apart "haha, lol, yeah, haha"
3. bald = loosing quite a part of a life called haircuts, discussing it and visiting barbershops
4. bald = looking sick, like a cancer patient or some derma illness
5. bald = old
6. bald = everyday messing with shaving, sweat head
7. bald = zero validation from opposite gender unless you are Zidane
8. bald = you are a part of club of losers
9. bald = infected genetics, your child gonna be bald as well
10. bald and young = reclusion
11. bald = constant triggering by 50+ NW1 men
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2. bald = weak spot, anybody can call you out and you have nothing in defence apart "haha, lol, yeah, haha"
3. bald = loosing quite a part of a life called haircuts, discussing it and visiting barbershops
4. bald = looking sick, like a cancer patient or some derma illness
5. bald = old
6. bald = everyday messing with shaving, sweat head
7. bald = zero validation from opposite gender unless you are Zidane
8. bald = you are a part of club of losers
9. bald = infected genetics, your child gonna be bald as well
10. bald and young = reclusion
11. bald = constant triggering by 50+ NW1 men
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Attracting the opposite sex, not having to settle.
Oddly I realised that this is pretty much my sole reason for it this morning at the gym. In the locker room with either sweaty hair pre-shower or totally wet hair after showering, I couldn't care less about fixing it in front of other men I don't know. Doesn't matter.
However I specify "men I don't know", as at that time I didn't know anyone else in the room. If I did know someone I'd be concerned they'd baldshame me to others after, potentially women.
Although there's an element of ridicule we all want to avoid, I still feel that ridicule only hurts because inevitably it means you're unattractive to females and beta genetic trash.
Oddly I realised that this is pretty much my sole reason for it this morning at the gym. In the locker room with either sweaty hair pre-shower or totally wet hair after showering, I couldn't care less about fixing it in front of other men I don't know. Doesn't matter.
However I specify "men I don't know", as at that time I didn't know anyone else in the room. If I did know someone I'd be concerned they'd baldshame me to others after, potentially women.
Although there's an element of ridicule we all want to avoid, I still feel that ridicule only hurts because inevitably it means you're unattractive to females and beta genetic trash.
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The fact that I would fall from like a 6 or 7 to a 4 if I went bald
shookwun
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Ita everything you mentioned, not individual.
I am at a point now where it doesn't effect my ability to pick up women, but it totally destroys my self esteem, and my desire to go out and do simple activities that I used to other wise enjoy.
It effects me heavily in regrds to how I feel around other people. I simply have a hard to being myself in certain situations. Which in itself destroys my ability to meet women.
The self-focus and anxiety that is derived from hair loss makes you a psychological, and mental wreck.
I belive most you either don't suffer from similar effects or are just focusing on the most basic understanding - being less attractive.
I am at a point now where it doesn't effect my ability to pick up women, but it totally destroys my self esteem, and my desire to go out and do simple activities that I used to other wise enjoy.
It effects me heavily in regrds to how I feel around other people. I simply have a hard to being myself in certain situations. Which in itself destroys my ability to meet women.
The self-focus and anxiety that is derived from hair loss makes you a psychological, and mental wreck.
I belive most you either don't suffer from similar effects or are just focusing on the most basic understanding - being less attractive.
hanginginthewire
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This is still true for you even post transplants?
EDIT Course you don't have the results from your third one yet.
Notcoolanymore
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Being less attractive or not attractive at all is the main reason. Attractiveness or lack there of has a huge impact on ones life. The impact goes way beyond ones sex life.
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Baldingat188
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Mostly my own identity and I want my hair for myself
Dating is second IMO but still important
Dating is second IMO but still important
infinitepain
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Not having hair guarantees i'll never get my dicked suck by the pretty young girls. I might as well drink bleach.
Notcoolanymore
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Even the sub par girls will not want to do it. If they do decide to do it, most/all will regret it later.
Don't even care about the attracting mate part, if a girl doesn't like me she can go f*** herself. It is more just being confident with myself. Hair was my best attribute my whole life, and gave me confidence in literally everything I did, from having the balls to go up and talk to a random girl to killing an interview for a job. Losing my hair got rid of that confidence. If I had the right facial features and skull shape for bald I would probably still have that confidence, but I don't.
Notcoolanymore
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Exactly. Sure it is nice to look your best to pick up girls, but that confidence carries over to other things too.
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It does. It extends to the career, for a lot of guys.
People who are semi good looking have more friends, a better outlook
on life, probably.
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It's only the idea of being bald which you can just look at 9/10 bald men and read there emotions and feel there pain but your face can look a health as the next man's but hair gives u a look of illness which as we all know really ducks with you
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Balding completely fucks you up. I am totally fucked up. I still can't get over this redpill.
It bends and cracks your self image which you struggled to build during teenage; it destroys your self identity and your youth with it.
But all this would be completely negligible if it didn't have effect on those around you. People respect you less; women don't look at you 'that' way anymore (you become a fetish at best); people think you're old; you scare away teenagers, who think you're a cop; you get mocked, ridiculed; you get called a 'has been' at a young age (this one fucked me up the most); you miss opportunities; you lose friends, even valuable ones; you get pity stares at the hairline; you potentially lose career prospects if you work in image-driven environments. I entirely agree with all this, balding is bad, a disfigurement, and acceptable only very later in life.
Balding fucks you up internally, but most fucks you up externally. Balding is like having 'bad genes, 'has been'' tattooed on your forehead. Self esteem tanks. Mind has a big weight to carry every day: it's taxing and it never leaves you. Balding is like a demon which not only surrounds you, but also fucks up your mind. Only very stupid people get easily over it.
