What is the trick to stop caring / missing women?

[Isaac Newton]

what is NT?

Neurotypical, as in no mental issues or anything

 

[Isaac Newton]

Someone who sits in his home all day living on walfare and doing nothing all day

Thats NEET, not NT

 

[Isaac Newton]

Neurotypical, as in no mental issues or anything

So yeah you can see why what he said was stupid. "Just don't have mental issues bro" lol

 

[Ephemeral-Kitten]

Yea sorry you're right it just pops in my head all the time

I get really angry and annoyed at myself because i still think of my trash old gf from a few years ago

But i cant get that sex/companionship/intimacy due to my genetics. I've had a taste for it so the desire for it is now a lot stronger than previously having nothing.

I guess i just need to live with it and accept its not something that can be switched off . just deal with it

I don't think you should give up! Surely your situation isn't so bad that it's beyond the aid of treatments and plastic surgery/hair transplant?

 

[Feelsbadman]

I don't think you should give up! Surely your situation isn't so bad that it's beyond the aid of treatments and plastic surgery/hair transplant?

I just have a bad combination of genetics,

I have all the traits women don't want

bad complexion, short, balding, poor social skills, why would a women want to be with an ugly guy who cant even speak that well? It's just a bad hand. i've improved a lot but there's only so much you can really do.

I did have a girlfriend a few years ago she was bottom of the barrel, I'm talking the town bicycle and that's an understatement, but she wasn't fat, in shape and was ok looking and was nice to me (at the start), and even she cheated one and left me. The town bike from the ghetto.

 

[Ephemeral-Kitten]

I just have a bad combination of genetics,

I have all the traits women don't want

bad complexion, short, balding, poor social skills, why would a women want to be with an ugly guy who cant even speak that well? It's just a bad hand. i've improved a lot but there's only so much you can really do.

I did have a girlfriend a few years ago she was bottom of the barrel, I'm talking the town bicycle and that's an understatement, but she wasn't fat, in shape and was ok looking and was nice to me (at the start), and even she cheated one and left me. The town bike from the ghetto.

Well for complexion there are a variety of ways you can treat it: some skin care serums help, laser (vbeam, ipl, etc)

Balding you can treat, you're already on finasteride which can stabilize it and if anything more extreme is out of the question you can surely fix it with a hair transplant if it's not too bad density wise. Social skills you can work on. As for height, it's unfortunately the hardest to do anything about, and many would say not worth trying. But I think that facial aesthetics and charisma are more important than height. Working out will help you too.

Sorry your gf cheated, that's really rough.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Well for complexion there are a variety of ways you can treat it: some skin care serums help, laser (vbeam, ipl, etc)

Balding you can treat, you're already on finasteride which can stabilize it and if anything more extreme is out of the question you can surely fix it with a hair transplant if it's not too bad density wise. Social skills you can work on. As for height, it's unfortunately the hardest to do anything about, and many would say not worth trying. But I think that facial aesthetics and charisma are more important than height. Working out will help you too.

Sorry your gf cheated, that's really rough.

Yes ive already "looksmaxed" and had success but the hoops i need to jump through aren't worth it for me anymore so now i just try and cope