Another Example Of A Bald Man Finding His Soul Mate.

[SmoothSailing]

They're empowering trash people, considering there's plenty of other women out there just pick another one that doesn't have a kid from 4 different fathers, there's a line that shouldn't be crossed.

So you think these guys are choosing these women despite having better options? (I don't)

 

[SmoothSailing]

You dislike most women, then.

Well in a way I dislike most people, in another way I realize we're all shitty and that's just the way it is, often no point hating.

A better way to put it is I think the women are more deserving of criticism here than the men. I don't automatically dislike a woman who uses a guy as a provider, nor do I automatically hate these providers.

 

[resu]

So you think these guys are choosing these women despite having better options? (I don't)

I don't know, the ones I know are the male version of the basic b**ch.

 

[blackg]

They're empowering trash people, considering there's plenty of other women out there just pick another one that doesn't have a kid from 4 different fathers, there's a line that shouldn't be crossed.

You make it sound like a shopping trip.
Matters of the heart are a bit more complex, even for the betas.

 

[Dante92]

You make it sound like a shopping trip.
Matters of the heart are a bit more complex, even for the betas.

"Matters of heart" Please.

 

[resu]

You make it sound like a shopping trip.
Matters of the heart are a bit more complex, even for the betas.

Isn't that how online dating works? The guy is good looking and in shape, no reason to scrap the bottom of the barrel. Just think of how much money the guy is burning with that huge family.

I've hit rock bottom and even I wouldn't just go out with anyone even if the opportunity appeared (which it doesn't), these are weak minded people.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Isn't that how online dating works? The guy is good looking and in shape, no reason to scrap the bottom of the barrel. Just think of how much money the guy is burning with that huge family.

Well this guy in particular I don't consider to be a 'beta provider'. Maybe he is, in which case he deserves criticism. But I have no problem if some guys don't mind getting with a woman who has kids. So long as the wife is genuinely interested in him then I think you guys are just hating on this guy because he has different views than you.

 

[blackg]

Isn't that how online dating works? The guy is good looking and in shape, no reason to scrap the bottom of the barrel. Just think of how much money the guy is burning with that huge family.

I've hit rock bottom and even I wouldn't just go out with anyone even if the opportunity appeared (which it doesn't), these are weak minded people.

Well, yes, they probably are weak minded, somewhat. But that's why these girly men need a woman with 5 or so kids.
They need the comfort and stability.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Well I don't know if half of them will actually be bald.
Maybe half of them will experience some frontal recession.
That's usually more realistic.

Yes, but once they have some hair loss they will no longer take the piss out of baldies because it is their fate too

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Baldness in the 30s is rare maximum 20-30 % are bald in their 30s!

High bald rate will you find in men in their 50s, 60s! Max. 50 %

Complete baldness as in nw7 is very rare for 30s but there are tons of nw3 and nw4s in their 30s.

Its healthy when you are surrounded by lots of people with hair loss - its better for the self esteem knowing that most people go through it.

 

[CopeForLife]

How do you always find more info on these people? You are like a private investigator.

It's my side job. Hire me.

 

[EvilLocks]

In the long run we're all fucked, even chads eventually grow old and unwanted. Something to keep in mind, we all end up the same way

This. Women before men, though - you're ''lucky'' in that way. Youth is so fleeting, and it kills me that I've wasted so much of it because of hair loss. I'd give anything to have the last 4.5 years of my life back, but I know that's not possible so all I can do is try to make the most of the present and future.

 

[CaptainForehead]

This. Women before men, though - you're ''lucky'' in that way. Youth is so fleeting, and it kills me that I've wasted so much of it because of hair loss. I'd give anything to have the last 4.5 years of my life back, but I know that's not possible so all I can do is try to make the most of the present and future.

How did this switch in your viewpoint happen EL? I'm curious about the process. Just two months ago, you had a very different outlook.

 

[hairblues]

I think reason i don't see him as a beta is because he can leaver her much easier than she can leave him.

That dynamic alone gives him 'power' or dominance in relationship.

 

[resu]

I think reason i don't see him as a beta is because he can leaver her much easier than she can leave him.

That dynamic alone gives him 'power' or dominance in relationship.

Watch this, it's the same everywhere, the guy has to have some upper-hand for the relationship to work, it's at around 6:12.

youtu.be/I33E4yBoJvY?t=6m12s

 

[EvilLocks]

How did this switch in your viewpoint happen EL? I'm curious about the process. Just two months ago, you had a very different outlook.

I think I've always known, but I've forced myself to believe I was doing the right thing by isolating myself. It felt safe and comfortable being at home alone all the time for a while, then I slowly started realizing what I already knew from the start - that I was wasting my days, months and years - for nothing. I guess I deluded myself into thinking the best thing for me would be isolation - that way I wouldn't get hurt. However I've wasted a lot of opportunities by doing this, something I'm now paying for.

 

[Xander94]

I think I've always known, but I've forced myself to believe I was doing the right thing by isolating myself. It felt safe and comfortable being at home alone all the time for a while, then I slowly started realizing what I already knew from the start - that I was wasting my days, months and years - for nothing. I guess I deluded myself into thinking the best thing for me would be isolation - that way I wouldn't get hurt. However I've wasted a lot of opportunities by doing this, something I'm now paying for.

Pretty much the tldr version of the story of everybody in this forum lul

 

[shookwun]

Embrace, and accept your fates.

http://gatebox.ai/

 

[CopeForLife]

Embrace, and accept your fates.

http://gatebox.ai/

I like his apartment

 

[hairblues]

Watch this, it's the same everywhere, the guy has to have some upper-hand for the relationship to work, it's at around 6:12.

youtu.be/I33E4yBoJvY?t=6m12s

This is true.

a woman HAS to respect a man she is with or she will get bored and leave OR cheat.

and that respect is really only going to come if he is slightly more successful/smarter etc than her.

I think in 20s this is more LOOKs oriented i think a little older its financial/sucessful standing in comparison to hers and also in comparison to friends mates.