Anyone Else Have Almost No Social Life?

[Rudiger]

It's confirmation bias @Dante, you see a good looking person and you seek out reasons to hate them. You need to f*****g grow up.

 

[DoctorHouse]

As much as I hate to admit it, you're both correct. My anger and frustration at those who made me suffer caused me to develop this "pigeonholing" self-defense mechanism against good-looking people in general, and as much as it turned out to be correct in most cases, I've been a complete dick to those few good-looking people who didn't want to mock me and even wanted to be friends with me. Only because, let's say for the sake of argument, 70% of them are sh*t, i should not treat the 30% like sh*t out of some black-white morality, even if it's easier and simpler and spares me lots of pian.

Good post Dante. There is an exception to every rule.

 

[Dench57]

i think this threads gonna be f*****g epic when everyone else gets up

just catching up now, this gon be gud

 

[hairblues]

What I wrote doesn't contradict what I said; I'm an excellent judge of character and when I judged people I was never disappointed by the result. What I did wrong, though, is simply keeping people at a distance despite their best intentions, that's what I meant. I wasn't wrong about you, and your last messages prove it. I merely needed to provoke you enough to prove it without looking for old messages: all I needed was you writing new ones for me. I knew a pretentious guy like you could not resist. Thank you, by the way.

Okay I am clueless

What do you think you proved exactly?

that when he is provoked he hits back hard?

 

[DoctorHouse]

It's confirmation bias @Dante, you see a good looking person and you seek out reasons to hate them. You need to f*****g grow up.

Give him a chance, he is doing his best. Let's face it, we all need to grow up eventually. However, its human nature and perfectly normal to revert back to our "inner child". I think in this case, both of you reacted with your "inner child". Its good to get some of that anger out but don't let this virtual world become a reality for you.

Dante is just a guy who wants some acceptance because he does not get enough of it in the real world. And if you don't want to give that to him, that is your choice. I still do because I do see something maybe you don't. I know what its like to be bullied. And the twist here is that I was considered good looking. Unfortunately, I let those bullies take away my self esteem and I felt below average no matter how much people told me I was wrong. And not only that but I let them take away my identity and that really was a huge handicap for someone who was supposedly good looking. And I know this does not compare to what Dante has experienced. I still know what its like to mocked and bullied to the point I can still get triggered even at my age. So like I said before, we all need to grow up.

 

[Rudiger]

just catching up now, this gon be gud

It's kinda like when a good film seems to be drawing dead and then an unlikely twist happens halfway through.

What I wrote doesn't contradict what I said; I'm an excellent judge of character and when I judged people I was never disappointed by the result. What I did wrong, though, is simply keeping people at a distance despite their best intentions, that's what I meant. I wasn't wrong about you, and your last messages prove it. I merely needed to provoke you enough to prove it without looking for old messages: all I needed was you writing new ones for me. I knew a pretentious guy like you could not resist. Thank you, by the way.

You're a compulsive liar, stop pretending this was part of your little plan. Nothing I've said ties in with your original allegations, don't think that's gone away.

I'm saying you're sub-human because of your ways of making ridiculous assumptions rational, and also pretending that you are constantly heckled.

I've called you out in this before, as others have, and you couldn't give examples because I didn't deserve it or I didn't understand, AKA bullshit excuses.

No doubt you'll see me calling you out on it again now.

 

[Dench57]

I wasn't wrong about you, and your last messages prove it. I merely needed to provoke you enough to prove it without looking for old messages: all I needed was you writing new ones for me. I knew a pretentious guy like you could not resist. Thank you, by the way.

 

[rclark]

This thread escalated real fast. In all honestly, this forum has become like a family for some of us. An addiction to an alternate social life we find safe and anonymous. A social life were we share some common grounds like social anxiety, depression, and BDD or some form of OCD. Oh yes, and of course to all different levels, hair loss. So I can see how this bottled anger has thrusted out of the minds of some of our great posters. I am truly hopeful after the "make up sex", the sanctity of this truly great forum will be restored once again. And the love for Dante, Rudinger, Exodus, and Johnson will be restored once again by "our family".

This place is like family. Hopefully it will be restored. Who knows.

 

[hairblues]

Give him a chance, he is doing his best. Let's face it, we all need to grow up eventually. However, its human nature and perfectly normal to revert back to our "inner child". I think in this case, both of you reacted with your "inner child". Its good to get some of that anger out but don't let this virtual world become a reality for you.

Dante is just a guy who wants some acceptance because he does not get enough of it in the real world. And if you don't want to give that to him, that is your choice. I still do because I do see something maybe you don't. I know what its like to be bullied. And the twist here is that I was considered good looking. Unfortunately, I let those bullies take away my self esteem and I felt below average no matter how much people told me I was wrong. And not only that but I let them take away my identity and that really was a huge handicap for someone who was supposedly good looking. And I know this does not compare to what Dante has experienced, I still know what its like to mocked and bullied to the point I can still get triggered even at my age. So like I said before, we all need to grow up.

How is he looking for acceptance when he called out HI, Johnson and SHookwun in less then 10 hours time frame?

 

[Rudiger]

Give him a chance, he is doing his best. Let's face it, we all need to grow up eventually. However, its human nature and perfectly normal to revert back to our "inner child". I think in this case, both of you reacted with your "inner child". Its good to get some of that anger out but don't let this virtual world become a reality for you.

Dante is just a guy who wants some acceptance because he does not get enough of it in the real world. And if you don't want to give that to him, that is your choice. I still do because I do see something maybe you don't. I know what its like to be bullied. And the twist here is that I was considered good looking. Unfortunately, I let those bullies take away my self esteem and I felt below average no matter how much people told me I was wrong. And not only that but I let them take away my identity and that really was a huge handicap for someone who was supposedly good looking. And I know this does not compare to what Dante has experienced, I still know what its like to mocked and bullied to the point I can still get triggered even at my age. So like I said before, we all need to grow up.

I'm supposed to accept being randomly attacked in snidey rude ways when he knows I've been inactive?! People like you peddle his bullshit and make him the way he is.

 

[Rudiger]

And also @DoctorHouse I gave him his f*****g chance and he spat it back in my face when he decided I'm a good looking dick for no f*****g reason. I probably genuinely reasoned with him on a level most people refuse to go to, including you, and he became a bigger a**h** than ever, that is his defense mechanism.

 

[rclark]

I'm supposed to accept being randomly attacked in snidey rude ways when he knows I've been inactive?! People like you peddle his bullshit and make him the way he is.

Look, I'm not taking sides, I'm not. And I don't even bother you anymore, I don't.

You answered twice to him. You already said what you were going to say in your first response to Dante92.

How is he starting a fight between you and Dante? He's not.

 

[Rudiger]

I don't get it.

 

[DoctorHouse]

And also @DoctorHouse I gave him his f*****g chance and he spat it back in my face when he decided I'm a good looking dick for no f*****g reason. I probably genuinely reasoned with him on a level most people refuse to go to, including you, and he became a bigger a**h** than ever, that is his defense mechanism.

And if that is the case, it might just be better to walk away. You don't need to be the hero for all of us. Dante is no one to you. He is just a figment of your imagination. Have you actually ever seen him in real life? Why are you so reactive over someone who you have never met or never seen in person? The answer is simple. You don't like anyone to take away your power. So don't. This world is not your reality. As blackg would say, Give it some thought.

 

[Rudiger]

How is he starting a fight between you and Dante? He's not.

"Starting" you have a point but who started it? That's not even a question.

And he does it all the time, little cowardly remarks and often I let it go, don't tell me I should just put up with it.

I do realise you're just curious about the situation and there's no menace but I find your view that he's absolved of blame to be ridiculous.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I'm supposed to accept being randomly attacked in snidey rude ways when he knows I've been inactive?! People like you peddle his bullshit and make him the way he is.

Ok, I will play your game. Show me where I peddle his bullshit and make him the way he is.

 

[Rudiger]

And if that is the case, it might just be better to walk away. You don't need to be the hero for all of us. Dante is no one to you. He is just a figment of your imagination. Have you actually ever seen him in real life? Why are you so reactive over someone who you have never met or never seen in person? The answer is simple. You don't like anyone to take away your power. So don't. This world is not your reality. As blackg would say, Give it some thought.

This is nonsense man. Real talk.

 

[Dante92]

Ok, I'd say it's enough, seriously. As much as a civil war would make dench, sunchyme and many others happy, I don't wish that. This off-topic should end before the moderators clean it up. I'm not gonna answer or reply again. What had to be said has been said already and I recognized my own faults.

 

[Rudiger]

@DoctorHouse right here like 10 minutes ago.

Give him a chance, he is doing his best. Let's face it, we all need to grow up eventually. However, its human nature and perfectly normal to revert back to our "inner child". I think in this case, both of you reacted with your "inner child". Its good to get some of that anger out but don't let this virtual world become a reality for you.

Dante is just a guy who wants some acceptance because he does not get enough of it in the real world. And if you don't want to give that to him, that is your choice. I still do because I do see something maybe you don't. I know what its like to be bullied. And the twist here is that I was considered good looking. Unfortunately, I let those bullies take away my self esteem and I felt below average no matter how much people told me I was wrong. And not only that but I let them take away my identity and that really was a huge handicap for someone who was supposedly good looking. And I know this does not compare to what Dante has experienced. I still know what its like to mocked and bullied to the point I can still get triggered even at my age. So like I said before, we all need to grow up.

The same thing I always read about Dante, give him a chance, feel sorry for him, let him be an asshat because he's ugly.

That's what I meant by you peddling his bullshit, it wasn't a general case it was that specific post.

As for "playing my game" now I feel like you're just being a c***, you didn't have to say that. And do you think I care about being a hero here? You pretend to be this balanced nuanced individual but you do jump to conclusions rashly, I don't care if you do it in this pseudopsychological way it's still just as annoying.

I have every right to "play this game" as he specifically said there were posts when I apparently showed my true colours, and he throws in that they were apparently deleted anyway because of the forum meltdown that lasted what, a fortnight?

Like I said before, completely full of sh*t, and oh yes you are peddling it.

 

[DoctorHouse]

@DoctorHouse right here like 10 minutes ago.



The same thing I always read about Dante, give him a chance, feel sorry for him, let him be an asshat because he's ugly.

That's what I meant by you peddling his bullshit, it wasn't a general case it was that specific post.

As for "playing my game" now I feel like you're just being a c***, you didn't have to say that. And do you think I care about being a hero here? You pretend to be this balanced nuanced individual but you do jump to conclusions rashly, I don't care if you do it in this pseudopsychological way it's still just as annoying.

I have every right to "play this game" as he specifically said there were posts when I apparently showed my true colours, and he throws in that they were apparently deleted anyway because of the forum meltdown that lasted what, a fortnight?

Like I said before, completely full of sh*t, and oh yes you are peddling it.

I still love you Rudiger, no matter what you say. Game over.