@OP:
I know it is easier said than done, but I'm going to go ahead with my little speech anyway. Depression, stress or whatever you want to call it is between our two ears. So, our biggest enemy is not balding (which we can do little about), but the way we perceive it (which is entirely up to us). Sounds cliché, but that's exactly how it is.
I have been registered on this forum for already 8 years. I started balding probably when I was 18, noticed it when I was 20, stopped denying and started the "treatment" and joined this website when I was 21. So, I have a pretty long track record of balding. Does it make me happy? No. Does it stop me from living? No! I was devasted back when I joined this website, but I have moved on. Life goes on whether we want it or not. So, my word of advice to you: don't dwell on what you can can't change and enjoy what you have right now and here, your precious life.
My life changed after I got busy. After joining this forum, I got two degrees, travelled all the continents and numerous countries, and found a beautiful girl who doesn't mind that I am balding. You need to stay busy with other things in life to be happy. Balding will not stop you from doing anything, unless your ambition is to be a model for Head & Shoulders. I am a pretty ugly bastard with a McDonald's hairline and a weak chin, but I have a 10-star girlfriend. I have a good life, because I appreciate it. I have good relations, because I don't let my flaws drag me down. Find your passions mate and don't spend your days on HairLossTalk.com. Do come check in every now and then to see if anything has changed, but don't make it your obsession.
Right now, the best we can do is to just hope (non-obsessively) that there will be something out there soon enough. So far, the magical cure has always been 5 years away from now, but we all know that one of these days this 5 years will really arrive. Meanwhile, live your life, buddy. It is quite precious to be alive and healthy.