You should have seen her face expression.

[superfrankie]

This is the way I see it: She was a young 21 year old girl and in her world only guys with NW1:s exists. If you are around her age and you have no hair then something must be wrong with you (that would explain the "are you sick" question).

 

[HairPieceMan]

Attack is the best defense. Moron status does not allow her to say anything she wants as well as any other status. I can't understand why somebody has to suffer all this sh*t without hitting back just to stay polite...

Why stay polite, its not what they asked for or deserved in the first place. Being polite is strictly conditional. I wouldnt go as far as hitting back at mentally handicapped people (like autism or cerebral palsy), but the overall moron-types are not included. These people have no excuse.

Its pretty hard to always get the question "what has happened to your hair?" eventually, when meeting girls. The majority are just curious and ask politely and that`s fine but deep down I feel a little less human regardless. Its pretty hard to get into a social interaction and almost always get a question like that eventually. I believe that is why I tend to alienate myself from new people, but the conclusion is still that Im not strong enough to cope with it in every situation.

Yeah I don't get why people ask this, I don't see why a girl would ask this in a club, i mean she must be AWARE of other bald people, and that people lose their hair genetically, does she ask every bald man this question? lol

and yeah on the 21 thing but is shes a girl in a club she sees other bald guys so i mean outside high school if you step into a bar/club at 19 with clean shaved head you look similar to 29 with clean shaved head so the question makes no sense, but maybe if you were short, very pale and VERY young looking liek baby face or E.T. type look i could understand that.

b**ch should still die tho lol

 

[superfrankie]

Yeah I don't get why people ask this, I don't see why a girl would ask this in a club, i mean she must be AWARE of other bald people, and that people lose their hair genetically, does she ask every bald man this question? lol

Its a mystery but believe it or not Ive been given this question before from men (teenagers mostly). I guess the reason can be that they cant believe it is possible for a guy in his early twenties to loose practically all his hair and therefore they think I must be suffering from cancer. Just a theory.

and yeah on the 21 thing but is shes a girl in a club she sees other bald guys so i mean outside high school if you step into a bar/club at 19 with clean shaved head you look similar to 29 with clean shaved head so the question makes no sense, but maybe if you were short, very pale and VERY young looking liek baby face or E.T. type look i could understand that.

Im 185 cm tall, have beard stubble, Im in good physical shape and no baby face, trust me.

b**ch should still die tho lol

:innocent:

 

[CaptainForehead]

I dont know imagine if someone said that to Vin Diesel/Kelly Slater ect and they went into attack mode about it they'd look like insecure b****s, /quote]

+1
If I overheard superfrankie's conversation, I would assume that he was an insecure ....I would not say anything, but thats what I would be thinking. And I'm sure a lot of other people would think that too (ESPECIALLY since they are not bald).

Just FYI superfrankie.

 

[superfrankie]

Showing you get affected is most of the time a sign of insecurity, but there is a big difference between start yelling and stuff and make a sourish counterattack and then smile and walk away.

If I called a black guy a f*****g ******** or an ape, I bet 100 % of them would react, does that mean all of them are insecure about being black? If soo Samuel Etoó must be the most insecure in the world. He is insecure because he cant stand hundreds of people humilating him in a football match.

If someone come up to you, when you are bald and call you a chemo patient, and you react and make a counterattack, does that mean you are insecure about being bald?

The way I see it, if you swallow everything all the time, youre a wussbag to yourself and dont stand up for yourself enough. There is a principle of self-respect involved here.

 

[s.a.f]

If I called a black guy a f****ing ****** or an ape, I bet 100 % of them would react, does that mean all of them are insecure about being black?

Not really the same thing as a girl asking if theres a reason why you lost your hair.

 

[CaptainForehead]

If I called a black guy a f****ing ****** or an ape, I bet 100 % of them would react, does that mean all of them are insecure about being black?

Not really the same thing as a girl asking if theres a reason why you lost your hair.

They can't control their skin color anymore than we can control our hair loss, yet we both may be judged or ridiculed by some for it.

If you are ridiculed for being bald, then go for the jugular, but if someone ASKS about your hairloss..you think that is on the same level as making racist comments?

Wow.

 

[uncomfortable man]

In my experience, I find people like to hide comments within a question to make it sound less offensive.

 

[bluesprings]

Good for you for standing up to her. People need to know that its not alright to ridicule someone because of baldness. I wish I could think of comebacks that quickly.

 

[TravisB]

Hmm but what would he actually say if she had big tits It would be ridiculous to say this to big titted b**ch. And what else could a girl lack physically if not tits?

 

[uncomfortable man]

Then in that case the best way to deal with that situation is to give her some brief canned response that has nothing to do with her question (to show that your not listening) all the while never taking your eyes off her tits. She will get offended and you will get a juicy image to jerk off to later.

 

[TravisB]

Yeah, you should stare at them so long that they'll be burned into your retinas :mrgreen:

 

[uncomfortable man]

But I'm glad to see the consensus here is to stick up for yourself in these situations. I think that part of society assumes that we will just lie down and take it because they consider us inferior. We have to make them realize that although we don't fit their criteria for what makes a human being that we are still infact just that human f*****g beings with lifelike emotions.

 

[seb]

Bald people are not human,we are a genetic mutation,a mistake,in other words sub-human.

 

[s.a.f]

This has been brought up many times before and as someone on here once posted, it is possible that a woman will test a guys attitude by mentioning it and seeing how he handles the response.

If he is able to just laugh it off or respond in a way that says he's not bothered by it or shows confidence he passes the test if he gets mad and throws a tantrum or sulks like a child then he fails.

 

[sylent]

This has been brought up many times before and as someone on here once posted, it is possible that a woman will test a guys attitude by mentioning it and seeing how he handles the response.

If he is able to just laugh it off or respond in a way that says he's not bothered by it or shows confidence he passes the test if he gets mad and throws a tantrum or sulks like a child then he fails.

Female Reactions:

Guy is not offended, laughs - Oh, guess it doesnt bother him. Still ugly though.
Guy seems offended - What a pussy, she wants no part of him
Guy completley owns her - She's shocked, proceeded by wanting to ride his c***.

 

[bluesprings]

Hmm but what would he actually say if she had big tits It would be ridiculous to say this to big titted b**ch. And what else could a girl lack physically if not tits?

Then you just comment about her weight. It doesn't even matter if she isn't overweight because women are nutty about it. Just about any type of comment about their appearance will upset them. You'd be surprised how many women are self conscious about having big breasts as well.

 

[s.a.f]

Then you just comment about her weight. It doesn't even matter if she isn't overweight because women are nutty about it. Just about any type of comment about their appearance will upset them. You'd be surprised how many women are self conscious about having big breasts as well.

And therefore make a stereotype in the minds of all women that all bald men are arseholes. - nice one! :doh: