Would You Reject Someone Just Because Of Your Hair

[Exodus2011]

When he shaves his head, tellersquill looks uncommonly good for a guy with no hair on his head, but he is NOT a 7.

He's good looking FOR A BALD GUY but stacked against all of the other men in the world, including the men with hair, he is no better than a 5.

But a guy with no hair on his head is lucky to be a 5 so he should be very happy about being a 5.

naw i'd give him like a 7 when he shaves his head. shaved he has that sexy ripped english footballer look. all manly and stuff. PLUS he is packin an 8 incher apparently.

he looks a lot different with full hair though, looks more artsy and hipster. gimme shaved teller over full hair teller any day ;D

 

[tellersquill]

I have a friend shes gorgeous straight up model type--she was a parts model when she was younger...looks like Giselle body and face hair.

She only dates men beneath her in looks.

I never really understood it but i think she likes feeling as if she has upper hand.

Yeah, a lot of people do it.

Ultimately its to do with security because you know they are unlikely to leave you.

I think if you date someone significantly better looking that you then there will always be a power imbalance. In the UK we call this 'punching' short for punching above your weight.



As for how men rate me - its fine - I never go out with men for dates and solely date women. I find men find different things attractive to women, so if a man finds me attractive or ugly I don't mind too much. I'm always far more interested in what women tell me.

I'm sure you are all the same in that regard

 

[IggyPop]

I think I am doing this all the time on a subconscious level......

 

[nameless]

naw i'd give him like a 7 when he shaves his head. shaved he has that sexy ripped english footballer look. all manly and stuff. PLUS he is packin an 8 incher apparently.

he looks a lot different with full hair though, looks more artsy and hipster. gimme shaved teller over full hair teller any day ;D

There's an old thread here at this very site wherein a balding poster complains that owing to his hair loss he can't get women anymore. Further, he also complains that the man (in his group of friends) who gets all the female action is the attractive (as in p-r-e-t-t-y) man with long blond hair and an average build. And his bitterness over women wanting his attractive friend is actually equal to his bitterness that women aren't interested in him anymore. He comes off as disgusted and full of grievance towards women because they like the attractive man with the plain build. But I give this guy credit for one thing - at least he's figured out the score.

What matters is how women would rate at man IN THE CLUBS at night where the competition takes place. In the clubs women aren't seeing tellersquill's "sexy ripped english footballer" look. He's sitting at a table drinking with friends and they're seeing him dressed (without his 8-incher hanging out) and they're assessing his appeal on the basis of things like his attractiveness from the neck up, his GENERAL body frame from the waist up, his demeanor, his interaction with her and others, his clothes, and things like this. If he rips his shirt open to show her his "sexy ripped English footballer" look most women would get turned off and if he plops out his "8-incher" to show it off to her it will shock her in a negative way.

The way to win at the clubs is to be attractive, laughing, clean, dressed well without overdressing, and happy. And you don't need to be ripped with a washboard stomach. You just need to be generally in shape. In other words, don't be significantly fat.

Any questions?

 

[CopeForLife]

telles is 6.75-7

7 is for girls who are don't mind bald

I cannot give him 6 and I cannot give him 7

he isn't 6.5 also

 

[nameless]

telles is 6.75-7

7 is for girls who are don't mind bald

I cannot give him 6 and I cannot give him 7

he isn't 6.5 also

5.

 

[nameless]

5? LOL you are brutal.

I'm just being honest. I thought we didn't want to blue-pill each other.

He's lucky to be a 5 when he has no hair on his head.
I have no hair on my head and I'm not even a 5.
bald guys who are 5s are lucky.

 

[hairblues]

Guys like you give guys like you a bad name. Guys like you can't cease rating of men based on how macho a man looks.

There's an old thread here at this very site wherein a balding poster complains that owing to his hair loss he can't get women anymore. Further, he also complains that the man (in his group of friends) who gets all the female action is the attractive (as in p-r-e-t-t-y) man with long blond hair and an average build. And his bitterness over women wanting his attractive friend is actually equal to his bitterness that women aren't interested in him anymore. He comes off as disgusted and full of grievance towards women because they like the attractive man with the plain build. But I give this guy credit for one thing - at least he's figured out the score.

Everything about how you rate men is wrong.

What matters is how women would rate at man IN THE CLUBS at night where the competition takes place. In the clubs women aren't seeing tellersquill's "sexy ripped english footballer" look. He's sitting at a table drinking with friends and they're seeing him dressed (without his 8-incher hanging out) and they're assessing his appeal on the basis of things like his attractiveness from the neck up, his GENERAL body frame from the waist up, his demeanor, his interaction with her and others, his clothes, and things like this. If he rips his shirt open to show her his "sexy ripped english footballer" most women would get turned off and if he plops out his "8-incher" to show it to her it will shock her in a negative way.

The way to win at the clubs is to be attractive, laughing, clean, dressed well without overdressing, and happy. And you don't need to be ripped with a washboard stomach. You just need to be generally in shape. In other words, don't be significantly fat.

Any questions?

Aren't you late 40s?

I'm 45 and I do go to clubs once in a while but for events or to go see a Dj i know not to go pick up men.

If you are over 30 you should not be rating self on looks in a night club

And not all 20-somethings are into the club scene.

 

[nameless]

Aren't you late 40s?

I'm 45 and I do go to clubs once in a while but for events or to go see a Dj i know not to go pick up men.

If you are over 30 you should not be rating self on looks in a night club

And not all 20-somethings are into the club scene.

1. Are you're saying guys should go to clubs to see specific DJs and reasons like that rather than having fun with women?

2. Are you're saying guys over 30 who go to clubs should not to try to make their look competitive for the clubs? If they don't make their look competitive for the clubs won't that hinder their ability to compete in the clubs?

3. Yes all 20-somethings do not go to clubs but many do, and the ones that do go to the clubs, go to the clubs for wilder fun.

 

[hairblues]

Your above advice is the worse I've ever seen. You're basically giving guys instructions for how to lose. You're telling guys not
to go to clubs with the hopes of picking up women.

1. You're telling them to go to clubs to see a specific dj instead of digging on women.

2. You're telling guys over 30 not to bother trying to make their look competitive for the clubs as if they
should not even try to win.

3. And you're telling guys not to bother going to the clubs because all 20-somethings do not go to clubs.




A. Guys go to clubs to have fun and fun includes the possibility of picking up women if he can. Lots of women go to clubs to simply
have fun and if they meet some guy they want to spend some time with that is cool with them.

B. It doesn't matter why just you (1 woman) goes to clubs. See above for why guys (and lots of women) go to clubs.

C. If guys want to compete in the nightclubs and they don't take into account their look then they are setting themselves up to lose.

D. It doesn't matter it all the 20-somethings go to clubs. A lot of 20-somethings do go to clubs.

Im not telling them to go see Djs i am saying for myself as a 45 year old woman who lives in a major city--i go to clubs for 2 reasons i was invited to an event OR i am going to see Djs i know and to dance...I personally do not go to pick up men.

Do men try to pick me up? Yes younger men try to pick me up. Im not into that.

Im not telling these guys NOT to go to clubs...If they WANT to go to clubs to pick up women--go for it.

If a guy is in his late 30s to late 40s i am just saying the 22 year old cutie is not looking for anything more from you than to pick up her drink bill or buy her some bottle service and maybe buy her some food at the diner afterwards.

 

[nameless]

Im not telling them to go see Djs i am saying for myself as a 45 year old woman who lives in a major city--i go to clubs for 2 reasons i was invited to an event OR i am going to see Djs i know and to dance...I personally do not go to pick up men.

Do men try to pick me up? Yes younger men try to pick me up. Im not into that.

Im not telling these guys NOT to go to clubs...If they WANT to go to clubs to pick up women--go for it.

If a guy is in his late 30s to late 40s i am just saying the 22 year old cutie is not looking for anything more from you than to pick up her drink bill or buy her some bottle service and maybe buy her some food at the diner afterwards.

Hairblues, Regarding your above response to my previous post I want to apologize for the sting in my previous post. It's nothing personal against you. I'm taken some time from work over depression and I'm hanging out on the northern Oregon coast. I'm renting a beach house from a company called VACASA. Vacasa is a national company that has listings of condos and beach homes owned by other people and Vacasa rents them out to vacationers like me. I've been here 6 days and every day so far one thing or another has gone wrong and I've had to put hours into solving the different problems each day. I contact national VACASA, who then contacts the owner of the place, who then contacts the local Vacasa manager, who then comes to the place to solve the problem. This process takes hours each day and I'm getting VERY annoyed with having to spend hours each day on this crap. I'm getting frustrated and the frustration spilled out into my previous post to you. I'm really sorry and I edited my previous post to take the sting out of it.

 

[cocohot]

Im not telling them to go see Djs i am saying for myself as a 45 year old woman who lives in a major city--i go to clubs for 2 reasons i was invited to an event OR i am going to see Djs i know and to dance...I personally do not go to pick up men.

Do men try to pick me up? Yes younger men try to pick me up. Im not into that.

Im not telling these guys NOT to go to clubs...If they WANT to go to clubs to pick up women--go for it.

If a guy is in his late 30s to late 40s i am just saying the 22 year old cutie is not looking for anything more from you than to pick up her drink bill or buy her some bottle service and maybe buy her some food at the diner afterwards.

EvilLocks says she prefers older men in their late 30's early to early 40's. I hear conflicting things from women about this. Are you just bitter that men your age aren't attracted to you? Maybe not though, could just be a varying thing.

She did say only if they had hair though. Of course

 

[hairblues]

EvilLocks says she prefers older men in their late 30's early to early 40's. I hear conflicting things from women about this. Are you just bitter that men your age aren't attracted to you? Maybe not though, could just be a varying thing.

She did say only if they had hair though. Of course

No bitterness at all.

I don't have trouble attracting men my own age.

I don't think telling men to focus on how they look in night clubs is an accurate way to go about it--which was the point of the post i commented on. And i was surprised that someone in late 40s is focused on how he looks in nightclubs to rate his attractiveness to opposite sex.

I honestly have not experienced anything yet due to my age that is negative...only on this site do I hear the remarks or experience rudeness due to my age. Probably because you all have a picture in your mind of what 45 looks like so you react that way.

And if it does start to effect my life i doubt i will feel 'bitter' about it because i have had a good life and experiences.

Only person on this site who knows what i look like both now at 45 and also at 25 is @Pasbrillantebrunette who i shared photos with.

 

[cocohot]

No bitterness at all.

I don't have trouble attracting men my own age.

I don't think telling men to focus on how they look in night clubs is an accurate way to go about it--which was the point of the post i commented on. And i was surprised that someone in late 40s is focused on how he looks in nightclubs to rate his attractiveness to opposite sex.

I honestly have not experienced anything yet due to my age that is negative...only on this site do I hear the remarks or experience rudeness due to my age. Probably because you all have a picture in your mind of what 45 looks like so you react that way.

And if it does start to effect my life i doubt i will feel 'bitter' about it because i have had a good life and experiences.

Only person on this site who knows what i look like both now at 45 and also at 25 is @Pasbrillantebrunette who i shared photos with.

I didn't mean to be rude, I was just asking an honest question about whether or not young women are really into older men? Like I said I hear completely conflicting things from women about this.

Never said anything at all about what you looked like either, I just meant it was possible that you had lost a guy your age to a younger woman. Kind of like how Fred became misogynist for a while after his girlfriend's abortion.

 

[hairblues]

I didn't mean to be rude, I was just asking an honest question about whether or not young women are really into older men? Like I said I hear completely conflicting things from women about this.

Never said anything at all about what you looked like either, I just meant it was possible that you had lost a guy your age to a younger woman. Kind of like how Fred became misogynist for a while after his girlfriend's abortion.

Only time a man left me for another woman specifically I was in my early 20s and she was in her early 30s.

As an older woman over last 10 years it's not ever been about another woman that things don't work out.

It's mostly been about work and lifestyle or it runs its course.

i don't have major drama with men to be honest and most men i have remained cordial with.

Not 'friends' but cordial.

I don't feel bitter towards men.

Im no saint if i feel bitter towards anyone in my life its a few members of my family and a few friends who did shitty things...but men no.

 

[cocohot]

YES, they are. Tough, I am not so young anymore

This is what I wanted to know.

 

[EvilLocks]

I didn't mean to be rude, I was just asking an honest question about whether or not young women are really into older men? Like I said I hear completely conflicting things from women about this..

I'm 24 now and have been into older men since my late teens. Not really old men of course, but like 5-15 years older than me. I don't know what it is, but I just relate more to them and find them more attractive. Also, they make me feel younger, which is nice. I'm an old soul too, so I feel more connected to older people in general.

 

[EvilLocks]

YES, they are. Tough, I am not so young anymore

Time flies, Pas I've felt old ever since I hit the age of 23 lol.

 

[nameless]

No bitterness at all.

I don't have trouble attracting men my own age.

I don't think telling men to focus on how they look in night clubs is an accurate way to go about it--which was the point of the post i commented on. And i was surprised that someone in late 40s is focused on how he looks in nightclubs to rate his attractiveness to opposite sex.

I honestly have not experienced anything yet due to my age that is negative...only on this site do I hear the remarks or experience rudeness due to my age. Probably because you all have a picture in your mind of what 45 looks like so you react that way.

And if it does start to effect my life i doubt i will feel 'bitter' about it because i have had a good life and experiences.

Only person on this site who knows what i look like both now at 45 and also at 25 is @Pasbrillantebrunette who i shared photos with.

Keep in mind that I started losing my hair at 20 or therabouts.

My life of fun actually stopped by mid 20s. At the time hair loss started wrecking my fun I was mid 20s and having fun in the club scene. Of course those are my last memories of fun so if I got my hair back that is the scene I would head back to. I don't know how all that would play out. Maybe the clubs wouldn't be as much fun for me as they used to be. I don't know. I would like to have my hair back so I can find out.

If I get my hair back I figure I may quickly learn that I can't get away with the same stuff I used to get away with and then I would evolve to a more mature version of the person I used to be. And I could be happy with that.

I understand that hair can't make me look exactly like I did in my mid-20s because that's over 2 decades ago. But keep in mind that there is a promising, hard science effort to reverse the entire aging process in human beings, and I am in contact with the person working on that. And I promised pasbrilliantebrunette that I would let her know if I establish communication with that person and now would be a good time to tell pasbrilliantebrunette that I have. They are going to start paying attention for hair growth in their ongoing experiments to reverse the entire aging process.

 

[hairblues]

Keep in mind that I started losing my hair at 20 or therabouts.

My life of fun actually stopped by mid 20s. At the time hair loss started wrecking my fun I was mid 20s and having fun i the club scene and picking up chicks. Of course those are my last memories of fun so if I got my hair back that is the scene I would head back to. I don't know how all that would play out. Maybe I would not be as successful in the clubs as I used to be. I don't know. I would like to have my hair back so I can find out. Even if I can't get away with the same stuff I used to get away with I will still be able to have some laughs and fun. If I get my hair back I figure I may quickly learn that I can't get away with the same stuff I used to get away with and then I would evolve to a more mature version of the person I used to be. I could be happy with that.

But keep in mind that there is an effort to reverse the entire aging process in human beings and I am in text and email contact with the people working on it. They have already established some success in one human and they are proceeding forward. There could be really huge news about this in the next year or two.

nothing wrong with clubbing

I just did not agree with the 'how you look in night clubs' to rate self with women/men.

i would not do that any age and i definitely would not recommend that past 35.

Go hang and dance have fun.

I also don't think a lot of the men in their 20s on here who are incels. are out clubbing...I think 'incels' as they describe would find clubs socially difficult..not everyone here just talking about the guys who describe themselves as incels.

I think they do better with online dating over night clubs if they are introverted.