Yes, Women Care If Men Have A Good Set Of Hair

[Yakitori]

You hit the nail right on the head. We are not hanging around 'stupid bimbos'. We are hanging around classy, intelligent, motivated and independent women. Or at least we are trying to. A woman like that is very intelligent herself and has her own financial security. She doesn't need a man to provide those things. If we're being maximally cynical, then we'd say that the only reason that she needs a man is to help her have kids. And her kids need to be NW1 for life so no bald guys allowed... My experiences indicate that this is what happens and that this is the explanation. And whereabouts do you live? Over here, even the top 5 percent of earners under 30 struggle and certainly do not have the sports car life. Some might live with their family well into their 20s. You'd need to be top 2 percent.

Thankfully the women I've met who I've been attracted too have been complimenting people on intelligence, humor and creativity above all else. Even the most vain of them have usually cared more about the men's eyes and smile as far as looks goes... would they date a bald guy? Probably not, but I'm confident most of them wouldn't divorce someone because they are balding.

I live in Scandinavia and no, I do not own a sports car. I have a 2008 Volvo, decent for it's time and it gets me and other people from one spot to another in no spectacular fashion but it's not ancient in any way, no wind down window and stuff.

 

[Exodus2011]

Thankfully the women I've met who I've been attracted too have been complimenting people on intelligence, humor and creativity above all else. Even the most vain of them have usually cared more about the men's eyes and smile as far as looks goes... would they date a bald guy? Probably not, but I'm confident most of them wouldn't divorce someone because they are balding.

I live in Scandinavia and no, I do not own a sports car. I have a 2008 Volvo, decent for it's time and it gets me and other people from one spot to another in no spectacular fashion but it's not ancient in any way, no wind down window and stuff.

how do you know they wouldnt date a bald guy? also lol this post seemed like a feel good one up until this bolded part

 

[Yakitori]

how do you know they wouldnt date a bald guy? also lol this post seemed like a feel good one up until this bolded part

The more vain ones yes? Seems like a fair guess. 95% of the people I have been in conversation with or overheard talking about balding has been men.

My point is that I have known a woman who cares more about hair than anything like some people on here like to believe. They think the entire world is against them.

 

[uncomfortable man]

They think the entire world is against them.

With a condition as stigmatized as male pattern baldness, could you blame us for thinking so?

 

[Exodus2011]

With a condition as stigmatized as male pattern baldness, could you blame us for thinking so?

wats been going on with you?

 

[Panda89]

First time poster, but I just have to say that you sound really, really crazy (and I only repeat words for this effect rarely so that should tell you something). You can say what you want but it’s difficult for me to believe that this attitude doesn’t come out in your day to day life and that’s what causes your problems. I see young guys on Facebook that are bald quite frequently actually among my friends and they all look happy. I also know quite a few people who are doing well and are happy with their career despite being bald at a young age. It’s other things that bother me. You need to watch out for yourself here.

i've been binge reading the impact forum for the past week.. i'm all the way back to early 2016 (lol to much free time at work ) and trust me, he isn't the craziest sounding person you will find here.. here you will find people that sound exactly like elliot rodger in those videos that he made; people that absolutely despise women and nw0 guys who get all their women. people who call women shallow and evil for not loving them for who they are yet refusing to "settle" for overweight single moms. people who talk about girls like some "college frat bros" where they complain about not being able to sleep around because of their hair loss. generalize people with such hatred to a point where you have to believe these people must have some type of mental illness. like you said, this kind of attitude is kind of hard to go unnoticed.. people WILL feel something is off about you and the way you talk about things. i guess that's why i couldn't stop reading them, I have never lurked in any forum and i never knew how black and white things can be when you gather people that have similar issues/interest together on the internet.

 

[allofyouarecrazy]

i've been binge reading the impact forum for the past week.. i'm all the way back to early 2016 (lol to much free time at work ) and trust me, he isn't the craziest sounding person you will find here.. here you will find people that sound exactly like elliot rodger in those videos that he made; people that absolutely despise women and nw0 guys who get all their women. people who call women shallow and evil for not loving them for who they are yet refusing to "settle" for overweight single moms. people who talk about girls like some "college frat bros" where they complain about not being able to sleep around because of their hair loss. generalize people with such hatred to a point where you have to believe these people must have some type of mental illness. like you said, this kind of attitude is kind of hard to go unnoticed.. people WILL feel something is off about you and the way you talk about things. i guess that's why i couldn't stop reading them, I have never lurked in any forum and i never knew how black and white things can be when you gather people that have similar issues/interest together on the internet.

You’re right, but I just called him “really, really crazy” and not the craziest one on here. I know there are quite a few crazier posters lurking around here.. I’ve been reading this forum for a while now for the same reason you described. I find it amazing people have such black and white views, and some of the other views/attitudes I see on here are just unbelievable. It’s sort of addicting to read even if I don’t believe them myself. Seriously, step outside and open your eyes. I go to my job everyday and it’s so easy to remind myself this forum isn’t reality in the slightest. Sure, some people will make the random comment about baldness every once in a while but it’s typically always a guy and in the context of them trying to feel better about themselves.

 

[Panda89]

You’re right, but I just called him “really, really crazy” and not the craziest one on here. I know there are quite a few crazier posters lurking around here.. I’ve been reading this forum for a while now for the same reason you described. I find it amazing people have such black and white views, and some of the other views/attitudes I see on here are just unbelievable. It’s sort of addicting to read even if I don’t believe them myself. Seriously, step outside and open your eyes. I go to my job everyday and it’s so easy to remind myself this forum isn’t reality in the slightest. Sure, some people will make the random comment about baldness every once in a while but it’s typically always a guy and in the context of them trying to feel better about themselves.

honestly i think it has to be some type of illness but oh well. everyone grew up differently and can have their own view. i was severely impacted by hair loss as well to the point where i isolated myself. but i never held any hatred toward women (for years i didn't put myself in the position to meet them because of the lack of confidence from the sudden change of appearance) or other "full heads", as they like to call them; or convince myself that hair is life and without it my life is over. our skins all get thicker over the years under the impact of hair loss and we learn to adapt and accept our attractiveness is not what we want it to be. find someone that works for you and move on and continue to experience life. they love to say how IG make girls shallow and superficial.. well maybe the same thing can be said about them that want to be able to sleep with these hot chicks and blame hair loss for their lack of success. ugh, the whole attractive rating thing is so weird too, no one talks like that in real life. great forum though! a lot of great, funny members here too!

 

[doubleindemnity]

honestly i think it has to be some type of illness but oh well. everyone grew up differently and can have their own view. i was severely impacted by hair loss as well to the point where i isolated myself. but i never held any hatred toward women (for years i didn't put myself in the position to meet them because of the lack of confidence from the sudden change of appearance) or other "full heads", as they like to call them; or convince myself that hair is life and without it my life is over. our skins all get thicker over the years under the impact of hair loss and we learn to adapt and accept our attractiveness is not what we want it to be. find someone that works for you and move on and continue to experience life. they love to say how IG make girls shallow and superficial.. well maybe the same thing can be said about them that want to be able to sleep with these hot chicks and blame hair loss for their lack of success. ugh, the whole attractive rating thing is so weird too, no one talks like that in real life. great forum though! a lot of great, funny members here too!

I don't like being compared to these types. I never expressed any hatred towards women. The majority of women that I meet are cool and fun to be around. I'm not going to turn around and say bad things about them when they decided not to date me because of my hair. I liked them initially and still think that they are cool, but am unhappy with their decision. But what I'm stating are, as far as my experiences can explain, the facts. That's life as a NW6. Have you or the first time poster ever lived it?

 

[Exodus2011]

I don't like being compared to these types. I never expressed any hatred towards women. The majority of women that I meet are cool and fun to be around. I'm not going to turn around and say bad things about them when they decided not to date me because of my hair. I liked them initially and still think that they are cool, but am unhappy with their decision. But what I'm stating are, as far as my experiences can explain, the facts. That's life as a NW6. Have you or the first time poster ever lived it?

yea. also being obese and a single mom are choices. being bald isnt. really f*****g annoyed that i have to explain that yet again

 

[Panda89]

I don't like being compared to these types. I never expressed any hatred towards women. The majority of women that I meet are cool and fun to be around. I'm not going to turn around and say bad things about them when they decided not to date me because of my hair. I liked them initially and still think that they are cool, but am unhappy with their decision. But what I'm stating are, as far as my experiences can explain, the facts. That's life as a NW6. Have you or the first time poster ever lived it?

i was referring to the other posters that i've read for the past week on the impact forum. and no, what you stated aren't facts, those are your opinions. and how things are perceived to you can drastically change when you change your outlook, thus changing your opinion on the matter. stop focusing on any lack of success with girls, stop dwelling on it. i get it, it's hard because i hid in my bubble for years. but we either have to find a way to walk out of our shell of misery, or we accept the fact that what we have life is all life has to offer. if you don't stop comparing yourself to other people on something you have ZERO control over, you will drown in misery. get up and do something differently, it may not be today, but it can start tomorrow, or the next day. we are all on this forum to find a way to cope with hair loss

 

[Panda89]

yea. also being obese and a single mom are choices. being bald isnt. really f*****g annoyed that i have to explain that yet again

i was using overweight single moms as an example on how bald guys on this forum can be just as shallow. i'm not trying to get into that contest where we figure out who's got it worse.

 

[Yakitori]

i was using overweight single moms as an example on how bald guys on this forum can be just as shallow. i'm not trying to get into that contest where we figure out who's got it worse.

Who's got it worse is pretty apparent, no need to discuss tbh.

 

[doubleindemnity]

i was referring to the other posters that i've read for the past week on the impact forum. and no, what you stated aren't facts, those are your opinions. and how things are perceived to you can drastically change when you change your outlook, thus changing your opinion on the matter. stop focusing on any lack of success with girls, stop dwelling on it. i get it, it's hard because i hid in my bubble for years. but we either have to find a way to walk out of our shell of misery, or we accept the fact that what we have life is all life has to offer. if you don't stop comparing yourself to other people on something you have ZERO control over, you will drown in misery. get up and do something differently, it may not be today, but it can start tomorrow, or the next day. we are all on this forum to find a way to cope with hair loss

I appreciate the sentiment but that's just optimistic abstract mumbo jumbo in my opinion. What specifically can bald guys like the people on here do if they want to get married and have children? I may be misunderstanding your post but are you suggesting that we should just not worry about it and live a life that doesn't depend on that? They're opinions shaped by my experiences. Therefore they're all I know and that's why I state them as facts. If I begin to have success as a NW6 or if I personally witness any NW6 in a similar situation to me have success, then these opinions will change. Up until then, I can't imagine a NW6 in my age and demographic being able to get married or have children because I have never personally seen it done in the last 5 years, by myself or anybody else.

 

[Panda89]

Who's got it worse is pretty apparent, no need to discuss tbh.

of course not. we all know the consensus on a hair loss forum. no one here is a poor single mom who needs to take care of a child that needs their constant care and undivided attention while also having to work multiple jobs to provide for her kid. who probably eats like trash and survive on fast foods because of her situation and is probably treated like a burden and used for sex by every man they try to date. yes yes they made their choices on giving birth to a child and being fat and they totally deserve it. again, it's not a contest.. each person's suffering is subjective. if it makes you feel better by downplaying other's suffering, by all means be my guest. some single fat moms killed themselves, some found happiness. it's the same for balding men too.

 

[Panda89]

I appreciate the sentiment but that's just optimistic abstract mumbo jumbo in my opinion. What specifically can bald guys like the people on here do if they want to get married and have children? I may be misunderstanding your post but are you suggesting that we should just not worry about it and live a life that doesn't depend on that? They're opinions shaped by my experiences. Therefore they're all I know and that's why I state them as facts. If I begin to have success as a NW6 or if I personally witness any NW6 in a similar situation to me have success, then these opinions will change. Up until then, I can't imagine a NW6 in my age and demographic being able to get married or have children because I have never personally seen it done in the last 5 years, by myself or anybody else.

the reason i decided to comment on this was because i was watching pregnancy reveal videos on youtube, and one husband was slick bald. i mean clean shaven and he isn't a good looking dude. when he found out he was gonna have a kid i thought about how people on the forum talked about not passing their shitty genes to their kids. but this guy was over the moon while some people here are making each other feel even more hopeless. the bitterness and resentment can get so unhealthy here it's crazy sometimes. what i wanted to get across was.. dont stress things we can't control and feel sorry for ourselves. i started balding at 19 too and it too destroyed my confidence for years. i'm not here to downplay your misery, im not. but if you think i don't deserve to have an opinion on the matter because i'm not nw6, that's fine too. but i know that no one can sustain being this miserable forever. make a change or wither in depression


edit: a word

 

[doubleindemnity]

the reason i decided to comment on this was because i was watching pregnancy reveal videos on youtube, and one husband was slick bald. i mean clean shaven and he isn't a good looking dude. when he found out he was gonna have a kid i thought about how people on the forum talked about not passing their shitty genes to their kids. but this guy was over the moon while some people here are making each other feel even more hopeless. the bitterness and resentment can get so unhealthy here it's crazy sometimes. what i wanted to get across was.. dont stress things we can't control and feel sorry for ourselves. i started balding at 19 too and it too destroyed my confidence for years. i'm not here to downplay your misery, im not. but if you think i don't deserve to have an opinion on the matter because i'm nw6, that's fine too. but i know that no one can sustain being this miserable forever. make a change or wither in depression

So you're NW6 too? Well then you have to tell us about your experiences. Are they like mine or more positive? The upshot of my experiences is that whether you're confident or not, you won't have any success (based on my experiences). So a bald guy who went through the same phases we did of losing and regaining their confidence are just in for another world of hurt when they release their confident self. I absolutely want to have a kid; I've always wanted to be a father and I think that's perfectly normal and reasonable. I am withering in depression and I don't know what changes I can make. I do all of the usual crap...exercising, meditating, gratitude, reading etc. etc. None of it helps because I know what I need and it seems like I'll never achieve it. My last shot is to take a chance on a course for people with depression.

 

[allofyouarecrazy]

So you're NW6 too? Well then you have to tell us about your experiences. Are they like mine or more positive? The upshot of my experiences is that whether you're confident or not, you won't have any success (based on my experiences). So a bald guy who went through the same phases we did of losing and regaining their confidence are just in for another world of hurt when they release their confident self. I absolutely want to have a kid; I've always wanted to be a father and I think that's perfectly normal and reasonable. I am withering in depression and I don't know what changes I can make. I do all of the usual crap...exercising, meditating, gratitude, reading etc. etc. None of it helps because I know what I need and it seems like I'll never achieve it. My last shot is to take a chance on a course for people with depression.

How old are you?

 

[Yakitori]

of course not. we all know the consensus on a hair loss forum. no one here is a poor single mom who needs to take care of a child that needs their constant care and undivided attention while also having to work multiple jobs to provide for her kid. who probably eats like trash and survive on fast foods because of her situation and is probably treated like a burden and used for sex by every man they try to date. yes yes they made their choices on giving birth to a child and being fat and they totally deserve it. again, it's not a contest.. each person's suffering is subjective. if it makes you feel better by downplaying other's suffering, by all means be my guest. some single fat moms killed themselves, some found happiness. it's the same for balding men too.

Except we can't do anything about it.

 

[Exodus2011]

i was using overweight single moms as an example on how bald guys on this forum can be just as shallow. i'm not trying to get into that contest where we figure out who's got it worse.

its not being shallow lol. being fat and a single mom are both choices that say a lot about her personality. if you had said girls with an ugly face or something then you would have a point