Who Is Hair Loss Worse For? Ugly Or Handsome

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Tbh my first time as a man was no good either.

I was 17 and didn't have a clue. I actually googled what to do the day before I went to hers.

When it came to actual sex I was so tense and when it did come to actual sex I was so uptight that I couldn't come. We went for twenty minutes before I had to fake an orgasm just so it stopped.

I didn't get that good at sex until i'd been with 7 or 8 women.


I can't remember who it was but someone said, "Good loving is really good but even when it isn't really good it's still pretty good."
 
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As a 24 yo incel that had to begin rocking the comb over at 19 and was possibly a 6/10 on a good comb over day, it was hard enough having go through life with the comb over but having recently buzzed and seeing the disaster that is norwood 3 with my shitty fine hair, it is early retirement with the opposite sex. So although it must be tough going from slayer to naysayer, atleast they got those expriences which for alot of men even with nw0 don't get to experience. As for a average man that could accept that he won't have "2000" women in his lifetime or even 30, It is even harder to accept that I'm not now comfortable to go any where without a hat and all i wish for more then becoming a slayer is to be able to walk down the road and feel free again.
 

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You counted exactly to 2,000? This just keeps getting more and more believable

Of course I didn't keep an exact running tab at the time it was going on. I decided on the number 2,000 at the tail end of that period.

At the tail end of that period (16 - 24) a friend asked how many women I had slept with. I looked back on it and worked out the math and came up with 2,000.

I slept with about 20 different women per month for about 108 months and that comes out to 2160 women, Then I rounded down to 2,000 to make up for months that I may have slept with less than 20 women.

* Keep in mind that there were months that I slept with more than 20 women.
 
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What is with people? I never said I was on any quest. I just slept around because it was fun.

Im sorry if i hurt your feelings...it just gave me a laugh.

I am a woman and i can say with certainty that you did not sleep with 2000 virgins and semi new to sex women. That being said i don't really question your number. Anything is possible---just not 2000 virgins and semi virgins.
I mean you would have to be a Saudi Arabian Prince--and even they hire playmates and p**rn stars to come for very long visits.
 

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Im sorry if i hurt your feelings...it just gave me a laugh.

I am a woman and i can say with certainty that you did not sleep with 2000 virgins and semi new to sex women. That being said i don't really question your number. Anything is possible---just not 2000 virgins and semi virgins.
I mean you would have to be a Saudi Arabian Prince--and even they hire playmates and p*rn stars to come for very long visits.

It's a free country (at least until Trump takes the reins) and you can believe as you chose. But I was there and I know what happened and what I said happened is roughly what happened. The people who were there find no problem with my number 2,000 and I did not sleep with women who slept around. I didn't want to catch a venereal disease. Besides, women who slept around didn't turn me on. Femininity is a major turn-on for me so it didn't bother me if they weren't experienced. I liked it.
 
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It's a free country (at least until Trump takes the reins) and you can believe as you chose. But I was there and I know what happened and I'm confident that what I'm saying happened is roughly what happened. The people who were there find no problem with my number 2,000 and they all know I did not sleep with women who slept around. I didn't want to catch a venereal disease. Besides, women who slept around didn't turn me on.


Well you should get a blood test for herpes you can have it and not know it and it's usually not tested..I don't think HPV is tested regularly either with STD panel and it can also be without any symptoms especially for men.

if you are sleeping with that many people it's foolish not to assume you have something...odds are against you there.
 

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Well you should get a blood test for herpes you can have it and not know it and it's usually not tested..I don't think HPV is tested regularly either with STD panel and it can also be without any symptoms especially for men.

if you are sleeping with that many people it's foolish not to assume you have something...odds are against you there.

I don't sleep around anymore at all. I slept with more women in any 6 week period back then (between the ages 16 and 24) than I've slept with in the entire 20+ years since then. I'm down to about 2 women a year the past 20+ years. In my view this means hair loss has damaged my life more than it damages the life of a man who could only get say 10 or so women interested in him when he had his hair. I've gone from intense popularity to ZERO popularity.

This is what the thread is about. The thread is about who's life is damaged more by hair loss. This thread is not about me possibly having STDs, which I do not.
 
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This thread won't get back on track until I leave the thread so I'm not posting here anymore.

My past experiences and the way my life has changed is relevant to this thread but I can't post about my experiences because if I do then the whole thread goes off the rails. People ask the question if good looking people are more harmed but they don't really want to hear what the person who was good looking and popular (when he/she had their hair) has to say.
 

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Ha, fair enough. But you know there's a pm function on here right? I can't speak for every "bitter [well, not a virgin, but certainly an incel]", but I thought this impact part of the forum was for guys with proper, significant hair loss to thrash out some of their problems and get support from guys in similar situations. It doesn't bother me hugely, but it's a little grating to see a lot of guys who don't seem to have much in the way of baldness, or hair loss related life problems at all, using it as a place to share sex stories and congratulate each other on how big a 'slayers' they are. Why even come onto impact if you're life isn't being significantly impacted (the clue's in the name) by hair loss?.

I could not agree more with this. Sometimes it's downright laughable when I see guys with literally full heads of hair commenting on the impact of hair loss. How are you going to be impacted by something that you're not even really experiencing (or so barely that no one would even notice)? In the past, I've often said that this should be the BDD forum as opposed to the HairLossTalk.com forum. I'd personally be embarrassed if I posted photos as an essential fullhead on a hair loss forum. I also agree with you about the sexual statistics. It doesn't bother me hugely and I just ignore it, but I couldn't give a midnight f*ck about how many women that a person that I don't even know has slept with. I think most other men would feel the same way too.
 
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I could not agree more with this. Sometimes it's downright laughable when I see guys with literally full heads of hair commenting on the impact of hair loss. How are you going to be impacted by something that you're not even really experiencing (or so barely that no one would even notice)? In the past, I've often said that this should be the BDD forum as opposed to the hair loss talk forum. I'd personally be embarrassed if I posted photos as an essential fullhead on a hair loss forum. I also agree with you about the sexual statistics. It doesn't bother me hugely and I just ignore it, but I couldn't give a midnight f*ck about how many women that a person that I don't even know has slept with.
I can make myself appear almost like a fullhead tbh.

But it effects everyone in different ways.

Hair loss has made me consider suicide in the past - especially when I was younger - even though I only went from a NW1 to a NW2.5 it was still horrible and I kept seeing myself as a bald forty something with no women because I would be ugly and it made me want to end it all so people would remember me as a nice good looking guy. Not some bitter baldy.

But to make it simple - some people have been impacted by hair loss more severely than others - but that doesn't mean this should only be a place for NW5's and beyond.
 

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Hair loss has made me consider suicide in the past - especially when I was younger - even though I only went from a NW1 to a NW2.5 it was still horrible and I kept seeing myself as a bald forty something with no women because I would be ugly and it made me want to end it all so people would remember me as a nice good looking guy. Not some bitter baldy.

I faced this scenario as well. I didn't want people to remember me as the bald girl. When it came down to it I didn't have the balls (no kidding) to go through with suicide, so I just quit school and my job and became a recluse instead.
 

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I'm not for one minute suggesting that NW2's should be banned from posting or anything. I just wonder whether covertly bragging about your sexual conquests on an impact forum which is chock full of NW4+ incels might not be the kindest thing to do, especially given that, by your own admission, you're barely even an NW3. It's great to have some positive vibes around this place, don't get me wrong, but what you're doing is only helping your ego to the potential detriment of a lot of people on here less fortunate than you. Openly boasting about banging 30+ women to a group of guys who are struggling to lock down landwhales is at best tactless, at worst mate, its cruel. But whatever, it's just an opinion, take it or leave it.


i think there is room for everyone to post what they want to post about.

@tellersquill started the thread.

the name of the thread sort of is self explanatory.

You are totally entitled to your opinion to share it here as you did.

but I don't think anything he wrote is cruel.

it's just real.
 
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I'm not for one minute suggesting that NW2's should be banned from posting or anything. I just wonder whether covertly bragging about your sexual conquests on an impact forum which is chock full of NW4+ incels might not be the kindest thing to do, especially given that, by your own admission, you're barely even an NW3. It's great to have some positive vibes around this place, don't get me wrong, but what you're doing is only helping your ego to the potential detriment of a lot of people on here less fortunate than you. Openly boasting about banging 30+ women to a group of guys who are struggling to lock down landwhales is at best tactless, at worst mate, its cruel. But whatever, it's just an opinion, take it or leave it.
The way I see it is most people had hair once and they had the chance to sleep around. They may be bald now and find it hard with the opposite sex but there isn't an excuse for not meeting women when they did have hair.

Say if they were even a nw4 at 25. That's still ages 18-24 to get laid and they could have plenty of women in that time.

So theoretically everyone on here should have had a period where they were able to sleep around if they tried.
 
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Well, you must be really good at it now.
I'm not the worlds most amazing lover.

My plus sides are that I'm well hung, athletic, and can last a long time.

But that isn't the entire picture. I think I'm pretty average at oral - it often takes me 5 mins at least to make a girl come.

During penetrative there is no guarantee the woman will finish at all. I think this is down to the woman though because I've been with some who will come 2 or 3 times in 20 mins whereas some will be lucky to come once.
 
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