Let's Say Hair Loss Is "cured" In 2018, How Will You Look Back Upon Your Balding Years

[hanginginthewire]

If a cure or super effective treatment for hair loss emerges, how do you think you will view your balding/bald years? Does what doesn't kill you make you stronger? Will it teach you that hope springs eternal and never to give up? Will you look back in anger like Oasis? Will you be embittered over lost time? Well, you get the drift. How do you think you will feel, if we are ever so lucky as to be in this position...,

 

[Xander94]

When its ogre its f*****g ogre

 

[Stanx22]

Hair loss is not a hardship, it a torture. Look at this forum for example, many of us are bitter, frustrated and angry because of hair loss. Hair loss does slowly rid you out of your identity, your old self and your appearance and then it will rid you out of your personality. Hair transplant or you're fucked. And if a cure is released, no matter how expensive it is, everyone will try their hardest to get it. I bet some people will even sell their houses and cars to get it because hair is priceless. And after they do that, they will curse the years when they had hair loss.

 

[Stanx22]

@WhitePolarBear Why do you dislike everything ? I've seen most of the old threads and how you were talking about the importance of hair, but after you had your transplant, then hair is not that important anymore ? Anyways you were already a 6'3, handsome guy, so try being a 5'8, skinny beta with girly frame and average face and see what would you do.

 

[Stanx22]

What are hardships if not torture, pain, suffering for something (that you think to be) out of your control?

About the bolded part, we've already been over this on this forum, and you're wrong, people won't do that.

A 5/10 man with hair will be 2/10 without hair, so his hair is the last thing that makes him look normal to fit in. Take Dante for example and how is mocked and an outcast because of his looks. You think if he had a chance to get his hair back even for all of his money, he would refuse it ? Of course if he was born 9/10 and his looks went down to 6 or something he'd be content with it, but you're saying that having money is more important than being normal again ?

 

[Stanx22]

I'm just saying that no, it's not realistic to think that people will drown themselves in debt to get their hair back.

They're just saying that, but trust me, when Tsuji comes out and it costs like 100000€, they won't do that.

I saw some people here saying they would sacrifice a leg or something to get their hair back and you think that being in debt is that hard and would stop them ?

 

[Stanx22]

Ah, slayersplaining again.

We all have our flaws, I'm not handsome, and I am skinny, beta-faced.

And I'm far, far from a full head of hair.

Yeah we all have flaws, but there's a difference between having a flaw or two and having +10 flaws, i counted mine and i have 15, some fixable and most aren't. And besides hair loss gene, your other genes are better than 85% of the male population. I would even be happy if i were you and slick bald. Just think about it, you'd still be more attractive than me even if you're bald and i have hair, now imagine how would i look when i'm bald.

 

[Stanx22]

In theory, it's plausible, but in practice...

If in 2025, I tell my girlfriend (or wife): "I'll spend 75000€ so I can have some more hair! Forget about our life, our travels, the restaurants, our house, our kids' future, no my hair! That's what matters!"... She'd slap me in the face, and she would be right to do so.

This is for people who have a life, of course, if you're at the end of your tether and you think your hair loss is preventing you from having a life (mostly delusional BS of course), then why not? But if you have no life, no achievements, no skills, no job, how the hell are you going to make all that money anyway? How will you convince a bank to give you a loan?

You're not thinking this through.

I'm not talking about you or people like you, i'm talking about the 2/10 people who will never even have a girlfriend to discuss things with. You're right, if i were you i would never even give a f*** about a cure or being bald, but unfortunately, i'm not like you. Hair loss will completely destroy my existence till my death because i have nothing to compensate with. Besides, you had a transplant anyways, so there's no need for a cure to you. As for me, i'm ready to sacrifice my arm or leg to have a hair forever.

 

[Stanx22]

I can understand how you feel.

If I could not have that hair transplant (and 2 surgeons actually turned me down), I would not have the life I have today.

You need some hair to start living. Some hair = Not being a diffuse NW3 or worse.

If you're not above a thick NW3, you should know that you're currently overreacting.

Nothing's stopping you from living the life you want, you can worry about your NW3+ future when you get there.

I'm thinning NW2, but i'm 17. I'm like you, will be bald at 21 or something. My problem isn't just with genetics, i'm an outcast and hated more than Donald Trump and those who don't hate me, just ignore me. I'll never have friends no matter how hard i try because i don't fit in or know how to socialize, so i have to be completely alone for like 60 years. Imagine being with no social life, no one to talk to, nothing to do for 60 years straight and then you die in your bed alone without anyone noticing or giving a sh*t and then your neighbors discover that you've died after they smell your rotten, dead body.

Hair + Perfect genes = A perfect, fabulous life
Hair + Average genes = a good life.
Hair + Shitty genes = a harder life than average.
Bald + Perfect genes = a good life.
Bald + Shitty genes = A suicidal, painful existence.

 

[Stanx22]

You can start to learn all this right now, you just have to get out of the house.

Start by approaching 10 women a day. @shookwun will be your instructor.

Why do you dislike me for no reason ? I didn't lie and you don't know how i was treated by everyone and bullied and abused. And i'm not an idiot to approach women as a genetic trash and i don't blame women here, it's natural and healthy to stay away from freaks like me.

 

[Stanx22]

Because you're saying nonsense.

You act like people out there are monster waiting to tear you apart, it's BS.

Start talking to people, find friends.

If it's that easily why would i choose to be an outcast ? I've been trying for 5 years with all kinds of people and i've tried everything and changed myself for 5000 times because being myself disgusts them. Some people are just not accepted by society because they're very different or their personality doesn't click with everyone and i have to accept that and deal with it.

 

[Stanx22]

@WhitePolarBear Seriously dude you have something against me or some sh*t. No one dislikes someone that much, even if they're saying something they don't agree with. Is it because i'm a terrorist Arab trash ? Or because i remind you of how you was before you got your transplant ?

 

[Stanx22]

Of course I have something against you, I'm the good-looking oppressor and you're my ugly victim!

Come on now, I had forgotten that you were Arab. Oh yes, it's also because I'm the white oppressor and you're the Arab victim!

You're saying more nonsense. No you're not doomed to a life of loneliness if you're willing to do what it takes, properly.

And no, you won't fool me with your victim narrative, some of the ugliest and weirdest (sometimes both) people I know have friends.

Now sort yourself out, talk to people, and find friends just like everyone out there. Victim.

Yeah nothing better than staying at home 24/7 and having no one to talk to. If you know the slightest sh*t about loneliness, you'd know that no one ever will choose it. Tell me how many times you were talking to a group of people and they completely ignored you or didn't respond even online ? Tell me how many times you were mocked and laughed at for being a weirdo or social awkward when you didn't do any sh*t ? Tell me how many "years" you were bullied and abused by everyone because you had no one to defend you ? Tell me how many years have you lived without finding someone to talk to, so instead you talked to yourself ? You know nothing about loneliness or what hard life means, the hardest thing ever happened to you was your hair loss and you solved the problem, hair loss is just one of my dozens problems. Switch places for just one day and you'll know what real pain feels like.

 

[Stanx22]

But that's the whole point. They don't know ANYTHING about it, how miserable you're treated, how women look at you in disgust and your peers mock you, forcing you to live like a recluse.

Yeah man i'm tired of hearing tips and bullshit from people who don't know anything about hard life or pain. And they don't even advice you wisely, they blame you for your shitty life.

 

[That Guy]

If a cure or super effective treatment for hair loss emerges, how do you think you will view your balding/bald years?

"Those were the shittiest two years of my life."

and also further cementing how important appearance is.

 

[Stanx22]

And basically mock you or rub their "success" ("better genes) in your face to boost their ego and feel better about themselves. They don't give a f*** about you or givig you sincere advice, their intent is far from it.

They're delusional beyond imagination, there's no point in having a discussion them. Just one week in our shoes and they'd be suicidal.

 

[Stanx22]

Many times to all the questions above.

Don't you think for one second that I don't know anything about loneliness, being mocked for my awkwardness, or being bullied because I was too nice?

This post is full of hate, resentment, and misplaced arrogance.

I know nothing about loneliness and having a hard life? That's a f*****g lie.

If it's a lie then maybe answer the questions ? And all of your posts you were talking about having friends at university even when you were bald.

 

[Stanx22]

Hey guys give Mr.Fred a prize for disliking every post without responding to it because he doesn't have any sh*t to say.

 

[Stanx22]

You know, i have nothing to do all day and i'm a stubborn "kid", so how about trolling you and disliking every single post you've made and give you more than 5000 dislikes or something ?

 

[Guzam]

If a cure or super effective treatment for hair loss emerges, how do you think you will view your balding/bald years? Does what doesn't kill you make you stronger? Will it teach you that hope springs eternal and never to give up? Will you look back in anger like Oasis? Will you be embittered over lost time? Well, you get the drift. How do you think you will feel, if we are ever so lucky as to be in this position...,

Balding taught me a very valuable lesson in life: like any other complex animal, us humans consider looks extremely important in the human society and human environment. People like good looking people and dislike bad looking people. This is simple yet true like a dogma.
In other words, balding taught me that looks are life, and if you have no hair or thin, weak, see through and norwooding hair, you already lost because hair is a key component in human looks. Key in the sense that it's necessary to live a fullfilling social life.

Want to have the opportunity to approach and befriend all kind of women for any purpose, not necessarily sexual?
Want to have a client based, networking heavy, handsomely remunerated, fullfilling career in a competitive environment?
Want to have the attention of your peers, and a genuinely large social circle which invites you at parties and events of any kind?

Simple: look good. Not necessarily handsome, just good. Good in the sense that if I take a pic or a video of you, you'll look good in it.
Good in the sense of well dressed, well mannered, confident and youthful looking and smiling.

If you're bald, you lost in advance. I experience first hand the downgrading of balding on the quality of life of a young man.

Man that's even worse than torture.

We humans are mammals like monkeys, dogs, cats, you name it. I hope you'll never see how dogs and cats treat the fellow animals which are losing their fur, because it's heart breaking. We humans have reason and intelligence: we know that balding people are not to be avoided at all costs, but our instinct is there to remind us that balding = no good in nature.

Looks have a high importance in individual-to-individual and individual-to-society relationships of any kind.
Balding takes your looks and violently trashes them. The bald life is a life of cope and bitterness and most importantly, of lost opportunities.

One rule: try all you can to not get bald, because once you inevitably are, it's game over.