Well we were talking for a couple weeks. And I will be real, she is the sarcastic/arrogant type which I lowkey found annoying.
I asked her out yesterday and she replied with a voice message where she said "I have 3 options now: 1.) I will make an excuse to avoid it, 2.) I will say I'm not interested, 3.) I will take the blame on my own issues and wait while we keep talking until I feel more comfortable and see how it evolves, if you're still interested".
Started getting annoyed of her being cold and distant, not giving much back, felt very one sided. Today she left me on read twice in a row and then I said "you stay very cold and distant, no matter how hard I try to get closer to you, I don't know why I was even trying tbh, it should be natural".
She replied that she had a family emergency thing and that's why she wasn't available today and called me egoistic. I told her I'm sorry to hear about her situation and said talk to me later and let me know if everything is okay. She said "no thanks I'm not interested".
Honestly I feel like she was monitoring my behavior and waiting for the first thing I say that doesn't sit right with her so she can cut me off. Women seem to expect a man to be completely selfless and take all the sh*t from them without ever complaining.