Women below 30 are shallow, and balding is unattractive. Deal with it.

[ChrisW1980uk]

No wonder these guys are avoided like the plague by women. So much rage, bitterness and misogyny. Just what every woman dreams of!

 

[dude77]

Confidence is real and it jolts the way you carry yourself, if you are a sad balding kid with a comb over or crazy wispy old man hair, then you will have problems, but if you know how to dress, if you know how to talk, if you know how to keep your hair (head) tight and groomed, you can do just fine. I Live and work in NYC, in the fashion industry. You'd be amazed how many guys (loosing there hair) are just killing it here because they walk and talk like they know what they are doing, and they have good jobs, dress great, understand facial hair, and keep there hair or lack of hair tight and groomed. Some of them actually doit so well, it looks better then a guy with a 10 yr old hairline. The ones with severe hairloss, they just skin fade it and keep shaved. The point is, hairloss is one of the only things you cant really control, so the object is to step your game up in every aspect of your life so that your hair is a minor set back.

this is an excellent post .. it's definitely true and definitely works .. the thing is the people who are stuck wallowing in self pity can't see it just yet .. but this is a very realistic assessment .. y'all should read this one multiple times and keep it in mind

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It's funny everyone online seems to know "this short bald guy who's a real pimp with the women", yet I've yet to see a short bald guy be involved with a hot woman irl, unless an insane amount of money or fame was involved.
"Confidence" is a FALSE and EMPTY concept. How confident you are perceived is determined greatly by your level of LOOKS. "Confidence" is a cop-out explanation for women whenever they're trying to dig for a non-shallow explanation of how they ended up in bed or in a relationship with a handsome guy. Hint: It's not his "confidence" they liked. It was his face. It's that simple.
Good luck being "confident" and thinking any amount of "game" will change a woman's mind if she's always rejected you in her mind because of your insufficient level of good looks. There is ONE magic pill when it comes to getting women. A handsome male model looking face.

Let's see a pic of the women your uncles scored dude, and we can be the judge how "hot" those women are. We are talking today's society's HOT women, not your ageing aunts who were desperate to settle down with some loser after 10 years of being pumped and dumped by handsome guys in their 20's. Things have changed a lot with the introduction of online-dating and facebook btw. Women have even MORE options and offers thrown at them everywhere, they can afford to be picky. They're just not very vocal about their pickiness because they don't want to come off superficial. Rule number 1: What a woman SAYS she likes, is usually the complete opposite or just a complete denial of what she REALLY does.

****ing naive cheeseball

I see 'ugly' guys with hot, cute women all the time .. I understand your points but your 'black and white' assessment is inaccurate

 

[slipy]

No wonder these guys are avoided like the plague by women. So much rage, bitterness and misogyny. Just what every woman dreams of!

no no no, just no.

''holes'' (as one user refered to them, not sure if that was a typo and he meant hoes) are simple creatures, they don't dig that deep. it's all about whether you look fine.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

no no no, just no.

''holes'' (as one user refered to them, not sure if that was a typo and he meant hoes) are simple creatures, they don't dig that deep. it's all about whether you look fine.

Well your comment has rather proved my point, thank you! So what percentage of women are "hoes" or "holes"? All of them?

 

[slipy]

you should ask the person who coined the term.

and it must be really easy for you to throw condescending lines like ''No wonder these guys are avoided like the plague by women. So much rage, bitterness and misogyny.'' and maintain that self-righteous attitude considering you're in the shelter of full head of hair. cuz maybe those guys have all the reasons to be angry and bitter? as if you'd know why women avoid them having no experience of being bald yourself. i'd like to see how you'd be doing and what would you say if you were cueball.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

And like your friend, you excel in ignoring any questions asked. Yeah life has been peaches and cream for me, I'd have no idea what it's like to be judged on appearance and in particular an attribute I had no control over. You refer to women as "hoes", well maybe if you spent less time listening to gangsta rap and developed a personality rather than becoming ever more bitter, and even less likely to find a woman. I've already said what I would do, and it wouldn't involve blaming women for not liking me. How old are you? 13?

 

[slipy]

much like you ingnored the part of me pointing out the fact that you have no idea what it'd be like being bald yet feel like it's appropriate to pass judgment and talk about ''what you'd do if.'' let me break it to you, if you have no experience of something, baldness in this case, you don't have a way of telling whether your designed tactic would come in useful.

also lulz @ gangsta rap and your poor attempt at making me look immature.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

I don't need to try to make you look immature, you're doing a fine job of it yourself, referring to women as "hoes"! You don't need to break anything to me treacle, I'm not moaning that my life is over.

I didn't ignore your comment. I said that I have no idea what it's like to be judged for physical appearance etc, so couldn't have the tiniest amount of empathy, perhaps my sarcasm was too subtle for you.

 

[slipy]

-_-

show me one instance of me refering to them as hoes or holes directly. no dear, i merely refered to another user refering to them as such perhaps you should've paid attention, so as much as you'd like to turn this around against me, you got nothing on me.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Believe me, I want nothing on you! You decided you'd take me to task, and I had the temerity to question your credentials. That's all. This forum seems full of casual bigotry, yet there are certain members who are the first to moan if they're referred to in a derogatory way...

 

[akp22191]

I would just like to state something; I kind of have a change in mind somewhat when it comes to hairloss. I commented earlier that hairloss is one of the worst things that can happen to you & your chances of being in future relationships are very slim; which does hold some fact to most of you would agree. Slim, but still a good chance. Now I watched this movie where a guy who is deaf and can't talk falls in love with a women. The women loves him back also since he has the capability to put a smile on her face and make her feel happy. But half way through the movie she is forced to choose another men: Tall, fit, rich, can talk, and isn't deaf. She's clearly unhappy, but is forced to make the decision based on how society would think if she married the deaf and mute guy. The guy after being heart broken, does feel sad. But he still moves on with his life, by trying to stay happy as much as he can & help others out in the community like he always used to do. This basically gave me a reality check, that if people who have some kind of disability can move on with their life, then why can't I? This is the question I always ask myself, whenever I think hair loss has basically ended my right to live and enjoy life. But I still stick partially to my opinion that women make decisions based on how the rest of the society would think (not all women, but a majority of them). Men on the other hand would rather be pleased if they picked a women who they can trust. You see a lot of popular men with the nerdy, not so good looking, or unpopular girl; and most even go against their friends just to be with this girl. I haven't seen much of that dedication from the women side throughout my life. And here's a scene from the movie I'm talking about; it's Indian so most won't understand the language. But I don't think voice is needed to understand the scene: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFwa3-2d3Fs

 

[uncomfortable man]

We are all moving on with our lives regardless, even if we can't accept it. Suicide being the only exception because god knows a cure ain't coming.

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We are all moving on with our lives regardless, even if we can't accept it. Suicide being the only exception because god knows a cure ain't coming.

 

[hairplz]

Why was Macimate banned? His words speak the truth.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

Because he was a bigot. If you'd like to speak with him more, go visit puahate.com

 

[zeroes]

From memory it was abuse x3, he didn't listen to the 2 warnings I had no choice but to ban him.

 

[hairplz]

But what he said was the truth. Truth cannot be banned.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

No it wasn't. He admitted elsewhere that he trolled this forum. A real nasty piece of work.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Here is my take on PUAhate... it's a backlash from the PUA scams that claim even the ugliest guys can get the hottest women with just these few secret tips. It's along the lines of penis enlargement pills and such imo, pua's that is. So I can understand the need to discredit the lies and uncover the truth of what women really find attractive... so they subscribe to the most mainstream perception of masculine requirements - drive a fancy car, make more than a certain amount of money each year, have a big penis, a ripped bod, be over six feet, have a male model face which of course includes a full head of hair. Problem is not everyone fits this (unrealistic) mold, so the guys over at PUAhate like Macimate spend their time lamenting over being a square peg in a round hole.... kinda like how I complain about my situation despite not being able to do anything about it.

 

[hairplz]

Problem is not everyone fits this (unrealistic) mold

WRONG! If you are a square peg in a round hole, then you cut your corners to fit. Everyone CAN make it if they truly want it and are willing to go GREAT LENGTHS.

so the guys over at PUAhate like Macimate spend their time lamenting over being a square peg in a round hole

Macimate is 8/10, I saw his picture.

kinda like how I complain about my situation despite not being able to do anything about it.

But you can do things about it.

 

[ChrisW1980uk]

How can UCMan regain his hair? He's a NW5. I'm sure if there were options, he'd have taken them by now.