Would you rather have good head of hair and no sexual ability or sexual ability and bald

[Derelict]

Sex drive makes you feel alive man

I probably couldn't cope with no sex drive at all maybe, but my tolerance to a reduction in it is pretty big.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Bald with great sexual ability

 

[Feelsbadman]

i just being being super horny
when i fap now its not even that good

 

[vondoom]

so you either can have sex and wont get any, or you could get sex but cant have any? end result is the same^^

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

I chose neither.

 

[Pacho]

so you either can have sex and wont get any, or you could get sex but cant have any? end result is the same^^

this

 

[Baldingat188]

so you either can have sex and wont get any, or you could get sex but cant have any? end result is the same^^

Yea exactly my dilemma. I’m just trying to decide which one feels less bad. Both options suck.

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

I don't think i would want no sexual ability at all, but i can deal with partial or maybe even a great loss in libido etc for my hair. I don't understand these people who stop finasteride because they have less semen or a reduction in libido etc

You never lose all sexual function. It just goes to being functionally female down there so many report that only a vibrator works now where as a male, it would have just been annoying. That's a fascinating part of this for some on high-dose estradiol. And for me at least, breasts are kind of fun unless I am trying to hide them.

 

[Trichosan]

Keep sex drive, go bald, buy beautiful hookers.

 

[vondoom]

this

that was at least the thing that made the decision to take finasteride easier... my brother for example had to quit because he had sides, so i was thinking about that before i took finasteride...
but then i thought “might be that there wont be any women either way, at least i dont look like sh*t then”^^

 

[Feelsbadman]

Its over for sex drive bros

 

[Derelict]

that was at least the thing that made the decision to take finasteride easier... my brother for example had to quit because he had sides, so i was thinking about that before i took finasteride...
but then i thought “might be that there wont be any women either way, at least i dont look like sh*t then”^^

Do you not want to have a great set of hair for yourself rather than solely for the pursuit of women? I know i do, will probably never be in a relationship, would be nice to be in one don't get me wrong, i just don't think it will happen. Im still concerned about my hair though.

 

[vondoom]

Do you not want to have a great set of hair for yourself rather than solely for the pursuit of women? I know i do, will probably never be in a relationship, would be nice to be in one don't get me wrong, i just don't think it will happen. Im still concerned about my hair though.

no, for myself... women have never been an issue, got a gf now, had a lot of fun with women until now...
but i know what i look like without hair, because i did shave it once (and that was buzz to 1mm only, not even slick bald) and i dont want to see that again...
i dont even want to go back to nw1, or anything, just maintain and hopefully the crown filling back in finally...
then i would be satisfied, i think...

 

[Derelict]

no, for myself... women have never been an issue, got a gf now, had a lot of fun with women until now...
but i know what i look like without hair, because i did shave it once (and that was buzz to 1mm only, not even slick bald) and i dont want to see that again...
i dont even want to go back to nw1, or anything, just maintain and hopefully the crown filling back in finally...
then i would be satisfied, i think...

Ok good, i just don't like the idea that we should all be trying to maintain/regrow hair simply to attract women. For me i just want to look in the mirror and think, yeah, my hair looks fine, no need to worry, the relief you get from that is great, im doing it mostly for personal reasons tbh.

 

[vondoom]

Ok good, i just don't like the idea that we should all be trying to maintain/regrow hair simply to attract women. For me i just want to look in the mirror and think, yeah, my hair looks fine, no need to worry, the relief you get from that is great, im doing it mostly for personal reasons tbh.

everybody has different reasons i guess...
for me personally, im more afraid of having problems with changing jobs, if i got some nice horse shoe...

well of course friends and coworkers comments about bald/balding people are also not nice, but unless its directed at me i can brush it off^^ shows what society thinks, though...

 

[Baldingat188]

Ok good, i just don't like the idea that we should all be trying to maintain/regrow hair simply to attract women. For me i just want to look in the mirror and think, yeah, my hair looks fine, no need to worry, the relief you get from that is great, im doing it mostly for personal reasons tbh.

I can definitely relate to this and I would say it’s a mix for me. I do want to present myself in a certain way in public so that I am not considered ugly. But also I want to keep my hair for myself. Having hair feels like a large part of my identity and appearance so taking that way feels like I am losing something. I wouldn’t recognize myself without hair.