Why the Blackpill is mostly cringe bullshit

[Caillou]

Everything in your recent posts are cancer. Women absolutely care about looks more than anything but I don't expect a boomer to understand.

You're literally a grown *** man in his 30's still crying with incels in their 20's on an obscure, mod-less hair loss forum

 

[Diffused_confidence]

You're literally a grown *** man in his 30's still crying with incels in their 20's on an obscure, mod-less hair loss forum

Yup. Hair loss will ruin anyone under 45.

 

[Caillou]

Yup. Hair loss will ruin anyone under 45.

No one is saying that you shouldn't be bothered by your hair loss in your 30's. But you're overreacting over an issue that most men your age have to deal with to some degree. 90% of the men in their 30's that i know have at least a NW2 and some thinning. It's normal to face hair loss at your stage, you shouldn't be ashamed of it

What you should be ashamed of is crying with a bunch of basement dwelling losers in their 20's on some shithole forum instead of getting your sh*t together and having a life at your age. It's just pathetic

 

[Feelsbadman]

No one is saying that you shouldn't be bothered by your hair loss in your 30's. But you're overreacting over an issue that most men your age have to deal with to some degree. 90% of the men in their 30's that i know have at least a NW2 and some thinning. It's normal to face hair loss at your stage, you shouldn't be ashamed of it

What you should be ashamed of is crying with a bunch of basement dwelling losers in their 20's on some shithole forum instead of getting your sh*t together and having a life at your age. It's just pathetic

its over

 

[Caillou]

its over

You're mostly feeling that shitty due to the Finasteride wrecking your neurosteroids. I know it because i used to feel the same sh*t on anti-androgens. At this stage i would rather be bald than face that kind of excruciating depression again. We simply can't function well as men without our DHT and neurosteroids, it's living hell

 

[Feelsbadman]

You're mostly feeling that shitty due to the Finasteride wrecking your neurosteroids. I know it because i used to feel the same sh*t on anti-androgens. At this stage i would rather be bald than face that kind of excruciating depression again. We simply can't function well as men without our DHT and neurosteroids, it's living hell

i feel fine.
the problem.is my situation never seems to.improve
despite going to the gym.
getting a new job
trying to be more social (i had many friends in high school so its not like im those basement dwelling weird outcast type)
yet my situation is still.the same

no gf
no girls interrstrd in me
still hang out with the same loser friends (my alpha friends got married)

why doesnt my situation ever chamge or improve?

 

[Feelsbadman]

answer: ugly short and bald.

 

[Caillou]

i feel fine.
the problem.is my situation never seems to.improve
despite going to the gym.
getting a new job
trying to be more social (i had many friends in high school so its not like im those basement dwelling weird outcast type)
yet my situation is still.the same

no gf
no girls interrstrd in me
still hang out with the same loser friends (my alpha friends got married)

why doesnt my situation ever chamge or improve?

leave the west

 

[vondoom]

I agre with some of what you're saying but you have a warped view of masculinity. a man should be more than some primitive, room temperature IQ having beast who's only concerned with fighting and f*****g.

ironically, such a limited view of masculinity is a modern invention. in the past men were supposed to be tough and strong, that much is true, but also emotional and refined.

during the middle ages men were widely viewed as the more sensitive gender, and romantic poetry and art was seen as quintessential masculine. women were also seen as emotional but more fickle and frivolous, without the same pathos as men

the ancient Greeks had a similar ideal of masculinity. in their classical theater all female roles were played by men with masks. same with the Noh theatre of historical Japan.

all those cultures I mentioned were very patriarchal, strong and honourable. and defy your lowbrow, caveman tier definition of masculinity.

don't let women define what being a man entails

ancient greeks and japanese also liked young boys very much^^

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

ancient greeks and japanese also liked young boys very much^^

yeah, extremely masculine, patriarchal ( warrior ) cultures that exclude women and worship the male body for its beauty and strength, tend to flirt with homoeroticism. ironic maybe, but it's not comparable to modern flaming faggotery

edit: but it's also due to historical misinterpretation. back then, grown men who willingly took it up the ***, were mostly looked at with disdain. just as they're now

 

[vondoom]

yeah, extremely masculine, patriarchal ( warrior ) cultures that exclude women and worship the male body for its beauty and strength, tend to flirt with homoeroticism. ironic maybe, but it's not comparable to modern flaming faggotery

edit: but it's also due to historical misinterpretation. back then, grown men who willingly took it up the ***, were mostly looked at with disdain. just as they're now

yeah, thats like in rap and prison culture...

well, gay is gay...

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

You are generalizing waaay to much. Sure some women might love redpilled, hyper aggressive dudes, but plenty of other women will be turned off. Also looks still plays a big factor in how one is perceived in spite of their actions. A much more attractive guy will be viewed entirely differently -- regardless of whether they are an alpha a-hole or passive liberal feminist -- than an unattractive guy will be in either role.

 

[DoctorHouse]

You are generalizing waaay to much. Sure some women might love redpilled, hyper aggressive dudes, but plenty of other women will be turned off. Also looks still plays a big factor in how one is perceived in spite of their actions. A much more attractive guy will be viewed entirely differently -- regardless of whether they are an alpha a-hole or passive liberal feminist -- than an unattractive guy will be in either role.

I think in most circumstances you can't control what traits you are attracted to. You either feel it or you don't. And what comes out of people's mouth does matter. How many people want to be around a person who is toxic even if they would be considered very attractive by the majority? Sorry but I would pass and move on and keep looking. I have never been attracted to women who are big boned. Yet some men are so we all have our own tastes whether you are female or male. Of course we are all brainwashed by movies and television to believe what is considered attractive and what is not. Attraction is a learned behavior but at the same time there are situations where your genetically determined wiring kicks in and takes over and you actually feel the way you should about someone without overthinking it. It's like when you try a new food and decide if you like or not. It make look great but it may taste horrible.

 

[Feelsbadman]

I think in most circumstances you can't control what traits you are attracted to. You either feel it or you don't. And what comes out of people's mouth does matter. How many people want to be around a person who is toxic even if they would be considered very attractive by the majority? Sorry but I would pass and move on and keep looking. I have never been attracted to women who are big boned. Yet some men are so we all have our own tastes whether you are female or male. Of course we are all brainwashed by movies and television to believe what is considered attractive and what is not. Attraction is a learned behavior but at the same time there are situations where your genetically determined wiring kicks in and takes over and you actually feel the way you should about someone without overthinking it. It's like when you try a new food and decide if you like or not. It make look great but it may taste horrible.

Are you retarded?
We are not brainwashed by movies and television to believe what is considered attractive or not. Most people are attracted to other people based on genetics because it shows mating ability.
e.g. men attracted to big boobs and ***.

reading your posts are so cringe you go on this long whirlwind trying to sound smart without actually saying anything constructive

 

[keepcoolmybabies]

I think in most circumstances you can't control what traits you are attracted to. You either feel it or you don't. And what comes out of people's mouth does matter. How many people want to be around a person who is toxic even if they would be considered very attractive by the majority? Sorry but I would pass and move on and keep looking. I have never been attracted to women who are big boned. Yet some men are so we all have on own tastes whether you are female or male. Of course we are all brainwashed by movies and television to believe what is considered attractive and what is not. Attraction is a learned behavior but at the same time there are situations where your genetically determined wiring kicks in and takes over and you actually feel the way you should about someone without overthinking it. It's like when you try a new food and decide if you like or not. It make look great but it may taste horrible.

Yes I agree with much of that. My take was a little simplistic, but I more was just countering OP's initial thesis in that someone's behavior/attitude (and at that only one kind being acceptable according to him) is the driving force behind attraction. Instead I think the major factor behind initial attraction is less about one's behavior unless it's intrinsically at odds of the person they seek to attract. And even if someone overlooks the behavior they disagree with its likely more to do with looks than anything else.

Also I think one's behavior/views don't have the some potential for positive influence as they do for negative or neutral, meaning if you view something about someone as toxic, it's a complete deal breaker, but if you like something about someone (like their politics or attitude), it still might only offer a tiny bump to their attractiveness scale. The OP posted a picture of a guy who's views/attitude/behavior you can't remotely gauge from that pic, but OP somehow perceived him as weak, etc thus his own perspective was based solely on the person's looks. I doubt if that same stock photo included a dumbbell and maga hat the perception of his attractiveness would be that different, though might either marginally be a plus for some and a major negative for others.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Are you retarded?
We are not brainwashed by movies and television to believe what is considered attractive or not. Most people are attracted to other people based on genetics because it shows mating ability.
e.g. men attracted to big boobs and ***.

reading your posts are so cringe you go on this long whirlwind trying to sound smart without actually saying anything constructive

If I took a vote right now on this forum who is more retarded me or you. You would win hands down. Your childish dislikes are hilarious. You are so disrespectful. If I was moderator I would ban you forever. You don't deserve to be here because you disrespect people all the time. And you waste everyone's time and are selfish and only think about yourself all the time. You give no support to anyone here. The only support you give is pushing the dislike button like a little baby. Grow up!

 

[Feelsbadman]

If I took a vote right now on this forum who is more retarded me or you. You would win hands down. Your childish dislikes are hilarious. You are so disrespectful. If I was moderator I would ban you forever. You don't deserve to be here because you disrespect people all the time. And you waste everyone's time and are selfish and only think about yourself all the time. You give no support to anyone here. The only support you give is pushing the dislike button like a little baby. Grow up!

You didn't address what I said once in your post. cringe.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Hey everyone we are attracted to what we are attracted to because of what we see on TV not because of our innate biology !!
@DoctorHouse
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[Feelsbadman]

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[DoctorHouse]

Hey everyone we are attracted to what we are attracted to because of what we see on TV not because of our innate biology !!
@DoctorHouse
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