First, you have to keep in mind that your hair is really not so bad. I'm pretty sure you have more hair than I do currently, do not get impatient, you will make errors.
Secondly, we have the exact same story. Try to read a little bit this whole thread, I too was on minoxidil for some years with poor results before starting finasteride. Minoxidil alone is useless for young people with male pattern baldness like us, an anti-androgen is essential if you want your hair to improve and one month on finasteride is far from enough.
Here is what I advise you to do :
- Stay on finasteride and minoxidil for at least 8 months before changing anything (but you can and should add dermarolling, vitamins etc... to your regimen)
-After that if you're not satisfied start dutasteride
-If after 8 months of dutasteride you're still not satisfied, start seeking information about hair transplants.
For now if you don't like your hair try your best to make it the nicest possible for example use concealers and speak to your hair dresser to find a hair cut that you like and that hide the fact that you're loosing hair... but really, I know it's very hard, but dont overthink it and get impatient.