Analysis: How Bald/Short/Meek/Ethnic men fare on the Bachelorette

[Norwood One]

I agree, that's all there is to it.

I just wish there wasn't so much misinformation about women, what they want and who they truly are.

You'll hear around you that women are more emotionally intelligent, more empathetic, more mature, that they can do no wrong.

The more experience you acquire with them, the more you realize it's all nonsense, mostly defended by men who don't know women.

It's funny, it's often women themselves that will tell you how cruel women can be, and how you need to be careful. But of course they'll also tell you that they're the exception.

I hate talking about women with men who have little to no experience with them, as they'll usually tell me I'm a misogynist.

The rare men who have extensive experience with them, they know. It's easy to have an ideal image of women when you've not dealt much with them.

If I hadn't lost my hair at such a young age, I would still be clueless and blue-pill. I would believe that it was my personality and awesome game brah that attracted women.

Not many men agree because they're still believing what they were taught their entire life. It takes a rude wakeup call (sometimes many times over with multiple women) for them to believe something that might just have been a made up fairy tale of unconditional love and acceptance. Life doesnt work that way. Maybe back in the day when there were severe sanctions for both women and men for ruining marriages or sleeping around.

Nowadays its comically easy. Remove the punishment or negative consequences, and women will sleep with the best guy that makes them horny, regardless of you being a nice guy or being with them through thick and thin. Works the same for men too.

 

[buckthorn]

Then all women suck.

Had a date last night with a girl who was 24 and had never been more than a month in a relationship. She said she was very demanding... despite being as interesting as a rock. She just sat there having nothing funny or of substance to say, just the most colorless platitudes.

It's always the most boring women who think they deserve someone exceptional. She also hinted that I wasn't ambitious enough and that I was lazy because I wouldn't aim for a more prestigious job.

well, I think we can both agree there is an age difference between us, and that plays a very big role in women's expectations. I am 34. Either women drastically drop their expectations, haven't found someone because they will eternally have ridiculous expectations and will end up alone, or they have realized that a life with a "decent" looking, super solid man is the way to go. After 30-32ish, expectations change. I will not be attractive forever, especially with losing my hair. I also have wrinkles and some grey beard hairs starting to develop. I do consider myself well polished in the other aspects of life though. I noticed that even with these diminishing physical features, younger, very attractive women still flirt with me. Don't know how long that will last.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

well, I think we can both agree there is an age difference between us, and that plays a very big role in women's expectations. I am 34. Either women drastically drop their expectations, haven't found someone because they will eternally have ridiculous expectations and will end up alone, or they have realized that a life with a "decent" looking, super solid man is the way to go. After 30-32ish, expectations change. I will not be attractive forever, especially with losing my hair. I also have wrinkles and some grey beard hairs starting to develop. I do consider myself well polished in the other aspects of life though. I noticed that even with these diminishing physical features, younger, very attractive women still flirt with me. Don't know how long that will last.

Enjoy it man, it sucks to never be flirted with. I'm in my early 30s too.

 

[F2005]

Not a housewife I would want. Fuhk the bachelor, jerk off to real p**rn. I mean you could be a back alley bj hound like shuk.... always chasin that tail (because hes got it like that) but there comes a point where you realize it just isnt worth it to jump through hoops and put up with so much bullshist when you can squiz one out real quick and then go be productive.

I actually cant wait for the time when sex dolls become more commonplace to the point where most guys use them to replace real women. Imagine how collectively miffed all women would be if men everywhere just stoped chasing them? It would be great... and well deserved on their part.

Oh yeah, absolutely. I've been saying this for a long time. Today's women exhibit such bad behavior, act like b****s, and say insanely stupid sh*t because they know that many guys will overlook all of it as long as they have a shot of getting in their pants. Fred says how you can get a beautiful Eastern European woman for 40 euro, which is just unreal to me (in a good way). Prostitutes in the States cost way more. But if the day ever came where prostitution that cheap was widespread, it would really take today's entitled women off of their pedestals. Guys would just pay for a cheap thrill instead of putting up with all of today's women's insane bullsh*t just for some occasional sex. Those really would be the days. Some attention wh*** would post some revealing selfie on facebook and no one would give a solid f*ck.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

They'll never realize how ugly/or not you are. Just give them lots of alcohol.

If that doesn't work, slip them a sedative or two. Worked for Roman Polanski..

That's not funny.

 

[Roberto_72]

Nowadays its comically easy. Remove the punishment or negative consequences, and women will sleep with the best guy that makes them horny, regardless of you being a nice guy or being with them through thick and thin. Works the same for men too.

Also consider that women follow fashions and trends more readily than men. So, if "society" suggests, in this day and age, that they should have fun with the hottest men around regardless of the consequences, as an edonistic act, they will do it even though in the back of their minds they are thinking "this can't end well". It has to be done and reported to envious friends on whatsapp.

 

[resu]

I did post a study sometime ago which stated exactly this, if the man is significant taller than the female it will result in longer happier relationships. The examples posted here, the manly looking tall guys didn't get dumped, what a surprise!

 

[xetudor]

She also hinted that I wasn't ambitious enough and that I was lazy because I wouldn't aim for a more prestigious job.

This is ridiculous. Why don't people understand that society needs a lot of jobs? Cleaning the streets may no be prestigious for some but we'd be all walking though garbage if it weren't for people doing that job.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I picked my job based on the feeling I had at my interview. The managers were really nice and laid back. I know I will never have a burnout at my job, quite the opposite.

She said: "Yeah but you're still only 'job title', don't you want more out of life?" Oh yes, I want to be like her, on the brink of a burnout!

And it's my very first job, to her I should already be a manager. So many people can't keep realistic expectations these days.

"My dream job! My dream boyfriend! etc." Try to get and keep a boyfriend first sweetheart.

I think ambition makes sense in a job like mine, I'm an astronomer, I discover things. To be ambitious means to want to discover more things. The same is true of any useful job rather than the fake jobs made by capitalism. For example if you're a police detective, to be ambitious means to want to solve more crime rather than giving out more parking tickets. That's a good, noble moral.

She works some sort of corporate marketing job. I don't see the value of being ambitious there.

Anyway I think you do have some ambition Fred, based on your posts. You don't have ambition to create more profit for corporations that employ you but genuinely don't give a **** about you and would piss you down the drain the moment it benefited them; but it seems you want to be a father in the next few years. It's a different kind of ambition. It's your priorities that are different.

 

[xetudor]

She said: "Yeah but you're still only 'job title', don't you want more out of life?"

All I'm hearing is "I'm better than you".

 

[Dante92]

I don't know in what then, she did the same studies (communication) and chose a job in a field I ran away from (PR/Marketing).

Other than that, she had nothing interesting to say, she was not one bit funny, she never travelled, had no culture, she was also plain-looking...

But hey, she deserves a perfect guy! She also said she was only 24 and that she had plenty of time to find the one... She will be in for a bad surprise in a few years.

That basically sums up the "mentality" of the majority of women.

 

[blackg]

But hey, she deserves a perfect guy! She also said she was only 24 and that she had plenty of time to find the one... She will be in for a bad surprise in a few years.

True. Time has a habit of creeping up and biting us on the ***.

 

[winnyblues]

True. Time has a habit of creeping up and biting us on the ***.

Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain.
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today.
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you.
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun.

 

[shookwun]

I picked my job based on the feeling I had at my interview. The managers were really nice and laid back. I know I will never have a burnout at my job, quite the opposite.

She said: "Yeah but you're still only 'job title', don't you want more out of life?" Oh yes, I want to be like her, on the brink of a burnout!

And it's my very first job, to her I should already be a manager. So many people can't keep realistic expectations these days.

"My dream job! My dream boyfriend! etc." Try to get and keep a boyfriend first sweetheart.

Should of turned her into a submissive sl*t and just did her doggy back at your pad, and let her know your credentials in the process.


I love how deluded people are on the job market though and their over all expectations thinking they will start at a high paying job. News flash: Nobody owes you anything, and you will start at the bottom of the barrel, and crawl up.


Chicks like this are so up in their ***, they won't even know it until they are in there 30s still working a menial paper shuffling job thinking they will make it.


its girls like this that think guys like me who work in the trades must be poor, and uneducated... because after all i'm blue collar right? A guy who works in an office wearing a wrinkly unfitted shirt and tie from target must make more then a guy in coveralls! :laugh:

 

[shookwun]

Story of my life. The famous 'i will get back to you' I swear 70% of the time they never follow up.

that's where I formed my three strike rule. After that I dont bother, and let them come to me if they are interested.




Girls in North America ghost. lucky to have them follow up even.


it's true though, the caliber of your looks will determine everything. it's hard to accept but having a better career, status, and looks is the only way to guarantee her to be your submissive little pup. Someone who looks for attention, and wants to impresss you.



if you are not better looking then her it will be a fight to maintain attraction, and get together. Absolute waste of time in that regard....

remember when shes 'seeing you' / semi-dating but not official she is still seeing other guys and getting barraged on tindr. better keep her in line or she will forget about you like the rest of flock, and sheep.

 

[CopeForLife]

This. Just this. One sentence to sum up all my years of misery, mockery and suffering. All because I'm a genetic trainwreck. It would be easier if I weren't even mocked for it. God, even a user of this forum made fun of me: he gave me a good reputation point because he found my story amusing. He called me "poor incel" and defined my condition as "funny, though miserable". He basically said "Hahaha poor, patethic loser. Sorry bro". I'm used to it, though, every day of my life is like this.

Was it a @zircon?

 

[Saurabhaj]

My crush once said she want to love and marry someone who will like me..accept me.
I said i really liked you,accepted you as it is.

She said things are not the way you understand..
Don't go on my looks.

Even when i was truely proposing her,she rejected me.

Those who said ..
It depends on who can pull up the bald looks.
I want to say..

No man on this planet can pull of the bald look.

Looks are not personality.

World love jason statum,vin diesel,all the rest guys because of their physical presence,their face,their voice ,there acting,there style.there attitude.there charisma,there fame.

They are not pulling looks.

Looks are ...
Every girl who will fall for a guy just by looking at his face and his smile..on facebook page even without know how the fcc that guy is.

 

[CopeForLife]

Even if you have sex with the woman as a bald guy, it won't last long.

I was almost there with my ex who was 1 point below me and deeply in love.

But no, my looks were no match for an abortion. Had I been more good-looking, she would not have left me after that incident.

Now, I'm just having one night stands and flings, maybe one girl could become a long-term mate, but one day she will wake up and realize that I'm not that great(-looking).

Even if you're a tall above average man like me, you can't win these days. The truth is that you cannot have flaws at all: I have balding and a skinny body. Game over.

All you can hope is a relationship that will last one or two years, until she finally loses interest in you, especially after seeing so many better-looking guys pass by.

I won't play a game I can't win. If I had a full head of hair, I wouldn't be so pessimistic, but I know my value, and the women I go out with know it too.

Women have been lied to by the mainstream media, Hollywood movies and TV shows, their friends (also influenced by this BS).

They all think life is like Sex and the City and Grey's Anatomy and that they will make it big in their career, travel the world, meet Mr. Big, in short have it all.

As men, there's nothing we can do against these forces that influence the women around us. Women are herd creatures, and they have little self-awareness.

They have Tinder and Tinder Plus now, they can travel to any other country in a few hours, before, you were competing with the men in your social circle, at worst in your neighborhood.

Now? You're competing with the whole f-ing planet, and women's hypergamy has no bounds. And you know what is bound to happen: the same that has been seen on that Bachelorette TV show.

Women are wired to reproduce with the best-looking man around. It's biological and there's nothing they can do about it.

Imagine being in underwear in bed with a gorgeous woman beside you for the night. How long would it take before you jump on her?

It's the same for women when they see a genetically superior man around. They'll have this uncontrollable urge to be with him.

Knowing that, I don't see how I could ever commit myself to any woman and how I could stay faithful. I know I'm going to lose anyway, so why even bother being a good guy?

Only good-looking men can be faithful without losing their partner. I saw it with my cousin who is good-looking and already 5 years with his girlfriend (soon to be wife).

She would do anything to keep him around, she has this jealousy in her eyes, this admiration, like the ones you see on the pictures David posted above.

I cried today. Literally. Just saw this post and... If you as looking about average has these problems and taking in mind my experience... Fuk our generation. I don't blame these people but still.

 

[Hairon]

Even if you have sex with the woman as a bald guy, it won't last long.

I was almost there with my ex who was 1 point below me and deeply in love.

But no, my looks were no match for an abortion. Had I been more good-looking, she would not have left me after that incident.

Now, I'm just having one night stands and flings, maybe one girl could become a long-term mate, but one day she will wake up and realize that I'm not that great(-looking).

Even if you're a tall above average man like me, you can't win these days. The truth is that you cannot have flaws at all: I have balding and a skinny body. Game over.

All you can hope is a relationship that will last one or two years, until she finally loses interest in you, especially after seeing so many better-looking guys pass by.

I won't play a game I can't win. If I had a full head of hair, I wouldn't be so pessimistic, but I know my value, and the women I go out with know it too.

Women have been lied to by the mainstream media, Hollywood movies and TV shows, their friends (also influenced by this BS).

They all think life is like Sex and the City and Grey's Anatomy and that they will make it big in their career, travel the world, meet Mr. Big, in short have it all.

As men, there's nothing we can do against these forces that influence the women around us. Women are herd creatures, and they have little self-awareness.

They have Tinder and Tinder Plus now, they can travel to any other country in a few hours, before, you were competing with the men in your social circle, at worst in your neighborhood.

Now? You're competing with the whole f-ing planet, and women's hypergamy has no bounds. And you know what is bound to happen: the same that has been seen on that Bachelorette TV show.

Women are wired to reproduce with the best-looking man around. It's biological and there's nothing they can do about it.

Imagine being in underwear in bed with a gorgeous woman beside you for the night. How long would it take before you jump on her?

It's the same for women when they see a genetically superior man around. They'll have this uncontrollable urge to be with him.

Knowing that, I don't see how I could ever commit myself to any woman and how I could stay faithful. I know I'm going to lose anyway, so why even bother being a good guy?

Only good-looking men can be faithful without losing their partner. I saw it with my cousin who is good-looking and already 5 years with his girlfriend (soon to be wife).

She would do anything to keep him around, she has this jealousy in her eyes, this admiration, like the ones you see on the pictures David posted above.

That's some bs, not all of it, but some.
if a girl is physically attracted to you, that doesn't end, she doesn't stop being attracted to you after 1-2 years unless you become fat or something, so saying "I cannot be with a girl over 1-2 years because she stops being attracted to me" is bs, physical attraction doesn't end if it's there from the start, at the core. the only attracted that ends is attraction to your character or to you as a person.

And saying that only hot people can be faithful without losing their partner is BS as well, there are many hot people around, if you're hot and dating a hot girl for few years but she is bored of you and gets sick of your sht or her attraction to your character dies, do you think she wouldn't cheat with another hot guy? a hot guy that gives her that extra that she no longer sees in you?

no one is safe, and there is always a hotter person around, it's just a different league, but still a competition, average guys are on their league and there is always the risk that one will cheat with a hotter person, but hot people have their own league and there is still a chance that hot people will cheat on each other with other or hotter people

Fred, Looks isn't really -everything-, it's almost everything, 90% everything, you think if you were hot you'd be immune to getting cheated on? you're wrong, the truth is hot people cheat on each other all the time.
they just have many options and don't want to settle down, and if they start getting some BS from their spouse they can immediately get laid with someone by just requesting.
simple proof of that is all those hot celeb couples who end up cheating on each other after awhile, both hot, yet they get cheated on.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Fccrtard..
Delete this suicide frog pic.

Learn to communicate with moral standards.