What Would You Do If Your Hair Problems Were Solved?

yurguardianangel

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Would start going nightclubs and gigs again where your not allowed caps/hats.
Also would start my dating options again.

Since I went norwood 7 bald, I get rejected and bullied when I don't wear a cap/beanie to the point that I've given up on dating for now.

I would also hang around the crowd I used to hang out with, who didn't want to know me when I went bald. Fake friend assholes.
I used to have alot of emo/scene/goth/ friends, but that's all gone south since I gone bald and I now have NONE who look that way... Or want to bother with me.

I still wear the band t-shirts though mind you,lol

Also would be much more confident and feel much better about myself if I had hair.
Nowadays I rarelly get compliments on my looks other than nice eyes or I dress nicely.
I used to get many comments on my hair and being told I was cute,although that was many many years ago. :(

Also I rarelly get approached in the street by randoms,I did when I had hair though.
 

IdealForehead

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Would start going nightclubs and gigs again where your not allowed caps/hats.
Also would start my dating options again.

Since I went norwood 7 bald, I get rejected and bullied when I don't wear a cap/beanie to the point that I've given up on dating for now.

I would also hang around the crowd I used to hang out with, who didn't want to know me when I went bald. Fake friend assholes.
I used to have alot of emo/scene/goth/ friends, but that's all gone south since I gone bald and I now have NONE who look that way... Or want to bother with me.

I still wear the band t-shirts though mind you,lol

Also would be much more confident and feel much better about myself if I had hair.
Nowadays I rarelly get compliments on my looks other than nice eyes or I dress nicely.
I used to get many comments on my hair and being told I was cute,although that was many many years ago. :(

Also I rarelly get approached in the street by randoms,I did when I had hair though.

It's funny in an unfortunate way, but it seems a common story of good looking men to describe with hair loss their degradation from being approached and complimented to ignored and rejected.

But if you think about the natural courses life can take, how often does anyone in any circumstance ever experience the opposite? Ie. In your 20s or 30s, going from a life of being ignored and rejected to being newly approached and complimented?

Perhaps maybe if you were obese and lost weight this might happen? Or if you were average and roided up? It would certainly be a rare thing.

Seems to me it is much easier and more natural to degrade than it is to ascend. Seems like the body and life are basically made for degradation, and we just lose pieces of our function and appearance progressively with every year. Everyone at a different rate. But it's almost always a downward decline with each year, and very rarely any sort of upward ascent.

So I suppose you could appreciate at least that you started from a high point. Many people start out already at the bottom before they lose a strand. But I guess the higher you start, the farther you fall. Must be dizzying. I think most good looking people have no idea how much their looks privilege their lives until they lose them.
 
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Bklyn_23

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Honestly, I'd be giddy. Just so much extra time (I currently spend 2-3 hours to prepare my hair with concealers when I go out) and freedom (no more hat prisoner!). Obviously I'd get much more attention from women, especially younger women.
 

countjulian

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I'd probably jump back on POF, OKC and Tinder and get laid for a little bit, get tired of it, swear it off and dedicate myself with renewed vigor to my career. I'm very cyclical, I go through phases of decadence and indulgence followed by hard core maximum effort then back again. It would make me absolutely giddy for a few months but then I would probably find something else about my body to hate and obsess over.
 
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