Anyone else Hate Down lights

[zdm632]

It's time you come back to reality zdm.

in your opinion...
What, am i not right? How do you know what women consider attractive at a guy?? I'm very interested in your response.
There are bald men and ....bald men. Yes, some of them look bad, but many look ok.
Bald men have dates, relationships, marriages, etc since old times.
Of course looks are important, but they are not ALL, as you pretend.
This is only my opinion, and no, i don't have any reality to come back to, i've done it already.
5-7 years ago i was thinking exactly like you, but there's something called "maturation", i suppose.
OF course, if you self-suggest yourself everyday that being bald it's a tragedy, and stuff like this, this is going to be your reality and you'll live a ****ty life. Bald+****ty on top. Why not bald+feeling fine. Don't wanna say be happy 'cause you're bald, but, anyway, not obsess and despair, on the contrary, acceptance.

 

[zdm632]

For a woman, a man has to be: handsome (symmetrical face), tall and a NW1. If he's not, then he has to have a high social status (teacher, bouncer, etc.) or a lot of money.

These are what attracts women. It is universal and not even debatable. All the rest is commentary and mental masturbation. And don't start talking about confidence.

A short bald average guys is supposed to be confident about what?

These are stereotypes. I'm quite surprised about you thinking like this, like every woman is programmed to only like what you said above.
Did i say something about confidence?
Looks are important, at first sight of course, but then, personality is important too. Would you live with a 10/10 rich woman, if she had a ****ty personality and drove you insane all day long? I don't think so...
Looks are the most important, everything if you want, only for dating another female each day/week or for short adevtnrues based mostly on sex. At this chapter, yes, it's like you said. But there comes a point in your life when you would like to settle down and focus on more elevated things to do in life than just dating and banging hot women.

 

[billybob mcdougal]

Youre obsession with the opposite gender is going to be the demise of you. Theyre nothing special, c*m buckets that's all.

 

[2bald2young]

These are stereotypes. I'm quite surprised about you thinking like this, like every woman is programmed to only like what you said above.
Did i say something about confidence?
Looks are important, at first sight of course, but then, personality is important too. Would you live with a 10/10 rich woman, if she had a ****ty personality and drove you insane all day long? I don't think so...
Looks are the most important, everything if you want, only for dating another female each day/week or for short adevtnrues based mostly on sex. At this chapter, yes, it's like you said. But there comes a point in your life when you would like to settle down and focus on more elevated things to do in life than just dating and banging hot women.

No, Fred is right. I think you once heard of natural selection. In general men and women are trying to find the "best" genes to reproduce with. This all happens unconscious therefor you can't choose who you attracted to or who not since your brain is genetically programmed to automatically do that for you. Look at the history for length for example and you will notice that humanity got taller. Guess how that happened. And what are good male genes in the current rules of nature? Everything that Fred listed for example.

Yes, personality can be important but it is not the core aspect of attraction in humans. If someone is available or not can increase or decrease it but it is not the core aspect.

EDIT: Looks are and will always be very important in someones life.

 

[Exodus2011]

i'm not the biggest fan of sluthate . . . . .but they have a strong core of logic to what they say . . . .and as sluthaters would say . . . . .

zdm is blue-pilled to ****

 

[winnyblues]

in your opinion...
What, am i not right? How do you know what women consider attractive at a guy?? I'm very interested in your response.
There are bald men and ....bald men. Yes, some of them look bad, but many look ok.
Bald men have dates, relationships, marriages, etc since old times.
Of course looks are important, but they are not ALL, as you pretend.
This is only my opinion, and no, i don't have any reality to come back to, i've done it already.
5-7 years ago i was thinking exactly like you, but there's something called "maturation", i suppose.
OF course, if you self-suggest yourself everyday that being bald it's a tragedy, and stuff like this, this is going to be your reality and you'll live a ****ty life. Bald+****ty on top. Why not bald+feeling fine. Don't wanna say be happy 'cause you're bald, but, anyway, not obsess and despair, on the contrary, acceptance.

havent posted here in a while
but you are dumb
dumb
dumb
naive
dumb
dumb
dumb
please
look
at
reality
instead
of
your
delusional views
f*ck sakes
for example i went out clubbing last night (wearing a hat/although i do have a shaved head)
I purposely looked at the amount of bald guys i saw
0
0 in a place of 500+ guys
so between ages of 18-30ish there were 0 bald dudes
and you are saying OK SOME GUYS LOOK OK BALD
YEAH THEY MIGHT LOOK OK BALD AND MIGHT GET WOMEN BUT THEY ARE NOT GETTIGN THE WOMEN THEY COULD POTENTIALLY BE GETTING
or
IF YOU ARE BALD IN YOUR 20s SAY GOODBYE TO YOUR DATING LIFE/ANY CHANCE WITH ANY WOMAN ABOVE 7/10. NO GIRL WOULD WANT TO GO OUT WITH A BALD GUY IN THEIR 20S
PERIOD

 

[winnyblues]

zdm go to any ****ign club and tell me how many fukcing bald guys you see
the answer is easy
****ING ZERO
people go to night clubs/gigs to have fun/party/dance/get loose/etc
so why is it that no BALD guys go to venues where 18-30 young pretty things go out to party?
CAUSE THEY KNOW THEY WON'T PULL A GIRL CAUSE THERES LIKE 99.9% guys with THICK NW1 hair

 

[Bassist]

Wait a few weeks and he'll come back to his senses.

It's just a phase, we've all had it from time to time when we were NW2-2.5.

Yup for me, it was all fun and games till the diffusion started. And the worst for me is still yet to come...I'm not even bald yet!

 

[winnyblues]

Only good thing about diffuse thinning is u can shave it to a 1 or no guard and no one can tell unless you are recedimg as well

 

[zdm632]

@winnyblues, calm down, dude.
You don't agree with me, i got it, but there's no need to insult me or have that over-reaction.
What does this tell about you?
You're kind of unstable.
I only expressed my opinion, i didn't pretend to have the universal truth.
And my opinion stronlgy remains despite your hysterical break-outs. Give me a break with your immaturity.

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Wait a few weeks and he'll come back to his senses.

It's just a phase, we've all had it from time to time when we were NW2-2.5.

Yeah, a few weeks, you tell this to me for over 6 months already.

 

[Exodus2011]

what norwood are you zdm?

 

[winnyblues]

Zdm your opinion is stupid and invalid in the real world
Keep your delusional amd false opinions to yourself
im 100 percent sure you are one of those bald losers who never got any women let alone are successful in life so you try to make it seem like you are better off bald
just stop posting stupid ****

 

[fullhead]

Hating down lights? You must be hating the Sun too.

 

[Emu]

Yes I hate the sun aswell,at least I can wear a hat outside.

 

[shookwun]

dont be a hat prisoner, don't be the THAT guy. we all know what's underneath, let that bald head breathe.

stop trying to fool everyone

 

[SayifDoit]

Its sad how people think a Hat is a solution to baldness, it only proves how insecure you are; of course those perfect heads of hair wouldn't ****ing know. Get swoll and tan LOL. Not that I think there is anything wrong with wearing a hat while balding, but you're lying to yourself if you think baldness doesn't bother you.

 

[winnyblues]

Im defs a hat prisoner. Thing is I have hair. Its just that I hate the way I look so I wear a hat. Other people just think I look normal

 

[bilboswaggins]

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Im defs a hat prisoner. Thing is I have hair. Its just that I hate the way I look so I wear a hat. Other people just think I look normal

you can get away with wearing a hat if you are young. ppl are less likely to suspect you are secretly balding and will assume you just like that look. When you are like 35 and wearing a cap everywhere you go, then they will know somethings up. my dad has a friend who is 40 and I've never seen him with his hat off. He wears it in his own home when i've been there so i can safely say he is bald underneath. [/FONT]

 

[winnyblues]

You're right bilbo, being young and wearing hat helps cause its in style and ok, but still sucks I dont feel comfortable in my own skin hence the need for a hat. With a hair transplant and some smp ill be ok
so annoying tho
eg today went to a going away dinner for a friend whos moving to japan and im sitting there and all of a sudden one of my friends takes my hat off and starts rubbing my head and calling me buddha

Then even later on the night he got his gf to pin me down whilst he tried to take my hat off to rub my head. Made me feel very insecure and sucks having to worrh about stupid **** like this at 23. Fml

 

[zdm632]

Yes, wearing a hat to hide baldness is not something i would support, but, really, if a dude likes to wear it, feels better that way, what are our problems with it?
I'm starting to get sick of these stereotypes and this "social conformism". Like society has to dictate that, if you're bald, you MUST always keep your head uncovered .
What for? If you like to use a hat, even if you're bald, what;s the big problem, if you like it?
Yes, i agree, using a hat all the time just to hide your hairloss/bald head is not right, but it doesn't need to be used with the purpose of hiding something.
LEt's say X is bald, but he doesn';t need to hide it, everybody knows, but simply he likes to wear a hat. What's the society's problem? Is society more happy to stare at his bald head?