Women Speaking Out Against The Misleading Male Practice Of “hatfishing”

[karatekid]

No, I think you missed the whole point. These people are wearing objects to cover they are bald is as bad as women that use filter to make themselves skinnier. The makeup analogy doesn't work because most women wear makeup.


If you want to have a stable relationship, you can't lie to the person. Why even go on dating sites?

The makeup analogy doesnt work because most women wear makeup? lol what kind of logic is this? so what if most of them wear makeup? how exactly it contradicts the analogy?
and btw also dont be innocent to think that makeup is only small improvement relatively to hiding under hat - there are lots of woman that look SO MUCH different than their actual look. basically go from hot to ugly face if they take it down. I saw once even a video about a girl that sadly has severe acne, which look horrible of course, but after putting enough makeup you just completely unaware of that and would think she looks good.

But ye, makeup is only one thing, there are also other stuff like hair extensions, pushing stuff into the bra to make it bigger, tan lotion etc. which all of that just change your natural look.

Anyway, im not saying that I am doing this thing (wearing hats on dating apps pictures) or that it is such a great idea, but im not judging them on doing whatever they can to deal with it, hairloss is just shitty situation

 

[blackg]

More men should wear hats in their dating profiles, that way the ladies will be able to tell which men spend more time outdoors in the sun.
This reflects a healthy lifestyle.

 

[Night]

And women should be allowed to reject you fro being a beta male cuck. sorry life doesn't work your way, women don't find men that trick them on dating websites as a positive. Sucks that your mind can't comprehend reality.

 

[Saurabhaj]

More men should wear hats in their dating profiles, that way the ladies will be able to tell which men spend more time outdoors in the sun.
This reflects a healthy lifestyle.

BlackG you are going in wrong direction.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Anyone remember that zoot dating website ad that showed the photoshoped bald guy with yellow teeth as an example of what not to date? Yeah, and that message was from the company itself basically saying you are undateable if bald. So, confidence has nothing to do with it... we are dealing with descrinination and prejudice against the bald. That is the reality.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Anyone remember that zoot dating website ad that showed the photoshoped bald guy with yellow teeth as an example of what not to date? Yeah, and that message was from the company itself basically saying you are undateable if bald. So, confidence has nothing to do with it... we are dealing with descrinination and prejudice against the bald. That is the reality.

Confidence is very important.
It will keep you trying while impressing a girl.
Even if there are multiple failures before,confidence will keep that man positive.
There are few girls who have no problem being with a balding/bald guy.
To find such girls need luck,and for luck we need confidence to try.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Ah, Saurabhaj so you are saying the confidence is more for your sake than theirs, yes? Like a positive affirmation or mantra you repeat until you believe it.

I'm sorry but that is still a form of denial. You can't get knocked out with your head in the sand. So I propose a new word to replace the "c" word...one that does not allude to denial and rather acknowledges the truth of the matter while remaining positive. Bravery.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Ah, Saurabhaj so you are saying the confidence is more for your sake than theirs, yes? Like a positive affirmation or mantra you repeat until you believe it.

I'm sorry but that is still a form of denial. You can't get knocked out with your head in the sand. So I propose a new word to replace the "c" word...one that does not allude to denial and rather acknowledges the truth of the matter while remaining positive. Bravery.

You are mixing my version of confidence with Internets version of confidence.

Think with a cool mind.
Without confidence,you cannot even hold a conversation with a stranger,what will you do if you are bald nw6 at young age.
There must be something that keeps such guy running.

What Internet's one school of thought tries to teach is that any guy can get a girl with confidence..
I don't believe in this nonsense.
But this doesn't mean Confidence don't have value.
Even good looking guys can suffer if their confidence goes down.

Suicides happen just because of feeling of hopelessness in a fraction of minutes/hours/days.

Loss of Confidence can lead to social isolation.
Guys can hide themeselves in their home,skipping on functions,meet ups,avoiding friends.

 

[yurguardianangel]

Don’t get me started on stupid dating sites...

Had nothing but bad luck on them in the past.

Whether it’s ageist sh*t or people lying to me.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Ah, Saurabhaj so you are saying the confidence is more for your sake than theirs, yes? Like a positive affirmation or mantra you repeat until you believe it.

I'm sorry but that is still a form of denial. You can't get knocked out with your head in the sand. So I propose a new word to replace the "c" word...one that does not allude to denial and rather acknowledges the truth of the matter while remaining positive. Bravery.

Bravery is also correct..
I may be 100% wrong but I want to say difference between confidence and bravery in one small para according to what I experience.

Suppose Hairloss talk member decides to visit a swimming pool..
There is a 30 feet high platform for diving in to the water .(Diving Platform.)
Confidence will make a guy willing to Stand on that 30 feet high platform,by doing a bath,wearing swimming costume,preparing him to be ready for the jump.
Bravery will make that member take a jump in to the water.