What Kind Of Women Wanted To Date You Bald?

[Guzam]

Yes, I do feel it is harder. For some people I guess it is no big deal. A lot of people who are older and had decades of good hair and who have plenty of bald cohorts in their age group see it as not a big deal. There are some people like my family who sympathize and who help me. I just can never picture myself as "a bald guy" let alone let other people know I am one. I used to take such pride in my hair and it truly feel like I have lost something. I feel like less of a person and less of a man knowing that I can't grow my hair out like it was before and that is pretty traumatizing to me.

Some minutes ago I was peeking on Facebook on the profile of this 8/10 cutie with an immense ego. Her profile pic is with this handsome, long-surfer haired, smiling hunk Chad dressed smart. Something about him was a bit off though. Then it dawned upon me: his face is below average. Ugly horse smile, ugly nose, beady eyes, no facial hair. He just had the cheekbones and jawbones right. Yet he is handsome, like 8.5/10. Why? Because that f****r has f*****g a NW0.5 with the density of a black hole, with grown out wavy hair that makes him look like a f*****g charming prince out of a fairy tale.

Hair is everything for many people. Imagine this hunk if he lost his hair to a thin NW3: he would look, I tell you, like 5/10 retard. And he would not have scored such a high quality pussy. You did good in taking pride in your hair because hair is important as f***. It makes or breaks a man. We the redpilled can't forget this. Either lobotomy, fight or death.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

Yes, I do feel it is harder. I just can never picture myself as "a bald guy" let alone let other people know I am one. I used to take such pride in my hair and it truly feel like I have lost something. I feel like less of a person and less of a man knowing that I can't grow my hair out like it was before and that is pretty traumatizing to me.

I have never seen a bald guy I thought was really attractive, and yet the answer everyone gives us is that we shouldn't care about having hair and how we look, like we'd shave our heads even if we had hair. I have no interest in the big tough bald guy stereotype, which is why I resent my height as well. I worry that the only girls I'll ever attract are those who are into bikers or cops or military types. I don't even have anything against those groups, but they're not who I am.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

Just lose some weight. Your height isn't making you a big bald guy, your weight is. 6'3 is a perfect height, it's a blessing not a curse.

I'm not saying I can't, shouldn't, or won't lose weight, but it bothers me that I'll still be seen as "big," even if "big" means tall and maybe muscular than fat. I don't see why being 6'3" is a good thing...I don't like taking up space or having people notice my size.

By the way, I cracked up in spite of myself that two other guys (so far) gave thumbs-up to me needing to lose weight. Especially since I posted a pic of myself on here less than two hours ago.

 

[The Baldy Man]

Some minutes ago I was peeking on Facebook on the profile of this 8/10 cutie with an immense ego. Her profile pic is with this handsome, long-surfer haired, smiling hunk Chad dressed smart. Something about him was a bit off though. Then it dawned upon me: his face is below average. Ugly horse smile, ugly nose, beady eyes, no facial hair. He just had the cheekbones and jawbones right. Yet he is handsome, like 8.5/10. Why? Because that f****r has f*****g a NW0.5 with the density of a black hole, with grown out wavy hair that makes him look like a f*****g charming prince out of a fairy tale.

Hair is everything for many people. Imagine this hunk if he lost his hair to a thin NW3: he would look, I tell you, like 5/10 retard. And he would not have scored such a high quality pussy. You did good in taking pride in your hair because hair is important as f***. It makes or breaks a man. We the redpilled can't forget this. Either lobotomy, fight or death.

I know I used to have thick curly long hair. I was the "rebel" in a conservative clean cut Catholic school. My coif was the talk of the town. I remember one time I got into an argument with my balding history teacher after he gave me detention for talking to much in class. I was a stupid fullhead and I made fun of him for his horseshoe. He said "says the long haired kid which he won't always have." Turned out to be sooner than I thought. Lol, karma right? What a prophet he was. My mane slowly receded into an AIDS skrillex looking mullet and I have since cut it short and now I am on finasteride and minoxidil to try to fend off the Norwood reaper.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

I'm not saying I can't, shouldn't, or won't lose weight, but it bothers me that I'll still be seen as "big," even if "big" might be more tall and maybe muscular than fat. I don't see why being 6'3" is a good thing...I don't like taking up space or having people notice my size.

By the way, I cracked up in spite of myself that two other guys (so far) gave thumbs-up to me needing to lose weight. Especially since I posted a pic of myself on here less than two hours ago.

They gave the post a like because it's clearly true. On the picture you posted the first thing I noticed is that you're fat. You seem to think that once you benchpress once a week you're going to look huge in a month. Looking huge is hard work, dedication (and use of various substances) for years. It won't happen over night. The second thing I noticed was your fedora, do I need to say anything more?

This guy is the same height as you (and bald as f***). Yet he doesn't seem to take up alot of space and people aren't noticing his size. I wonder why... Take advantage of the gift you're given, being 6'3 is a huge plus in order to pull of the chrome dome.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I always wanted to communicate to others who I was with my hair. I started losing mine at 17, and I felt like people were seeing me as someone I didn't want to be, and then the advice I was always given was to learn to love (or pretend to) being a big bald guy. I felt compelled to tell people this wasn't who I was, that I didn't like being this way, and you can probably guess how that turned out as far as dates and friends were concerned.

Unless you can save your hair or are willing to wear a hairpiece, the only option you do have is to get in the best shape you can and strive for the tough bald guy look. That's certainly better than the fat bald guy look, but I am having a hard time accepting that people, at least at first, are going to see me that way.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Sorry, meant looked at me with disgust and revulsion.

It was probably disgust and revulsion at her fatness which stood out in stark contrast to your skinnyness.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

They gave the post a like because it's clearly true. On the picture you posted the first thing I noticed is that you're fat. The second thing I noticed was your fedora, do I need to say anything more?

Thanks...I tried to poke fun at myself because I need to lose weight and you shoved it down my throat.

I like wearing a topcoat in the winter and fedoras are the only hats that look good with them. What hat am I allowed to wear?

 

[Dante92]

It was probably disgust and revulsion at her fatness which stood out in stark contrast to your skinnyness.

Sure, right. I'm sure their 7/10 boyfriends thought the same.

 

[Rudiger]

Thanks...I tried to poke fun at myself because I need to lose weight and you shoved it down my throat.

I like wearing a topcoat in the winter and fedoras are the only hats that look good with them. What hat am I allowed to wear?

I thought I could sense a Rick-tier delusional persona coming on as soon as I saw the pic...

 

[The Baldy Man]

They gave the post a like because it's clearly true. On the picture you posted the first thing I noticed is that you're fat. You seem to think that once you benchpress once a week you're going to look huge in a month. Looking huge is hard work, dedication (and use of various substances) for years. It won't happen over night. The second thing I noticed was your fedora, do I need to say anything more?

This guy is the same height as you (and bald as f***). Yet he doesn't seem to take up alot of space and people aren't noticing his size. I wonder why... Take advantage of the gift you're given, being 6'3 is a huge plus in order to pull of the chrome dome.
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I remember when they made that guy Toupeecel for the Strain.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I remember when they made that guy Toupeecel for the Strain.

He's a very good actor but he looked a lot better with a hairpiece in Midnight in Paris as Ernest Hemingway.

 

[OldnBald]

well to be fair you are overweight as well. sorry but its hypocritical to ask for healthy weight women when you are overweight

that sucks. so you still regularly use concealer?

I never really have, other than to try it out. I used it to make that one picture a few weeks ago, but that was about it. I suppose it could work fairly well if you had great density in front, but had moderate diffusion in the middle, and u were somewhat tall so nobody could look down at your hair n see the dust headed look.

 

[OldnBald]

Thanks...I tried to poke fun at myself because I need to lose weight and you shoved it down my throat.

I like wearing a topcoat in the winter and fedoras are the only hats that look good with them. What hat am I allowed to wear?

Yeah, like I said a while back, it's the weight. Even if you worked out like a fiend for a year, lost 50 lbs during the recomposition process, and gained a fair amount of strength n muscle, you would not be big. It would never sneak up on you. And most people can't even get remotely big without steroids, and in that case, even with moderately high dosages, it can happen in just a few months.

Point is if you got in shape you'd be seen as a guy who was in good shape, and was tall. Tall as in a good attribute, not some big brooding oath. And you are tall, nothing wrong with that.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

I love to cook and I admit that eating means I get to cook something new sooner. I never meant that I was afraid I would go from being my weight in fat to my weight in muscle. What I meant was that at my height and not being naturally scrawny, I AM always going to be seen to an extent as a BIG bald guy. Big as in muscular rather that big is in fat is better, but still not what I want to be.

Getting in good shape means I will be seen as a big, tall meathead. I'm not saying that's a reason to not lose weight. But a lot of guys here place a lot of emphasis on height while being tall doesn't necessarily mean you love the idea of being seen, AT BEST, as some silly "badass" from a low-rent action movie.

 

[OldnBald]

You're seeing yourself that way. I don't look at talk guys like that. Maybe with a bit of jealousy haha, but not like they're straight from best of the best or something. Plus 6'3 is not that tall, if u were 6'6 n thought u were a big goof id say u have a point, but 6'3 is still in good range.

 

[OldnBald]

Some minutes ago I was peeking on Facebook on the profile of this 8/10 cutie with an immense ego. Her profile pic is with this handsome, long-surfer haired, smiling hunk Chad dressed smart. Something about him was a bit off though. Then it dawned upon me: his face is below average. Ugly horse smile, ugly nose, beady eyes, no facial hair. He just had the cheekbones and jawbones right. Yet he is handsome, like 8.5/10. Why? Because that f****r has f*****g a NW0.5 with the density of a black hole, with grown out wavy hair that makes him look like a f*****g charming prince out of a fairy tale.

Hair is everything for many people. Imagine this hunk if he lost his hair to a thin NW3: he would look, I tell you, like 5/10 retard. And he would not have scored such a high quality pussy. You did good in taking pride in your hair because hair is important as f***. It makes or breaks a man. We the redpilled can't forget this. Either lobotomy, fight or death.

You can fake good looks with hair, especially if you have it long n thick n styled well.

I've known a lot of guys who are not good looking, at least not very good looking, who had short hair. I told them to grow it long, because women will see it as a rare commodity for just about any guy over 24 to be able to grow long hair with a great hairline n density, n as a rare commodity, it will be seen as attractive (attractive anyway, but for guys even moreso for this reason). Plus the face framing, plus the overshadowing of bad facial qualities via the sheer mass of the hair, making the great hair be the first thing they see, which happens to be an attractive quality.

Long thick hair is money. I've seen these same guys, who had fair success with women before they grew it, become extremely cocky after all the masses of women they got after.

Of course I never should've told them to grow the hair, because now they're edging me out on tail (which I figured would happen but I don't begrudge), which before would NEVER happen. N I'm balding, so it's not like I can counter. Haha.

 

[The Curse of Dolkite]

If you got in shape you'd be seen as a guy who was in good shape, and was tall. Tall as in a good attribute, not some big brooding oath. And you are tall, nothing wrong with that.

I have a lot of weight to lose, and anything I say here is not in defense of me staying this way. I think I could deal with being tall a lot better if I didn't have being bald to deal with as well. My initial definition of what was unattractive was someone big, tall, heavy, hairy, and bald. A parody of masculinity.

 

[Exodus2011]

I never really have, other than to try it out. I used it to make that one picture a few weeks ago, but that was about it. I suppose it could work fairly well if you had great density in front, but had moderate diffusion in the middle, and u were somewhat tall so nobody could look down at your hair n see the dust headed look.

could you post a pic without concealer then?

 

[OldnBald]

could you post a pic without concealer then?

I'll try to post one later, I'll gussy it up the best I can, pulled back of course, no as not to cover up. it may look better in the pic than in real life, where it looks garbage.