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Yes, sex has dropped quickly down the scale of what is important since my hip problems. Once sex starts bringing pain you no longer crave it half as much. Most of time I just gave my ex oral and then just had sex once per week.Johnson, you have to answer your own question. You need to decide when YOU are ready. If you are not, then wait. How much is your hair loss affecting you now? You seem to have enough confidence in yourself that you can live a normal life as you are now. How much will it change your life? You don't know if your hair loss might become aggressive in the next 10 years. I have seen it happen to some at your age but its not very common. You can't take finasteride so you might suffer permanent shock loss and make things worse.
Are you financially ready at this point to commit to one? If not, then you know now is not the time. You seem like a really articulate and smart guy who is well educated. I think that is why you do so well with women. That is not going to change with some more hair. I think for some people who don't have much to offer need to make it up with their looks. I don't think you fit into that category. You have slept with more women than most guys here and I don't care what rating they got. You still are very experienced and alot of women who put a high value on sex are going to find that a positive trait. Oh wait, I forgot, you don't put as a high value on it now since you have hip problems so maybe that was not a great point. But overall, you are a good catch in my book for some other women who value being with someone caring and educated.
As for what my attractive qualities are, it is really hard to say. Its hard to know if they enjoy the intelligence, the conversation, or maybe it is just looks - and then it could be literally all three. I've often been complimented on being quirky and crazy, and I know that's a weird compliment, but I take pride in it - even though I don't really know what that says about me.
With the hair: I think I will start saving now and if I don't lose anymore hair then I wont get it done but the money will be there if I wanted to. I think i'd only get a hair transplant if it gets worse. As you can see by the pictures my hair is a solid Norwood 3 but that is what it looks like brushed back and messed up - if I style it the hair begins to look a lot better - and for that reason I don't feel as if it has ever hindered my dating options.