Why Good-looking People Are Usually Flawless ?

[CopeForLife]

You know me, I consider it a disfigurement and a loss of looks. We just have to look around to see that's what happens. But yeah bro, I remember reading some report by some academic members, they speculated the grown out horseshoe was a sign of wisdom and status for early humans. That it meant they had access to more resources like food. Not sure about women. Also some say balding is an evolutionary sign that a man is past his peak and not to mate with.


Isaiah 3:24 King James

And it shall come to pass, that instead of sweet smell there shall be stink; and instead of a girdle a rent; and instead of well set hair baldness; and instead of a stomacher a girding of sackcloth; and burning instead of beauty.

depressing quote

 

[Raz]

The best-looking guy I know is a 6'2 dude with incredibly good features, frame and he is in top condition. Also a super likeable and a charismatic guy.

...But he went bald really early. Literally NW6 that he keeps buzzing. sh*t is tragic. Although that being said, he is successful in his field and has a pretty hot girlfriend. But I remember talking to him a few years ago when we were drunk in an uni party, he was feeling pretty goddamn bad about balding, since he always has had a nice style and with hairstyles to boot.

It's really tragic that an otherwise blessed guy gets shat on like that by genetics. I mean, he is managing, but why...just why. This guy in question keeps compensating with gym and associated gains, I respect him.

 

[blackg]

The best-looking guy I know is a 6'2 dude with incredibly good features, frame and he is in top condition. Also a super likeable and a charismatic guy.

...But he went bald really early. Literally NW6 that he keeps buzzing. sh*t is tragic. Although that being said, he is successful in his field and has a pretty hot girlfriend. But I remember talking to him a few years ago when we were drunk in an uni party, he was feeling pretty goddamn bald about balding, since he always has had a nice style and with hairstyles to boot.

It's really tragic that an otherwise blessed guy gets shat on like that by genetics. I mean, he is managing, but why...just why. This guy in question keeps compensating with gym and associated gains, I respect him.

I hope he's doing ok. Sometimes the good-looking guys really get tourched by hair loss.

 

[swingline747]

I can understand that. Everyone wants to feel comfortable in their own skin but the reality is that virtually no one does. If you had a head full of hair i guarantee you'd be picking out and identifying some other flaw in your appearance.

LOL, I actually didnt. the only thing I ever picked out was knowing I was going to lose my hair........... I do agree though, most people would just pick out something else. I knew I was shorter as well but it never truly bothered me. I also KNOW I have lost height drastically in my last 12 years or so. I believe it was from (1) working out and (2) the density of my hair no longer holding up the Dr's height stand

 

[swingline747]

Slick shaving is quite a new way to deal with baldness

bic'ing it is literally the new comb over

 

[CopeForLife]

The best-looking guy I know is a 6'2 dude with incredibly good features, frame and he is in top condition. Also a super likeable and a charismatic guy.

...But he went bald really early. Literally NW6 that he keeps buzzing. sh*t is tragic. Although that being said, he is successful in his field and has a pretty hot girlfriend. But I remember talking to him a few years ago when we were drunk in an uni party, he was feeling pretty goddamn bad about balding, since he always has had a nice style and with hairstyles to boot.

It's really tragic that an otherwise blessed guy gets shat on like that by genetics. I mean, he is managing, but why...just why. This guy in question keeps compensating with gym and associated gains, I respect him.

looks like most of compensation is from his height and face which are genetical not from gymceling

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

There are obvious reasons why this may be, in no particular order:

1) Better health. How good looking you are is partly a function of embryonic health and early childhood nutrition. That will make a person both better looking and better at mental aspects.

2) Observer bias. You notice good looking people more. There are also ugly people in your world who excel at things, you just don't notice their strengths as much. It's actually the opposite, where you probably notice their weaknesses more.

3) Promotion and positive feedback. Good looking people can accumulate positive experiences more easily. They make more friends, more easily, they get jobs more easily and then get paid and get better tasks at their jobs, and so on.

For example if you're hot and you work as a waiter when you're 17, you'll get more tips, friendly feedback from customers, more hours from your boss, and the other staff members will be nice to you as well and invite you to parties. If you're ugly, you'll get fewer tips, a lot of complaints from customers (e.g. "I don't like this sandwich"), fewer hours from your boss, and the other staff members will bully you rather than invite you to parties. The person who works in the first situation accumulates more experience, skill, and thus ability and confidence.

 

[DHTpolice]

Good-looking people are always aware that their appearence constitutes a significant share of their identity capital, so they tend to take care of their look more than average people. And quite often good-looking people are suffering from excess perfectionism; they want to succeed in all respects, because they want to shift the attention from their looks. This makes an illusion of perfection.

Also, there are a lot of cases of good-looking men and women who have lost their attractiveness dramatically during the life due to health issues, financial problems or others reasons. So, they are not that flawless as you think, you need to take survivorship bias into account.

 

[blackg]

Good-looking people are always aware that their appearence constitutes a significant share of their identity capital, so they tend to take care of their look more than average people. And quite often good-looking people are suffering from excess perfectionism; they want to succeed in all respects, because they want to shift the attention from their looks. This makes an illusion of perfection.

Also, there are a lot of cases of good-looking men and women who have lost their attractiveness dramatically during the life due to health issues, financial problems or others reasons. So, they are not that flawless as you think, you need to take survivorship bias into account.

Good post.

 

[Medina]

I very rarely see good-looking people who are under 6' or going bald. 85% of good-looking people i see have height, hair, frame along with their faces. They are flawless. I always notice baldness or short height in ugly or average people. It's like average or ugly people are meant to lose. It's either you have it all or you have nothing. You rarely win the genetic lottery in one thing and lose the rest. (like being tall, NW0 and ugly). In most cases you either lose it all (be short, bald, ugly or average), or you win it all (be tall, NW0-1, good-looking, big frame).

Take 90% of those tall people and cut them down to a height of 5"6... they wouldn't get laid in a brothel

Being tall with good frame is all most guys have.

As for me, I have the face but not the height, my lay count would be doubled if I did. I have no doubt about that.

 

[OldnBald]

Take 90% of those tall people and cut them down to a height of 5"6... they wouldn't get laid in a brothel

Being tall with good frame is all most guys have.

As for me, I have the face but not the height, my lay count would be doubled if I did. I have no doubt about that.

Tripled.

 

[UncleMort]

Transplants are big in Hollywood where good looking people have to maintain aesthetics, so certainly not flawless. I think it's relatively quite common for many men to have a "damaged" frontal third and mild male pattern baldness. Particularly in 30s and 40s.

Yep

Hot attracts hot

And breed hotter

 

[CaptainForehead]

When I was in SEA I tried to settled dates (don't laugh I wasn't aware of genetical inferiority) with two girls and both flaked. The first one said I am just ugly (I know she sucked and banged a tall NW0 though, long story) and the second one said "Really?" after saw my face on video and flaked on the second day.

Inb4 make 100000 cold approaches !!

Besides, I made experiment I told before here

I registered 2 accounts on Asian dating side with 1 photo in same clothing, same angle the only differences were FACE and HAIR (NW3.5 vs NW0.5)

Guess what? I've got one visit and message from single mom working as cashier in fastfood while second guy got more than hundred of messages even from 7+/10 asian chicks.

FACE matters everywhere – Europe, USA, SEA, Zimbabwe, Nigeria and etc

Bonus: @Xander94 hasn't got any messages/visits at all as well on that site

Puzzled - you said recently you could get quite cute chicks in your country almost effortlessly.

 

[CopeForLife]

Puzzled - you said recently you could get quite cute chicks in your country almost effortlessly.

slav chicks are more tolarant to balding

 

[Rudiger]

slav chicks are more tolarant to balding

It all makes sense now, no way I'd ever publicly expose my diffuse thinking to passers by while being at this angle to them.

 

[blackg]

It all makes sense now, no way I'd ever publicly expose my diffuse thinking to passers by

Diffuse thinking? I can relate.