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What it mean when young women/girls look at you when you are bald.

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Hello guys,i want to know what you meant when people look at you when you are bald.I am not talking about coldstares.

I had serious hairloss(high Norwood grade),28 year old though i had attractive face.
Whenever i go to some place like function,i get lot of attention from young women/girls,i though it was ok initially but when i heard Eminem's Beautiful Song lyrics,he wants to say that whenever he went into some place,all person look on him,he doesn't like that,i want to be just like you.

Does that mean i am not looking attractive that's why people look at me(does they dont want to see me).

One guy at b a l d truth said that people even when you are bald may look at you because you are confidently present/something good that's why people will have a look at you.
 
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I don't think anyone really understands the question.
Please re-phrase it and start again.
 
FlopTurnRiver

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OP you're a retard
 
Abu Hairy Al-Forhedi

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Jesus. whats up with you indians.. And how come you suck at every sport(except cricket maybe) there is and can't form a decent football team. there is 1.2B of you people.. ffs... some talents.
 
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I am lover of football,i like Bayern plus my fav footballer is Klose..plus messi and Muller,Robben.But very few people in India follows Football,they only like footbal when its world cup.
Very few people know about champions league,uefa,epl,ligabbva...
Very few...
 
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Abu Hairy Al-Forhedi said:
Jesus. whats up with you indians.. And how come you suck at every sport(except cricket maybe) there is and can't form a decent football team. there is 1.2B of you people.. ffs... some talents.
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Many reasons, first of all people cant perceive sports as a viable career option(many reasons). Second of all, you are a moron.
 
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To most women, non-existent.

Put it this way, when you walk around in public whether it the gym, mall or night scene do women lock eye contact, smile, and seem thoughourly interested in what you what have to say if. If not then chances are you're not handsome. Man, i'm telling you.. when a women is interested her eyes get bigger, her mouth opens and you can just get that gut feeling she wants your dick in her ****. Do women giggle when you approach and get all butterfly like, and keep the conversation going? Or do they one word, and want to move on.


You will know if a women is interested... it's very easy.
Women look for ways to put themselves where they can to get your attention.


Do they look for reasons to paw and touch your arm while you talk.. etc


it's not rocket science bro.
 
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From an attraction standpoint, it's easy to determine. If they like you, they will go out of their way to let you know. I.e. they ask some stupid question, make up some excuse to talk to you, bump into you, etc. Remember, women who are attracted to you will make it easy for you. Otherwise, nobody cares why they look at you as it's irrelevant anyway.
 
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shookwun said:
To most women, non-existent.

Put it this way, when you walk around in public whether it the gym, mall or night scene do women lock eye contact, smile, and seem thoughourly interested in what you what have to say if. If not then chances are you're not handsome. Man, i'm telling you.. when a women is interested her eyes get bigger, her mouth opens and you can just get that gut feeling she wants your dick in her ****. Do women giggle when you approach and get all butterfly like, and keep the conversation going? Or do they one word, and want to move on.


You will know if a women is interested... it's very easy.
Women look for ways to put themselves where they can to get your attention.


Do they look for reasons to paw and touch your arm while you talk.. etc


it's not rocket science bro.
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if women find you attractive irregardless of whether or not you have hair or not, they will show you
if you are decent to attractive, women will try to make eye contact, play with their hair, position themselves in a way kn your view. Its all body language. Even if you were a nw1 as alot of guys are, that wont mean youll pull especially if you dont have a good face which I'd say 85 percent of people dont. Imo only 10 percent of people id consider good looking
 
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winnyblues said:
No
im saying 85 percent of people i wouldnt consider good looking
nothing to do with sex
but thats my own high standards
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Shooks is right and you're right as well in a way. I am not sure about percentages but most people are, well, average. There or there abouts. Ugly guys or average ones will still get laid by girls in a similar boat in terms of looks or have baggage of some sort. Also people forget that not every guy wants to sleep with tons of girls, they could be in a long term relationship for example. Biologically they may want to but real life can be more complex. Also long term stuff involves more than just looks, hence why you get mismatched couples.

There is no rule that can be applied to all.
 
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FredTheBelgian said:
There are no mismatched couples. You can't force attraction to someone of be sexually attracted to him or her because he has a "nice personality".
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Did I say sexually attracted? So you have never seen a mismatched couple in terms of looks in your entire life? Wow.

And girls can grow to be sexually attracted to a provider. I know this because a casual I had years ago who was hot said the same about her two previous bfs. I met one and he was ugly. She said he was a nice caring guy, was with him for 5 years.

Life isn't a science, it's not an exam you ace by reading theoretical books.
 
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Brings me comfort? Lol okay. I am secure in my life. I also study science. I know a lot about people and how they think. Unfortunately, I don't think there is one rule from speaking and hearing of many experiences directly myself.

I actually think it brings you comfort because you have a unique relationship with women and society in general, you want to pigeon hole people into categories so that they nicely fit into each defined area in your mind. Almost like a safety list to justify everything.

I don't reject attraction and importance of looks, I am glad it exists because it helps me. Same time, I have seen myself that specially in long term relationships, looks are not the only thing.

You came out saying once "all couples look the same" "girl wants to screw a guy who looks like her dad," you say this is all fact and every instant. This may be true for some but why do I see many blonde girls with a black guy? Does a white blonde girl look anything like a guy from Nigeria lol? Does her Dad look like him?

If you knew about real science you would know that attraction is also physiological. Once a woman has let a guy into her life as a bf she can be attracted to him. A **** into her will still give her pleasure as it's physiological, even rape victims orgasm at times and it's not a defence in court to say it's not rape.


Now what will you say? She was attracted to the "hot Norwood 1 arsehole" who was holding a knife to her?

I am good judge and I see uglier guys with hotter girls and vice versa in relationships. Casual is different ball game. Not to mention their are ugly guys in casual with ugly girls.

Doesn't prove anything about how handsome a guy is. What Shookwun said and Winnyblues is spot on. If you don't get girls making effort with you, especially pretty ones, you're not handsome.

I mean this girl told me HERSELF that she wasn't that attracted to him, she had better guys in the past in terms of looks and therefore sex. But she tolerated it because she liked him and probably did a pro v cons list in her head. Do you think she never orgasmed in all those years with him lol?
 
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FredTheBelgian said:
Girls won't make effort for you. This is virgin fantasy. She will hint subtly that you can come talk to her, but normal girls will never come up to you.
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They show you the signs that Shookwun mentioned. I have had experience of that myself.

"A girl told me" What women say doesn't matter, watch what they do. I thought you would know this by now.
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But I did watch what she did, that's the whole point! She was a 7.5 she went out with this ugly guy for years. She broke up with him. I met him too, she really liked him though. I slept with her over a certain period and got to know her really well. I had no connection with her though deep down, in fact I didn't like her to be honest apart from sex. This is only one example but as you know I have studied medical science all my life. I meet all kinds of people. Not that you need this for common sense. You hear of this stuff in social circles.

Do you never hear girls/guys complain of being in a relationship where there is no real attraction? That it's habit? Some say it's all sex and no real bond! I am surprised you don't appreciate the complex nature of the human mind. In an era where we are seeing some people say they are 70% male and 30% female and not truly transgender, I think it's fair to say life is a bit more complicated than a crappy social science study by hippies.

You still think money, status and an interesting personality will buy you true physical attraction with a woman?
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Of course not! But my point is women will use that at times to make a pro v con list and MAKE sacrifices. How hard is that to understand? And comparing humans to animals for sex, well that shows a complete disregard to a mind of a human! Animals don't even recognise themselves in a mirror bar dolphins and some apes. Our species have evolved a long way since then.

What I think: You are very knowledgeable and intelligent. BUT you have some worries. I don't know whether hair loss triggered it or prior to this but a combination of self esteem issues, anxiety and depression has led you to adopt extremely rigid inaccurate thinking. I think you also mentioned these issues before.

-No one should wear wigs
-You don't need more than a frame hair wise
-Ugly guys can't get pretty girls even in a relationship
-Baldness hate is purely due to society

These are just some examples and it's all about you justifying that everything is okay with you and not to hate yourself or the choices you made.

If you see my responses I am comfortable with my hair and looks. So I can appreciate and accept that everything in life is not set in stone. Yes, looks are important but relationships and choices we make are more complex.

I think you should be a bit freer in your thinking and same time accept yourself.

A woman will not let a man to whom she's not physically attracted into her life just to see if things will work out with time.
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There are different grades of attraction. Will a woman say all her partners were identical? Obviously not.
 
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