you guys pick the most extreme exception to the rule to try to prove your point. For every women who is willing to date a guy who is far less physically attractive than herself, there are at least 50 not so physically attractive guys who'd give their left nut to be her boyfriend. Some women don't know they can do better, but they learn quickly when other guys see them together and think they have a chance of getting her.
I'm not even going to argue this. You guys can do what you want. Think women don't care much about appearance, or do what you can to improve yours. But when I look around at all the couples on campus, 9 out of 10 are very evenly matched. I don't see hot people dating average people. And the few times that you see it, you don't know if their relationship is even that physical. Maybe he just buys her dinner all the time and is luck to get sex once a week. It is your life, but I'm going to fix myself up. Yeah, my girlfriend says she likes me, but that does not mean she won't dump me later when a hotter guy hits on her. I plan to fix myself before that happens.