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Anyone else here haven't dated in a long time?

Feelsbadman

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Been years since I dated a girl or had anything with a girl (Without paying for it)
that feel
sometimes i walk passed he cinema and think man i miss seeing afilm with agirl

but what can udo wmen do not like bald, short men.
 

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Your not missing out tbh tiktok and instragram has ruined this generation of young girls. Your better off becoming invested at a hobby or grinding making bank. The girls will follow probably
 

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You have been lying again. Post from May 16th:
lol i met a girl from a dating app and we spoke nd she aid i look tired that counts s a date but i mean a first date with a stranger that doesnt work out doesn't even count no sex wasnt fun or nothing
i mean dating a girl
 

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lol i met a girl from a dating app and we spoke nd she aid i look tired that counts s a date but i mean a first date with a stranger that doesnt work out doesn't even count no sex wasnt fun or nothing
i mean dating a girl
at least you're getting dates . how tall are you and what's your norwood status just wondering
 

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at least you're getting dates . how tall are you and what's your norwood status just wondering
nah im not my matches on tdating apps are horrible women i got lucky a month ago andthe girl i went on date with was average 4/10 at 5/10 and she said why do u look so tired and i wasted my time listening to her fr nothing
such is life for ab aldie
 

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nah im not my matches on tdating apps are horrible women i got lucky a month ago andthe girl i went on date with was average 4/10 at 5/10 and she said why do u look so tired and i wasted my time listening to her fr nothing
such is life for ab aldie
Well sounds like you went to the date depressed and made no effort

I went on dates with 4 different women in the last 2-3 weeks..
1st and 4th one ghosted me after the date. Got kisses from the 2nd girl, met her a few more times and almost smashed. Didn't want the 3rd girl.

Gotta keep trying bro, one date is far from enough!
 

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You have no idea how many girls curved/flaked/ghosted me before we met after initially showing interest.

Plus I've ghosted some girls myself because I realized that I was just bored and not really into them..

Only yesterday morning I got a text at 8am from a girl who was into me for a week, kept calling me handsome sending me kiss emojis talking about plans to be together, that last night she got back with her ex.

sh*t happens, maybe @iCloud can give you some advice from a female perspective.
 

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Also with the 2 girls who ghosted I realize it was partly my fault, I could've done more to keep them interested.
true but bro
i don't want toshatter your dreams but once u realise what its like being a chad its a differnt game
d u realize chads invite girls over from dating apps and instagram to smash
whereas us baldies and uglies have to go on date after date to "nearly smash"
lmao

when i was a chad before i lost my hair girls would do anything id go on a date aiwth a girl and 40 mins 1 hour later we are smashing in the car

now 4/10s dont evenwant otbe with me

its brutal

my ex paid for my date and smashed with minimal effort.

but its ok jsut be confident and keep trying!
th game was rigged
 

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true but bro
i don't want toshatter your dreams but once u realise what its like being a chad its a differnt game
d u realize chads invite girls over from dating apps and instagram to smash
whereas us baldies and uglies have to go on date after date to "nearly smash"
lmao

when i was a chad before i lost my hair girls would do anything id go on a date aiwth a girl and 40 mins 1 hour later we are smashing in the car

now 4/10s dont evenwant otbe with me

its brutal

my ex paid for my date and smashed with minimal effort.

but its ok jsut be confident and keep trying!
th game was rigged
Where are you from? If you're from Los Angeles or New York or something like that then yeah getting laid should be easier. But I live in a rather conservative place and girls from an app won't just come to my place without knowing me and let me smash.
 

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You have no idea how many girls curved/flaked/ghosted me before we met after initially showing interest.

Plus I've ghosted some girls myself because I realized that I was just bored and not really into them..

Only yesterday morning I got a text at 8am from a girl who was into me for a week, kept calling me handsome sending me kiss emojis talking about plans to be together, that last night she got back with her ex.

sh*t happens, maybe @iCloud can give you some advice from a female perspective.
Not really :) From what I hear from female friends, they have the same problems as you are experiencing. I think ghosting and being ghosted is becoming the norm.
My last online date was already 1,5 years ago. I’m not much into online dating, many weird experiences in the past, and also have been kind of seeing someone the last few years (no future, but strong feelings) and it’s been hard to extricate myself from that situation.
 

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true but bro
i don't want toshatter your dreams but once u realise what its like being a chad its a differnt game
d u realize chads invite girls over from dating apps and instagram to smash
whereas us baldies and uglies have to go on date after date to "nearly smash"
lmao

when i was a chad before i lost my hair girls would do anything id go on a date aiwth a girl and 40 mins 1 hour later we are smashing in the car

now 4/10s dont evenwant otbe with me

its brutal

my ex paid for my date and smashed with minimal effort.

but its ok jsut be confident and keep trying!
th game was rigged
But aren't you short? I was hearing that hair doesn't help a short guy so much. I showed somebody my photos and they said that I have good enough head shape, features etc and that it is likely my height more than my hair that is holding me back.
 

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Not really :) From what I hear from female friends, they have the same problems as you are experiencing. I think ghosting and being ghosted is becoming the norm.
My last online date was already 1,5 years ago. I’m not much into online dating, many weird experiences in the past, and also have been kind of seeing someone the last few years (no future, but strong feelings) and it’s been hard to extricate myself from that situation.
Damn.. maybe you need to look deeper into the situation with that guy and release yourself from that mental prison. Going on a date with a new guy when you are already attached to somebody else is kinda unfair to the new guy tbh.

How can you ensure you won't have "weird experiences" with people that you meet in different ways?

It's sad but gotta have a thick skin nowadays. Another girl just cut me off as we speak because I was "egoistic".
 

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Damn.. maybe you need to look deeper into the situation with that guy and release yourself from that mental prison. Going on a date with a new guy when you are already attached to somebody else is kinda unfair to the new guy tbh.

How can you ensure you won't have "weird experiences" with people that you meet in different ways?

It's sad but gotta have a thick skin nowadays. Another girl just cut me off as we speak because I was "egoistic".
Yes, that’s why I’m not going on dates at the moment, and have not been for a long time, except the one, which was at a time that I thought I was ready for it. I’m a very monogamous person anyway, and don’t fall in love with someone easily.

Egoistic? What did she base that on???
 

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Yes, that’s why I’m not going on dates at the moment, and have not been for a long time, except the one, which was at a time that I thought I was ready for it.
Egoistic? What did she base that on?
Well we were talking for a couple weeks. And I will be real, she is the sarcastic/arrogant type which I lowkey found annoying.

I asked her out yesterday and she replied with a voice message where she said "I have 3 options now: 1.) I will make an excuse to avoid it, 2.) I will say I'm not interested, 3.) I will take the blame on my own issues and wait while we keep talking until I feel more comfortable and see how it evolves, if you're still interested".

Started getting annoyed of her being cold and distant, not giving much back, felt very one sided. Today she left me on read twice in a row and then I said "you stay very cold and distant, no matter how hard I try to get closer to you, I don't know why I was even trying tbh, it should be natural".

She replied that she had a family emergency thing and that's why she wasn't available today and called me egoistic. I told her I'm sorry to hear about her situation and said talk to me later and let me know if everything is okay. She said "no thanks I'm not interested".

Honestly I feel like she was monitoring my behavior and waiting for the first thing I say that doesn't sit right with her so she can cut me off. Women seem to expect a man to be completely selfless and take all the sh*t from them without ever complaining.
 

justinbieberscombover

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Being selfless happens when you love the person.. not when you talk to a stranger whom you never even met. I don't get it. Their expectations are crazy from the start. A lot of guys play along and pretend to be selfless (I even saw YouTube dating coaches advising it) but do those girls want a guy to be his real self, flaws and all, or some fake "perfect" robot?

Anyway that girl seems very difficult to deal with, I'm looking for a more fun easy going positive girl but every girl that I talk to who isn't trashy seems to carry a baggage.
 
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