What Kind Of Women Wanted To Date You Bald?

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I've read a lot about guys being scared that women won't find them attractive because they're bald. Have any of you noticed trends regarding the women who do find you attractive?

I find that lower-middle-class women tend to be more interested in bald guys because they're into that tough biker/bouncer/badass look. Or because they're into cops or military types.

I've also found that larger, less attractive women are often more interested. I figure they think, "Well, if he's bald, he can't be too picky about who he dates." Another problem I found was that since I'm 6'3", I get big women who want me to offset their size, i.e., "Finally I get to be the small one!" Not good.

 

[Exodus2011]

damn this is depressing lol. do you have a rough manly look in general? like your face? how hot are these poor women?

redpill is being poor seems a decent proxy for being dumb or lazy or mentally ill or ugly. i'm talking from experience here. mom's mentally ill and not very intelligent. she has a poverty level income. or just plain ugliness makes you way too unmotivated to work, like me. i'm a combo of mentally ill + bald ugliness making motivation impossible

so fat or poor women want you, and f*****g hell you have height which is a huge compensator for it. goddamn it as a 5'6 norwood 6 120 lb guy with ~6.5 inch wrist i dont even want to know what i'll be able to get

 

[kj6723]

so fat or poor women want you, and f*****g hell you have height which is a huge compensator for it. goddamn it as a 5'6 norwood 6 120 lb guy with ~6.5 inch wrist i dont even want to know what i'll be able to get

Any possibility of running 3rd world game bruh? What's your current economic situation?

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

f*****g hell you have height which is a huge compensator for it. goddamn it as a 5'6 norwood 6 120 lb guy with ~6.5 inch wrist i dont even want to know what i'll be able to get

I'm not interested in women who have a thing for big bald guys. It's a turn-off if someone mentions my height or size. The only women interested are those who are turned on by football players or pro wrestlers or some other gross-looking group.

 

[OldnBald]

The more I'm balding, the lesser my options have become. Now, some of this might be due to age, but I'd imagine only around 20% of the dropoff.

I'd say before I could get 7s, with no problem really, and even above that in good case. Now, I'm lucky to get 6s without pushback. If I were to be actually bald, 4s would probably be a normal acquisition, with a fighting chance at a 5.

I don't think the class of women has necessarily lowered, yet, but the looks scale certainly has.

 

[Exodus2011]

Any possibility of running 3rd world game bruh? What's your current economic situation?

oh i'm poor as sh*t and basement dwelling. too mentally ill to leave the house. baldness destroyed me. i'm close to an associate's degree though cuz i've been doing online classes. its just with the last few classes i have to go to physical campus and i'm scared f*****g shitless. as a result i'm closely watching the other thread about how one should deal with being a college baldie

I'm not interested in women who have a thing for big bald guys. It's a turn-off if someone mentions my height or size. The only women interested are those who are turned on by football players or pro wrestlers or some other gross-looking group.

are these women hot? sorry but i'm imagining chubby dumb redneck and ghetto girls

 

[Exodus2011]

The more I'm balding, the lesser my options have become. Now, some of this might be due to age, but I'd imagine only around 20% of the dropoff.

I'd say before I could get 7s, with no problem really, and even above that in good case. Now, I'm lucky to get 6s without pushback. If I were to be actually bald, 4s would probably be a normal acquisition, with a fighting chance at a 5.

I don't think the class of women has necessarily lowered, yet, but the looks scale certainly has.

im surprised your hair looked normal in that concealer pic. was that angled just perfectly? i know about concealer life.

half dark = sh*t I GOT HAIR f*** YEA
flourescent light = OH sh*t I GOT PAINTED ON HAIR f*** NO

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

[QUOTE="Exodus2011, post: 1538348, member: 22589"

are these women hot? sorry but i'm imagining chubby dumb redneck and ghetto girls[/QUOTE]

They tended to be overweight and kind of dumpy. My size may have been a major factor in attracting them...after all, no woman wants to be bigger than their guy. Their attention bummed me out...there have been numerous studies that people usually date people in "their own league" and to think that these were now the women in my league.

Someone asked what I looked like. I'm posting a pic from a couple of years ago.

 

[OldnBald]

im surprised your hair looked normal in that concealer pic. was that angled just perfectly? i know about concealer life.

half dark = sh*t I GOT HAIR f*** YEA
flourescent light = OH sh*t I GOT PAINTED ON HAIR f*** NO

Honestly, it's so thin in the front, as I also posted the pic of my bad hairline, that unless it's really darkly lot, you can see a painted scalp. When I talk of minoxidil n eventually finasteride with even my grandmother, she says my hairline is high, but it's really this thinness right in front thats the problem. Outside of that itd be, ok.

But that is a major issue with girls, it's the first thing they see when they look at your face. I can lay my hair flattish, n it looks better in terms of thinness, but then I look bad with that type of hair (style) even if it were to be full, much less thinning.

I wish I could pull off some sort of concealer, but frontal thinness is not possible, and it really dooms you with the hot ones. They don't look at me in nearly the same manner. The only time I get the same look, is if I'm wearing a hat......n we all know the problems associated with that.

 

[Exodus2011]

They tended to be overweight and kind of dumpy. My size may have been a major factor in attracting them...after all, no woman wants to be bigger than their guy. Their attention bummed me out...there have been numerous studies that people usually date people in "their own league" and to think that these were now the women in my league.

Someone asked what I looked like. I'm posting a pic from a couple of years ago.

well to be fair you are overweight as well. sorry but its hypocritical to ask for healthy weight women when you are overweight

Honestly, it's so thin in the front, as I also posted the pic of my bad hairline, that unless it's really darkly lot, you can see a painted scalp. When I talk of minoxidil n eventually finasteride with even my grandmother, she says my hairline is high, but it's really this thinness right in front thats the problem. Outside of that itd be, ok.

But that is a major issue with girls, it's the first thing they see when they look at your face. I can lay my hair flattish, n it looks better in terms of thinness, but then I look bad with that type of hair (style) even if it were to be full, much less thinning.

I wish I could pull off some sort of concealer, but frontal thinness is not possible, and it really dooms you with the hot ones. They don't look at me in nearly the same manner. The only time I get the same look, is if I'm wearing a hat......n we all know the problems associated with that.

that sucks. so you still regularly use concealer?

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

well to be fair you are overweight as well.

That's true, and that's why I don't date at all. I won't let myself date until I lose weight. What bothers me is that even when I lose weight, I'll still be a big bald guy. I'm not saying that's an excuse to stay fat, but it does make things frustrating.

I would much rather date a girl who said she either doesn't care that I'm bald or "I'm not usually into bald guys, but you...." than date one who tells me "I have always had a thing for bald guys."

 

[Exodus2011]

That's true, and that's why I don't date at all. I won't let myself date until I lose weight. What bothers me is that even when I lose weight, I'll still be a big bald guy. I'm not saying that's an excuse to stay fat, but it does make things frustrating.

I would much rather date a girl who said she either doesn't care that I'm bald or "I'm not usually into bald guys, but you...." than date one who tells me "I have always had a thing for bald guys."

yea i dont mean offense by that either. its just like if i expected a rich girl haha, and i'm poor and irresponsible lol.

that sounds strange though, wouldn't that kind of girl not like you as much as one who has a "thing" for it?

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I really do not want to date a girl who has a thing for big bald guys. It hurts my feelings if someone says something like that...to me, it's confirmation that I'm unattractive. It's like if you're a fat girl and meet a guy who tells you "I just love 'plus-sized' women." So the guy has just confirmed, albeit in a nice way, that you're fat and everyone knows it.

I've tried and tried but cannot find a way to see being big and bald as anything to be proud of or see as attractive. Every big bald guy I see looks like a big oaf. Then people try to tell me being big and bald is good because I should emulate Vin Diesel or The Rock or someone else who looks ridiculous in anything but a tank top.

 

[Exodus2011]

I really do not want to date a girl who has a thing for big bald guys. It hurts my feelings if someone says something like that...to me, it's confirmation that I'm unattractive. It's like if you're a fat girl and meet a guy who tells you "I just love 'plus-sized' women." So the guy has just confirmed, albeit in a nice way, that you're fat and everyone knows it.

I've tried and tried but cannot find a way to see being big and bald as anything to be proud of or see as attractive. Every big bald guy I see looks like a big oaf. Then people try to tell me being big and bald is good because I should emulate Vin Diesel or The Rock or someone else who looks ridiculous in anything but a tank top.

how would you feel about being a short skinny bald guy?

and it sounds like you care more about if people see you as bald than if people see you as attractive. cuz if a girl likes you thats by definition being attractive to her.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I hated my size (height and weight) even before I started losing my hair (at 17). Then I felt like I was becoming the exact opposite of what I thought was attractive.

I don't want her to notice (let alone like) my size or my baldness. If she finds me attractive otherwise, I can deal with that, but I can't stand it if she LIKES that I'm a big bald guy. Most of the women into that kind of guy tend to be like the ones I described in the original post.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Ugly, fat slobs rejected me when I had hair.

Where was this? You tried some dating site?

 

[The Baldy Man]

I really do not want to date a girl who has a thing for big bald guys. It hurts my feelings if someone says something like that...to me, it's confirmation that I'm unattractive. It's like if you're a fat girl and meet a guy who tells you "I just love 'plus-sized' women." So the guy has just confirmed, albeit in a nice way, that you're fat and everyone knows it.

I've tried and tried but cannot find a way to see being big and bald as anything to be proud of or see as attractive. Every big bald guy I see looks like a big oaf. Then people try to tell me being big and bald is good because I should emulate Vin Diesel or The Rock or someone else who looks ridiculous in anything but a tank top.

This is one of the worst things about balding to me. The loss of identity. People tell me it's just hair but I mean come on we live in a society where hair is important and when you are bald you stand out, especially if you are young in a world of people who have hair. I cannot ever embrace being bald. How could I? How could I embrace something that was unwillingly forced upon me and which I find repulsive. It gives me a lot of stress. And I can't avoid it or ignore it because my balding head is always with me. I had suffered from depression and OCD before hair loss and hair loss just makes it even worse. Hair loss gives me dysphoria, I don't feel like me. "Me" had thick curly hair. I don't know this guy in the mirror anymore. I am so envious of people who are at least able to accept the fact that they are balding and move on, to say nothing of people who openly embrace their chrome dome. I am still in the "I can't believe this is happening to me" phase. I don't know if I will ever get out of it. My uncle was a hat prisoner for 25 years before finally being able to accept his baldness and bic his head when he had to take a job at a prison that required being clean shaven. I don't know if I can survive that long a period of constant hair related depression. Being mentally ill, red pilled, and balding is hell on Earth. I wish I could be like the bluepilled neurotypicals who think it is no big deal and walk around blissfully unaware of how unattractive their shiny bald heads are. I am only able to stand being alive courtesy of constant therapy, a very supportive and loving family, and SSRIs. And you want to know the best part about all this stress that hair loss causes? It causes more hair loss!

I know that I will never be able to be publicly exposed with a bald head. I would dump Toppik on my head everyday or even toupeecel before I would walk around with an exposed bald head.

I have only ever had one girlfriend in my life, back when I was fullhead. She eventually dumped me because I am aspiecel. I cope by surrounding myself with people who are just as miserable as me and who won't judge me. My best friends are recovering drug addicts, mental cases, and trannies. I don't know if I will ever find love. How can someone love me if I will never be able to love myself.

Sorry for the rant, I have just been really depressed lately and needed a place to right this down.

I have accepted the fact that I cannot accept that I am balding.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

Do you feel it's harder because people tend to view hair loss as no big deal if they don't have it?

I feel quite a bit like you. I worry that because of my baldness plus my size, I'll always be seen as someone I'm not and don't want to be seen as. I simply can't "embrace" the bald, hypermasculine look that guys usually adopt when they accept this. Being in shape is better than being fat, but it bothers me a lot that even in shape I still will look like a big bald guy.

 

[The Baldy Man]

Yes, I do feel it is harder. For some people I guess it is no big deal. A lot of people who are older and had decades of good hair and who have plenty of bald cohorts in their age group see it as not a big deal. There are some people like my family who sympathize and who help me. I just can never picture myself as "a bald guy" let alone let other people know I am one. I used to take such pride in my hair and it truly feel like I have lost something. I feel like less of a person and less of a man knowing that I can't grow my hair out like it was before and that is pretty traumatizing to me.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Do you feel it's harder because people tend to view hair loss as no big deal if they don't have it?

I feel quite a bit like you. I worry that because of my baldness plus my size, I'll always be seen as someone I'm not and don't want to be seen as. I simply can't "embrace" the bald, hypermasculine look that guys usually adopt when they accept this. Being in shape is better than being fat, but it bothers me a lot that even in shape I still will look like a big bald guy.

Just lose some weight. Your height isn't making you a big bald guy, your weight is. 6'3 is a perfect height, it's a blessing not a curse.