What women think of hair loss article...

[Gboy2k8]

I don't know...
I just work and go to gym.
That's my life in total, adding the gyno + the male pattern baldness = it sucks.

I'm not even trying anymore "to get layd",
sorry but I'm apparently not that interesting guy.
I don't even have any female "friends", neither can't hold a conversation with a woman for more than 5 minutes since this male pattern baldness crap started.
I'm 21 y/o, tried many times with women, never got any success.
No one has ever even tried to hint me , never was told someone was attracted to me.
Now I'm dealing with this male pattern baldness crap and it totally got me.

So why the hell should I try to get lay ?
That's like trying to shoot a person without a weapon.
Impossible, no chance, none. nada.
I have nothing attractive to offer anymore. I can't blame the women..
Try selling ice to an Eskimo. why should he buy it.

And most of my pics you've seen there are from my past,
I know it's just some months behind but now I look totally but totally different. Bald.
When I buzz-cut to level 0 , I can only give it 10 days or so before I need to cut it again,
it looks terrible and I get lots of comments. I just can't stand it.

I don't know what to think anymore.
I started minoxidil 2 months ago, and finasteride 1 month ago, since I didn't start them both together
maybe it's just a long-shed period because of the minoxidil and finasteride,
and maybe not. I don't know what to think anymore.

 

[ali777]

I would never date a bald woman.
Same way I wouldn't date a fat one.

I just can't .

so I can't judge women who wouldn't date me ,
that's life, and that's just me.
(and most women won't date me with my current looks.)

When I was your age I used to have very high standards as well.... Not that I have low standards now, but my perception of beauty is very different now. You are making the classical mistake of judging a book by its cover, you need to talk to women and see them as friends and not as some sex object.

You need to socialise and make female friends, sooner or later one of them will get in bed with you. It's a simple statistical game. Let's say 10% of the female population would find you interesting, so if you meet 10 women, at least one of them is likely to want to go out with you.

Go out and have fun!!!! You need to make things happen.

 

[Fanjeera]

Actually, I have seen beautiful bald women on pictures. I would get myself one, but she would have to have a very beautiful head shape.

 

[Gboy2k8]

I would never date a bald woman.
Same way I wouldn't date a fat one.

I just can't .

so I can't judge women who wouldn't date me ,
that's life, and that's just me.
(and most women won't date me with my current looks.)

When I was your age I used to have very high standards as well.... Not that I have low standards now, but my perception of beauty is very different now. You are making the classical mistake of judging a book by its cover, you need to talk to women and see them as friends and not as some sex object.

You need to socialise and make female friends, sooner or later one of them will get in bed with you. It's a simple statistical game. Let's say 10% of the female population would find you interesting, so if you meet 10 women, at least one of them is likely to want to go out with you.

Go out and have fun!!!! You need to make things happen.

if it would be that easy. since male pattern baldness started i can barely go out or talk to women.
I'm running away from people who didn't see me in 4 months so they wouldn't know.

 

[uncomfortable man]

The only other advice I can give you Gk, besides get on the meds, is don't make the mistake that HatPrisoner (and myself to a lesser degree) made by shutting yourself off from the rest of the world. It can only lead to more depression and severe alienation. I know how easy it is to get wrapped up in the misery and this site is great for expressing that misery but you have to watch it, because it is addictive. Ali's advice is very sound as well.

 

[MEANSTREET]

hey uncomfortable man, its good to see you have calmed down and arent all depressed anymore. you were speakin some good sh*t there like

 

[Petchsky]

Actually, I have seen beautiful bald women on pictures. I would get myself one, but she would have to have a very beautiful head shape.

I'd get it on with a bald woman, she could wear a showgirls wig, then the next day be blonde, or black hair, or just plain bald, wear bandanna's...it wouldn't put me off.

 

[Gboy2k8]

Let me correct what I was saying.

Maybe I would date a bald woman,
but not a BALDING woman. (not takling about normal women alopecia, but as if women were balding as men do)

I think that's disgusting.
And I AM a balding guy..

 

[cleverusername]

I see old ladies who are balding on the train all the time. I've never seen a young girl in that situation so I don't know how I'd feel. If she buzzed her hair it probably wouldn't look bad at all.

 

[CCS]

I'd date a bald woman if she wore a wig or the rest of her looked good enough to compensate for the top. If I could chose between two women, one with real hair, and one with a wig, and they both liked me just as much, obviously I'd take the one with real hair. But if the one with the wig had a better body, or her hairline looked better, I might go for her instead.

Women are the same. If they know you are wearing a wig, you lose points, but not a ton of points. But if you were just good enough before, since you went for the best you could get, then her finding out about the wig will probably end the relationship, or require you to buy her more stuff. A wig can help you do better, but you'd be wise not to marry someone who is the max you can get, when she does not know about the wig. Go down a notch, so she is happy even with it. Might be good to tell her kind of soon though so she does not mistakenly think she is just that hot, and then go try and fail to get a guy with your hair. The goal is to time it so that right after she is hooked and amazed at her luck, that is when you tell her, and you don't wait till she assumes she is just that pretty.

 

[cleverusername]

Brilliant, do they chlorinate the water in Texas with crystal meth?

 

[Petchsky]

Brilliant, do they chlorinate the water in Texas with crystal meth?

:uglylol:

 

[Obsidian]

Houston, Texas does bring out some weird people.

 

[uncomfortable man]

I think the reason CCS is posting so much lately is because he is paranoid of the possibility of getting noticed by some entertainment executives trolling this site for that whole MTV thing.

 

[s.a.f]

Ploughing ever forward in the blind self belief that he is right, no matter what anyone or his track record says.
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[barcafan]

I think the reason CCS is posting so much lately is because he is paranoid of the possibility of getting noticed by some entertainment executives trolling this site for that whole MTV thing.

I think the only trolling done on this site is by CCS.

His posts are too funny to be true.

 

[s.a.f]

I dont think he's a troll I just think he's deluded.
Its pretty sad, I'm sure he's a nice guy but he's wasting his life away focusing on his minor imperfections.

 

[ghg]

Does someone still think CCS is for real?