lol alright^^
Anyone else here haven't dated in a long time?
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Skimmed a bit, most of it is PUA garbage that I hate (overthinking about every little situation) but there is some merit truth to the approach I suppose.. my female friend tells me the same thing.. she says that I have the looks and I just need to learn how to play a bit "hard to get" to make the woman feel like she has to put in work and earn me. Basically I'm a male wh*** lol jk
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that works just on its own when you got enough going on in your life...
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yeah having no life is seriously an issue, you wh***!!
-it can be boring
-not much to talk about sooner or later
-also not much to show the other person
-its easy to just fall into a spiral
well and for replying and making yourself rare, that honestly works all by itself... like im always busy with something, it can happen that i just forget to reply... its not even on purpose... or it just takes a bit longer, most dudes write like a second after they get a message...
for me it is usually better to write in the mornings when i am at work, while in the evenings or on weekends it is difficult to reach me and i would respond like when im on the train or something...
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I can't live without dates for too long. Some people are addicted to drugs, alcohol and cigarettes and I am addicted to dating. Had only two this week. Mostly using black dating these days and tinder from time to time. First date is a great way to meet someone new and it is always interesting to see the person you know from online in real life. I didn't have too many disappointments so far)
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it's been 3 years for me now.. and even that was with a foreign woman abroad..
Last time i was with a British woman was 2015 i think
Last time i was with a British woman was 2015 i think
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Major upgrade.
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I was single for 2 years after my divorce. Few months ago i met "her". Beautiful, kind, funny... There is only one thing which is not clear for me... She still has her profile on mega personal detroit (a site where we met). What is your opinion, should i talk to her? Or should i wait a bit longer and hope she does it herself?
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You are lucky to have divorced at all, nowadays I cannot even get a girl to look at me let alone marry her
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Haven't dated in many years. Not because I can't get a date. It's because I choose not to. I love and need my space. I really like being alone. I know for a fact I could do well on a dating site as my friends and lady friends tell me to try it because I would clean up. Lol! But I just don't want to. I have plenty of drive, and I can still hit up bars and get one nighters, which I actually think is fine, because when they leave the next morning, I'm back to having my space and freedom.
I'm just one of those people who doesn't get lonely or is super needy when it comes to women.
I'm just one of those people who doesn't get lonely or is super needy when it comes to women.